health and wellness
- health: the condition of a person’s body, mind, emotions, and relationships
- wellness: a way of living each day that is based on healthy attitudes
- health triangle
- three corners – physical, social, mental
- ranges of health
- exist on a continuum:
- risk behaviors ←→ wellness behaviors
- premature death ←→ optimal health
- health status is a combination of the healthful and risk behaviors one selects during their life
- steps to optimal health
- determine current health status
- obtain information on how to stay healthy
- take action
- value: a standard or belief that is important to an individual
- character: a person’s use of self control to act on their values
- goal: a desired achievement to which a person works
- goal setting process:
- state your goal — make sure it’s specific, measurable, and realistic
- write it down and come up with an action plan (steps you need to reach the goal)
- set a target date to accomplish the goal and revise it when necessary
- keep track of your progress — this will encourage you to stick to your goal
- identify possible obstacles and people who can help you achieve your goal
responsible decision making
responsible decision making model: five steps
- note that often, responsible decisions are less popular
- identify the problem
- identify alternatives (solutions)
- apply criteria — healthy, legal, safe, respectful of self, respectful of others, respectful of parents, demonstrative of good character
- make a decision
- evaluate pros and cons or two pros to the decision
example of responsible decision making
- scenario: parents aren’t home, alcohol is present at a party (underage drinking, staying out of trouble)
2. solutions: | 3. healthy? | legal? | respectful of self? | respectful of others? | respectful of parents? | good character? |
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stay and drink | no | no | no | yes | no | no |
leave | yes | yes | yes | no | yes | yes |
stay and don’t drink | yes | no | ? | yes | no | yes |
- decision: leave
- pro: you won’t get in trouble; con: potentially leads to friend issues
peer pressure
peer pressure: [usually negative] influence from members of one's peer group
takes many different forms (four major types)
- friendly pressure: eventually saying yes, repetition
- teasing pressure: making fun, degradation
- heavy pressure: threats, experience loss
- unseen pressure: one’s pressures on oneself
refusal skills (the ability to refuse actions that don’t fit with responsible decision making) helps combat peer pressure
personality
- self esteem: confidence in self
- self concept: perception of self
- the three selves
- private self: how one acts when by oneself or with people they feel comfortable with
- public self: how one acts when they are with large groups of people or those they don’t know very well
- ideal self: how one would like to be or be perceived as
- personality types
- type A: leaders; a temperament characterized by excessive ambition, aggressive attitude, drive, and a focus on quantity over quality
- type B: followers; a temperament characterized by moderate ambition and drive, accommodating attitude, focus on quality over quantity, and generally easy going approach to life
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