SPED week 3
Evolution of Parent-Professional Relationships
Three distinct periods characterize history:
Antagonistic and adversarial relationships
Working partnerships
Parent empowerment and family-centered relationships
IDEA changed the status of parents from passive recipients of services to active participants and allies with professionals
The focal point of professionals’ attention shifted to the child’s family rather than just the parents
Timeline of Roles (Figure 4.1)
Late 1960s to mid/late 1980s: Parents as teachers of their children
1880 to 1950s: Parents as the cause of the child’s disability (eugenics movement)
1970s to the present: Families as political advocates
1930s to 1950s: Parents as founders of parent organizations and associations
Mid-1970s to the present: Parents as educational decision makers
1950s to 1960s: Families as developers of educational and service programs
Mid-1980s to the present: Families as partners with service providers
1950s to 1970s: Families as recipients of professionals’ decisions
Note: Eras do not represent discrete time periods; roles frequently overlap
Source: Turnbull et al., Families, Professionals, and Exceptionality (adapted), 2011
Parental-Professional Partnerships
Parents and families provide:
Developmental and historical information
Assistance in collecting data in non-school settings
The right to be involved
Advocacy for services
Reinforcement of school programs
Professionals provide:
Information
Training
Diagnostic evaluations
Advocacy
Facilitating Family and Professional Partnerships
Active listening
Establish an atmosphere of genuine caring
Be aware of verbal and nonverbal messages and their significance
Involve families in decision-making and keep them informed
Explain educational terminology
Acknowledge feelings
Be accountable
Developing Partnerships
Communication should be: clear, frequent, open, honest, positive
Demonstrate commitment through behaviors
Promote equity among team members
Build trust and mutual respect
Activity 4.1: Developing Partnerships with Parents
Review textbook suggestions for developing partnerships
Discuss with a partner, then share with the class
Defining Family
Defining family is a continuous process
A family consists of two or more people who live together and are related by:
Birth, marriage, adoption, or long-term mutual commitment
The family structure serves to feed, clothe, and meet the basic needs of the child
The family is a key component of the socialization of children
A Family Systems Approach
A family systems model sees the family as an interactive and interdependent unit
Turnbull family systems model components: four interrelated parts
Family characteristics
Family interactions
Family functions
Family life cycle
Family System Framework (Figure 4.2)
Inputs: Characteristics of the family
Personal characteristics
Special challenges
Interaction system: Daily and weekly interactions
Family functions: Includes finances, recreation, education or vocational choices
Outputs: Daily care, recreation, economics, education
Adaptability and cohesion are part of the process; the life cycle involves development stages and transitions
Diagram type: shows how inputs feed processes that produce outputs across the life cycle
Source: Turnbull & Turnbull, Families, Professionals, and Exceptionality: A Special Partnership, 2nd ed.
Federal Legislation and the Role of Parents and Guardians
IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Improvement Act) 2004:
Due process: legal safeguards professionals must follow during assessment and service delivery
Guaranteed rights beginning the assessment process
Guaranteed rights using the assessment information
Rights of Parents and Guardians under IDEA
Beginning the Assessment Process:
Right of notice
Right of consent
Right of evaluation
Right of an independent evaluation
Using the Assessment Information:
Right of participation
Right of notice
Right of access
Right to confidentiality
Right to hearing
Right to mediation (with school personnel)
Right to resolve differences (appeal to the state court system)
Family Life Cycle Issues (Table 4.2)
Stages: Early Childhood (Birth–Age 5), School Age (Ages 5–12), Adolescence (Ages 12–21), Adulthood (Ages 21+)
Parental Issues by stage:
Early Childhood: Obtaining an accurate diagnosis; informing siblings and relatives; locating services; seeking meaning in the exceptionality; clarifying personal ideology for decisions; addressing stigma; identifying positive contributions; setting great expectations; establishing routines to carry out family functions; adjusting emotionally to educational implications; clarifying mainstreaming vs. special class placement; participating in IEP conferences; locating community resources; arranging extracurricular activities
School Age: Locating resources; continuing IEP involvement; balancing school and home routines; maintaining expectations; coordinating with teachers; ensuring inclusion or appropriate placement
Adolescence: Planning for career/vocational development; arranging leisure; dealing with puberty; addressing emerging sexuality; planning for postsecondary education; guardianship considerations; adult implications of dependency; socialization outside the family; sibling involvement; addressing genetic concerns; preparing for in-laws; sibling advocacy roles
Adulthood: Guardianship considerations; career and living options; independence vs. dependence; peer/social opportunities; ongoing family support
Sibling Issues:
Less parental time for siblings; jealousy; fears about misunderstanding the exceptionality; division of care responsibilities; risk to oldest female sibling; resources and recreational limitations; informing friends/teachers; mainstreaming concerns; need for basic information
Other notes: The table emphasizes transitions and planning across the family life cycle
Stage Model of Parental Reaction to Disability (Figure 4.3)
Three phases over time:
Primary phase: Shock; Ambivalence; Bargaining; Denial; Guilt
Secondary phase: Adaptation and Grief and Depression; Anger; Shame and Embarrassment
Tertiary phase: Reorganization; Acceptance and Adjustment
Time evolves as parents move through the stages toward acceptance
Source: Gargiulo, Working With Parents of Exceptional Children: A Guide for Professionals (1985)
Disability and the Family
Marital relationships:
Studies show no difference in divorce rates between families with and without children with disabilities (Seligman & Darling, 2007; Meadan, Halle, & Ebata, 2010; Turnbull et al., 2015)
Reasons for stability or dissolution are not fully understood
Parent/child dynamics:
Mothers and fathers tend to react differently to the news of a child’s disability
Siblings and Disability
Siblings exhibit a wide range of adaptive responses influenced by:
Parental attitudes and expectations
Socioeconomic status
Severity and type of impairment
Family size
Sibling gender and age spacing
Child-rearing practices
Cultural heritage
Availability of support systems (Gargiulo & Kilgo, 2014; Seligman & Darling, 2007)
Outcomes for siblings are mixed
Resources for siblings include:
Workshops
Sibling Support Project
Grandparents and Disability
Grandparents show a wide range of emotional responses to the news
They are described as “the glue that holds the family constellation together” (Gearheart, Mullen, Gearheart, 1993)
They experience a dual hurt when a grandchild has a disability
Working With Families Who Are Culturally and Linguistically Diverse
Cultural sensitivity means awareness, respect, and appreciation for differences that shape values, priorities, and perspectives of individuals and families
Responding to Diversity (Key Considerations)
Areas to consider when working with families:
Aspirations
Assistance
Authority of the school
Child rearing
Communication
Disability
Family structure
Legal status
Literacy and language
Meetings and support groups
Parental roles
Transient status
Cultural Reactions to Disability: Classroom Suggestions (Slide 23)
Use the family’s desired language and preferred mode of communication
Recognize the importance of extended family members
Use culturally competent interpreters
Learn about culturally relevant variables
Participate in the local community
Develop working knowledge of the family’s language
Practical and Ethical Implications
Emphasis on partnership and shared decision-making aligns with inclusive education ethics
Respect for family autonomy and cultural values while ensuring access to appropriate services
Legal rights under IDEA protect families and guide transparent, collaborative assessment and eligibility processes
Attention to life-cycle transitions helps tailor supports and resources across developmental stages
Support for siblings and extended family acknowledges broader family ecology and long-term outcomes