Author: Robert Cialdini
Definition: Persuasion is essential in negotiation.
Importance: Mastering persuasion can significantly enhance negotiating effectiveness; it can be taught, learned, and applied.
Psychological Basis: A significant body of research outlines that persuasion follows basic principles.
Six fundamental principles of persuasion will be discussed:
Liking
Reciprocity
Social Proof
Consistency
Authority
Scarcity
Core Idea: To influence people, foster a likable rapport.
Key Factors:
Similarity: Being similar to someone increases their disposition to like you.
Example: A study indicated that salespeople who shared traits (age, habits, religion, etc.) with clients were more successful.
Praise: Offering praise engenders goodwill and openness.
Research shows that positive remarks tend to evoke liking in return and a willingness to comply.
Applications:
Find common interests to bond with colleagues or superiors (e.g., shared hobbies or interests).
Establish connections early to build rapport and support for ideas.
Ensure that praise is genuine to cultivate trust and likability.
Core Idea: People are inclined to return favors.
Examples:
Charitable organizations like St. Jude’s utilize this by including small gifts with their solicitations to enhance donation responses.
In the workplace, gifts from supervisors can result in increased employee support and goodwill.
Practical Tip: Providing help or assistance fosters a reciprocal obligation. Mention the importance of mutual support when you assist a colleague.
Core Idea: Individuals are influenced by the actions of others, particularly similar individuals.
Example:
Studies show that presenting a list of prior donors increases the likelihood that prospective donors will also contribute.
Application:
When proposing an initiative, highlight existing support from colleagues and departments to leverage social proof.
Core Idea: Commitments that are explicit, public, and voluntary lead individuals to stick to their word.
Study Insight:
Residents who signed a petition for a cause were more likely to donate when asked later compared to those who hadn’t committed initially (92% vs. 50%).
How to Enhance Commitment:
Secure commitments in writing and make them public.
Ensure commitments are made voluntarily to enhance durability.
Core Idea: Individuals defer to experts in areas requiring specialized knowledge.
Establishing Expertise:
Display credentials (e.g., diplomas) to visually reinforce authority.
In casual conversations, discuss relevant experience and past successes to establish credibility from the start of discussions.
Core Idea: Items perceived as scarce tend to be valued more.
Techniques:
Communicate limited availability or urgency (e.g., limited-time offers) to motivate action.
Exclusive information is more compelling than widely available facts, increasing the likelihood of engagement.
These six principles should be applied together for maximum effect in negotiations.
The genuine application promotes mutually beneficial outcomes.
Ethical Considerations: Manipulative use of these principles is both morally and tactically flawed.