Train accident
Memory of father in sea- connections with father
Ashima’s arranged marriage
Moushumi with Dimitri at school
Train Moushumi’s affair
Reading
Ashoke reading = opportunities
Education- Ashoke wants a better life in America, Moushumi reading = opportunity for a better life
Nikolai Gogol’s book significance at end- Gogol begins to read which shows his acceptance
Food
Ashima- feels closer to culture, way to bring people together, shows her nostalgia (thinks of India)
Bengali traditions- mourner’s diet, rice ceremony, tradition used to annoy him as a child
Trains (Love + Death)
Ashoke’s accident on train- moves to America, name
Gogol’s frequent visits to family on train
Ruth on train- first love
Finds out about Moushumi’s affair on train
Man killed on train- encourages Ashoke to be honest about namesake
Clothing
Ashima wears saris and sandals to feel closer to her identity
Identity
Namesake- confused
Bengali/American family culture- distance it creates
Resentment about name- distance with parents
Maxine- the relationship with her and her family reveals the identity he wants (‘American Dream’)
Ashoke’s death- brings him closer to his family and culture
Reason why he marries Moushumi- they share the same experience of being first generation immigrants
Immigrant experience
The characters change and develop as a result of the immigrant experience
Creates a divide/distance in the family but also brings family closer together near the end
Challenges for Ashima and Ashoke
Find it hard to relate to their children- language, food, etc
Racism- store owner choosing to speak to Gogol instead of parents
Driving
Modernisation- "the American way” “only in America”
Marriage- arranged marriage vs. dating and going through the process of falling in love + marriage
Challenges for Gogol
Parents have different traditions
His name
Relationships- doesn’t like Maxine because she’s not Bengali, introduces Moushumi to Gogol, guilty because their relationship didn’t work out
Celebrations
Food
Has to teach his parents about “the American way”