Nature Debate
Nature — biology as the basis of human behavior.
Predispositions, dominant traits, DNA, hormones, and reproductive capacities.
Nurture Debate
Nurture — socialization as the basis of human behavior.
Common terms: learned behavior and institutionalized roles.
Babies are socialized before they’re even born.
Gendered names, clothing, toys.
Definition of Sex
Sex — the biological identity of a person.
Female, male, and intersex.
Biological sex usually triggers societal expectations for behavior.
Definition of Gender
Gender — socially learned behaviors and expectations.
culturally based.
a continuum of feminine and masculine traits.
Case of David Reimer
Born as a male named Bruce Reimer, as an identical twin.
Both twins were circumsiced to prevent and stop infections, but David’s penis was cauterized entirely.
A doctor suggested that the parents raise him as a girl and use sex reassignment surgery.
Bruce was renamed Brenda.
Later, when David found out, he was horrified and changed his name to David.
David became an advocate for intersex people.
He died by suicide (shot to the head), and his brother, Brian, died by overdose two years prior.
Gender Socialization
How we learn gender.
Socialization — the process of learning norms and values.
All societies use sex and gender as a primary category of social relations.
To structure relationships, allocate labor, assign power, and define identity.
Gender is entirely culturally linked.
Gender roles are assigned depending on a culture and its norms and values.
Identification Theory
Children learn gender-appropriate behaviors, attitudes, and emotions by unconsciously modeling themselves after their same-sex parent.
Children learn and internalize traits of their same-sex parent.
Social Learning Theory
Argues that children learn gender roles through observation, imitation, and reinforcement.
Children are rewarded for “gender-appropriate” behavior and punished for ‘‘inappropriate” behavior.
Kids imitate same-sex role models (parents, teachers, media figures) because they see these behaviors as socially validated.
Children are not unconscious and actively observe and choose behaviors.
Gender Doing Theory
Gender isn’t something we are—it’s something we do in everyday interactions.
It’s a continuous performance shaped by cultural norms and reinforced through social behavior.
People “do gender” through actions, such as clothing, speech, and mannerisms, to align with societal expectations.
Gender meanings derive from culture (pink is for girls, blue is for boys).
Gender is fundamentally a result of social interaction.
Components of Sexual Orientation
Behavioral Component:
Context matters, such as prisoners who engage in same-sex behaviors, but will not once released from prison. This is because there was no access to women.
One can engage in same-sex behaviors and not identify as homosexual.
Attraction Component:
Who a person is attracted to may differ from their sexual behavior.
Identity Component:
How individuals label themselves.
Statistics of men and women and components of sexual orientation:
Engaged in same-sex behavior:
5.2% of men; 12.5% of women
Same-sex attraction:
6.1% of men; 16.1% of women.
Identifies as homosexual:
2.8% of men; 4.6% of women.
Why Exact Data on Sexual Orientation Is Difficult
Vast spectrum.
Factors That Influence Sexual Orientation
Gender nonconformity — behaviors or appearances that don’t align with societal expectations associated with the person’s sex or gender.
50-75% of males who show gender nonconformity become gay.
There is no “tomboy” behavior linked to females.
Social learning theory — psychological theory that emphasizes learning through observation, imitation, and modeling within a social context.
Some believe orientation is in DNA.
Researcher found differences in the hypothalamus between heterosexual and homosexual brains.
However, this research faced backlash from the gay community as it meant there’d be an opportunity to “fix” the “issue” that is homosexuality.
Fraternal birth order — research study suggests the more boys a family has, the chances of a gay boy increases each time.
Increased chance by 1/3.
Female antibodies responsible.
May be to reduce competition for partners for reproduction.
Coming Out Process
Can be a very difficult process for many people.
One can practice with friends.
Or a two-stage process with parents.
Come out one day, then talk about it the next.
Sambia
Tribal group from Papua New Guinea
Around 7-10, boys are separated from women and undergo ritualized homosexuality as part of their transition to manhood.
Boys perform fellatio on older males to ingest their semen and to gain strength and masculinity.
As they grow older, they become semen donors for younger boys beginning their sambia ritual.
Once they have married, they cease homosexuality and focus on heterosexual behaviors.
Mother’s breastmilk is considered toxic to young boys and is sometimes induced to vomit or induce nose bleeds to expel the milk.
Two-Spirt People
Indigenous term to describe individuals who embody both masculine and feminine spirits or transcend traditional gender roles.
Many were androgynous and cross-dressed.
Male and female individuals may take on roles of the other gender.
Male-bodied two-spirits might weave, cook, or become spiritual leaders.
Female-bodied two-spirits could hunt, lead wars, or refuse marriage.
There are multiple Native American variations of the two-spirit people.
Two-spirit people is not just about sexuality, but primarily gender identity and social function.
E.g., a two-spirit male living as a woman is married to a cisgender man, which is seen as heterosexual.
Two-spirit people assumed various cultural roles such as healers, shamans, matchmakers, warriors, hunters, and keepers of oral traditions.
Hijras
Hijras are a traditional third-gender or transgender community found primarily in South Asia, particularly in India.
Hijras may be born as male or intersex, but identify as female.
Genetically male and get their genitals removed.
Some work in prostitution.
Katoey
A term used in Thailand most commonly used to describe transgender women and feminine gay men, but can include a variety of gender-diverse individuals.
Gender diversity is influenced by Buddhism and karma from their previous life determines their gender identity in their current life.
Stranger Rape
Rapes by strangers are more likely to be reported.
Acquaintance Rape
Most women 18+ are raped by an acquaintance.
Most rapes are committed by someone known to the victim.
38% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance.
28% are an intimate.
7% are a relative.
More blame to the victim when a rape is committed by an acquaintance.
There’s generally less violence in acquaintance rapes vs. stranger rapes.
many victims date the person after the event.
Date Rape
Date rape drugs include alcohol and roofies.
Odorless, tasteless drug dropped into a victim’s drink.
Traces of the drug are gone within 24 hours.
Victims become quickly intoxicated.
May pass out.
No memory of the events.
Characteristics of A Rapist
Rape is about power and to some extent sex.
Many serial rapists also engage in criminal activity.
May have difficulty forming relationships and may lack internal controls.
They tend to have adversarial relationships with women.
They believe they did nothing wrong and caused no real harm to their victims.
Rapists look for vulnerable women.
Definition of Sexual Coercion
Sexual coercion — verbal, emotional force for unwanted sexual activity.
Factors of Sexual Coercion
Both men and women can be victims of sexual coercion.
Men tend to be more physical while women tend to be more verbal.
College student study on sexual coercion:
78% of women; 58% of men.
Subject to persistent efforts even after refusing.
Level 1: sexual arousal
Level 2: emotional manipulation
Level 3: exploitation while intoxicated
Level 4: physical force
Compliance — agreeing to sexual activity when you don’t really want to.
Token resistance — women say “no” when they mean “yes” to avoid appearing too easy.
Sexual scripts and double standards.
Lack of Communication & Sexual Coercion
Some unwanted sexual experiences can be prevented with improved communication.
Prevention of rape includes:
Talk openly about sex.
Keep talking as you get deeper into the relationship.
Be aware of alcohol or other drugs.
Statutory Rape
Illegal for an adult to have sexual intercourse with anyone under the age of consent.
Age of consent varies from state to state.
Ages 14 - 18.