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Egoistic Violence

• Egoistic violence is closely linked to the concept of revenge.

• It is connected with the desire to make another suffer as a response to perceived wrongs.

• Baumeister emphasizes that the effectiveness of violence for achieving long-term goals is generally low, with significant exceptions involving asserting dominance.

The Death Penalty Example

• An example of egoistic violence is the death penalty.

  • When a murder occurs, the victim's family often pushes for the death of the murderer as a form of revenge.

  • This act does not restore the victim but provides the family with a sense of satisfaction or vengeance.

Threats to Self-Esteem

• Baumeister identifies threats to self-esteem as a catalyst for violent revenge.

  • Violence often stems from feelings of humiliation, disrespect, or embarrassment.

  • People react aggressively when their self-esteem is challenged.

Egotism Defined

• Egotism refers to having a high opinion of oneself.

• It differs from revenge; however, the two overlap significantly when individuals seek to restore their self-esteem through vengeful actions.

• Studies indicate people will endure losses (even monetary) to retaliate against those who humiliated them.

Self-Esteem Paradox

• Common belief: Low self-esteem breeds violence, suggesting aggressors act out to compensate for feelings of worthlessness.

• Baumeister challenges this belief, proposing that many violent individuals possess inflated self-esteem rather than low self-esteem.

  • He argues that violent behaviors often arise when someone’s self-perception is questioned or contradicted, leading to aggression.

Characteristics of Violent Individuals

• Aggressive individuals often hold narcissistic views of themselves; examples include historical figures like Saddam Hussein and Adolf Hitler.

• Individuals with antisocial personality disorder or psychopathy manifest elevated self-worth and are highly prone to violence despite having low empathy.

Bipolar Disorder and Violence

• In contrast to depression, which is not linked to violence, the manic phases of bipolar disorder can lead to aggressive behavior when individuals perceive threats.

• Manic individuals may react violently when they feel blocked or thwarted in their pursuits.

Stable vs. Unstable Self-Esteem

• High self-esteem doesn't inherently lead to aggression; however, threatened egotism can induce violent responses.

• People with unstable self-esteem are more sensitive to ego threats, which can escalate to aggression when their perceived worth is undermined.

Case Study: Elliot Rodger

• Elliot Rodger is a stark case of egoism leading to egotistic violence.

  • In 2014, he committed a shooting spree motivated by revenge against women who rejected him and men he believed were more successful.

  • He left behind a manifesto and multiple YouTube videos detailing his motivations and grievances, systematically blaming others for his lack of success in dating.

• His writings reveal a deep-rooted sense of superiority and entitlement, portraying himself as a victim of societal rejection, which culminated in acts of violence.

  • He expressed violent fantasies towards women, indicating a warped sense of self and deeply ingrained egotism.

  • Contradictory expressions of being a 'kind gentleman' while having committed violence showcase his inflated self-image.

Summary

• Egotism is a critical factor in understanding revenge-driven violence.

• Individuals react violently to threats against their self-esteem, which may be inflated and fragile.

• Real-world examples, such as Elliot Rodger, underline the danger of aggrieved egotism as it can lead to extreme and violent actions in pursuit of revenge.