Two Spirit People

Identity and Culture

• The speaker identifies as having two moms and expresses a desire to discuss their life and identity.

• Refers to being part of the two-spirit tradition, which integrates both male and female aspects within an individual.

  • This perspective provides a unique worldview and deeper understanding of existence.

  • It conveys that being two-spirit is not to be seen as lesser but rather as an enhanced perception of life.

Terminology and Historical Context

• The term "Berdache" originated from a Persian word referring to a male slave kept for sexual purposes.

  • It was brought to Europe during the Crusades and later used by explorers and missionaries in reference to Native American individuals who did not fit traditional gender norms.

• No Native American languages authentically use the term "Berdache" or "Amazon."

  • For instance, the Apache term for a two-spirited person is "Haokia."

  • In Sahaptan, the term is (local term); in the Northern Piqua language, it is "tebuds."

Traditional Ceremonies and Gender Roles

• Basket and Bow Ceremony: A ritual among Great Basin tribes where a boy chooses between the bow (traditional male role) and the basket (two-spirit role).

• Gender roles in tribal contexts do not strictly adhere to biological definitions but are defined by community functions and behaviors.

  • Women in masculine roles might participate in hunting, while masculine Berdaches might engage in domestic arts such as beadwork and hide tanning.

Cultural Figures and Practices

• Wiwa: An exemplary Berdache from the late 19th century who balanced artistic abilities and traditional domestic roles.

  • He participated in male and female activities but was recognized spiritually as both gendered.

• Zuni cultural beliefs categorize beings as raw (youth/newborns) and cooked (socialized individuals) in their lifespan.

  • Wiwa's burial reflected his life: male clothes for his physical beginning and female adornments to honor his spiritual identity.

Spiritual Significance of Two-Spirited Individuals

• Individuals embodying both male and female traits are believed to transcend physical and spiritual realms, serving as conduits between the two.

• The concept of balance is emphasized, where the understanding of both perspectives (male and female) allows deeper connection to life and community dynamics.

• The ability to see beyond traditional definitions enhances one’s insight and understanding of the world.

Community Perspectives and Acceptance

• Berdaches were typically recognized by their families at an early age based on their interests and activities, leading them to receive appropriate socialization and roles within the community.

• Despite traditional acceptance, the contemporary experience of LGBTQ+ individuals in tribal communities varies significantly.

  • Some face rejection and banishment, while others find acceptance and encouragement to live authentically.

Reflection on Identity and Self-Understanding

• The speaker reflects on their journey of accepting their identity as a lesbian and acknowledges the struggle for appropriate terminology that encompasses their spiritual experience.

• The impact of historical traditions, such as Berdache roles, has influenced their understanding and comfort in their sexual orientation.

• Emphasis on "living your truth" as a spiritual choice challenges the script prescribed by mainstream culture.

Conclusion on Two-Spirit Existence

• The discussion hints at a broader understanding of gender and sexuality as non-binary, advocating for the recognition and acceptance of various identities beyond traditional Western categorizations.

• Concludes with the idea that everyone’s experience of gender and sexuality is unique, and navigating this diversity is crucial for understanding one's place in the world.