Title: Need to Belong & Interpersonal Attraction
Course: PY0549: Social Psychology
Instructor: Dr Jenny Paterson
Contact: Jenny.Paterson@northumbria.ac.uk
Focus Areas:
Social and Forensic Psychology
Prejudice Against Various Relationship Statuses
Singlism
LGBTQ+ related prejudice
Interracial
Inter-religious
Reasons Behind Prejudice:
Social identity theory
Perceived threats
Intergroup contact
Impacts of Prejudice:
Affects relationship quality
Influences social support
Can affect resilience
Applied Work:
Handles impacts of hate crimes in various fields (Police, CPS, charities, media)
Research Focus: Love and hate
Weekly Breakdown:
Week 7: Need to belong & Interpersonal attraction
Week 8: Love, Relationships & Singlehood
Week 9: Benefits of Social Groups
Week 10: Drawbacks of Social Groups
Week 11: Prejudice Reduction Strategies
Week 12: Revision
Interaction Tool: Menti.com Survey on friendship factors
Key Topics:
Need to belong
Ostracism
Phubbing
Interpersonal attraction (liking)
Factors in attraction:
Physical attraction and averageness
Familiarity
Proximity
Similarity
Trust
Definition: A pervasive drive to form and maintain significant interpersonal relationships (Baumeister & Leary, 1995).
Function:
Motivates relationship development for safety and survival.
Considered a universal desire but varies:
Between individuals (extroverts vs. introverts)
Within individuals (increased need in certain emotional states)
Definition: Social exclusion resulting from being ignored (Williams et al., 2000; Wesselmann et al., 2023).
Key Questions:
Ambiguities: Is ostracism happening? Why?
Threats from Ostracism:
Need to belong severed
Self-esteem may be affected
Sense of control undermined
Quest for meaningful existence challenged
Phenomenon: Rising internet use leads to increased loneliness despite potential for connection.
Aim of Study: Replicate ostracism effects via a ball-tossing game (Williams & Sommer, 1997).
Measures: Threat to belonging, self-esteem, control, and meaningful existence.
Experiment Design:
Participants randomly allocated to conditions:
Overinclusion (67%)
Inclusion (33%)
Partial ostracism (20%)
Complete ostracism (0%)
Results: Ostracism significantly threatened belonging and self-esteem.
Study by Gonsalkorale & Williams (2007):
Participants indicated political preferences and played Cyberball with ingroup, outgroup, or despised outgroup.
Independent Variables:
Type of Players: ingroup/outgroup/ despised outgroup
Interaction Type: Inclusion vs. Ostracism
Findings: Ostracised participants reported needs unmet, including when ostracised by groups they disliked.
Conclusion: Ostracism is painful universally, irrespective of group affection.
Study by Eisenberger et al. (2003):
Linguistic observations recognize psychological/physical pain from ostracism.
Social bonds are vital for survival.
Observations: Neuroimaging studies indicate increased activity in pain-related brain regions during ostracism.
Definition: Ignoring others during physical interaction to use smartphones (Chotpitayasunondh & Douglas, 2018).
Experiment Design: Silent animation of two conversing individuals under conditions of phubbing.
IVs: No phubbing, Partial phubbing, Extensive phubbing
Findings: Phubbing led to decreased well-being and lowered relationship satisfaction.
Needs affected: Belonging, self-esteem, meaningful existence, control.
Concept: Attractiveness influences social perception (Dion et al., 1972).
Experiment: Participants rated attractiveness of individuals.
Findings: Unattractive individuals viewed less favorably, except concerning parental competence.
Attractive individuals benefit from:
Higher academic marks (Landy & Signall, 1974)
Increased earnings (Judge et al., 2009)
More dating opportunities (Langlois et al., 2000)
Self-fulfilling prophecy effects observed; attractive individuals perceived as more socially able.
What constitutes attractiveness? (Halberstadt & Rhodes, 2003)
Research by Langlois and Roggman (1990): Composites of faces rated more attractive than single images.
Conclusion: Familiarity with faces and adherence to prototypicality leads to perceived attractiveness.
Mere Exposure Effect (Zajonc, 1968): Repeated exposure to stimuli can enhance attraction.
Ongoing debates: Does familiarity breed contempt (Norton et al., 2007)?
Study Results: Repeated exposure through conversations increases liking.
Study by Festinger et al. (1950):
Investigation into how proximity influenced friendship patterns among students.
Findings: Strong correlation between physical proximity and friendship.
Research by Newcomb (1961):
Longitudinal study examining attitudes and friendships.
Findings: Initially favored proximity; later preferred similar attitudes.
Reasons similarity increases attraction:
Promotes psychological balance (Heider, 1948).
Reinforces worldviews (Byrne, 1971).
Studies indicating preference for like-minded individuals:
Attitude similarity enhances attraction.
Research by Cottrell et al. (2007): Trust is a fundamental desire in various relationships.
Different relationships demand different traits, but trust is consistently vital.
Trust considered essential across various interpersonal situations.
Studies emphasized importance of positive traits in relationship desirability.
Core readings:
Eisenberger, N. I., et al. (2003).
Reis, H. T., et al. (2011).
Recommended readings:
Chotpitayasunondh, V., & Douglas, K. M. (2018).
Zorn, T. J., et al. (2022).
Possible exam question: Critically evaluate two factors predicting interpersonal attraction.
Requirements:
Draw from relevant lectures
Discuss an essential paper from the reading list
Integrate information from other parts of the program
Upcoming Lecture: Love, Relationships, & Singlehood
Subjects: Being single vs. in a relationship.