Understanding internal and external influences is crucial for self-awareness.
Definition: Internal influences refer to one's private values and attitudes.
Example: Supporting the environmental movement and consciously limiting travel to reduce carbon footprint.
Key Aspects of Internal Influences:
Knowledge: Awareness and understanding that shape decisions.
Curiosity: A drive to explore and learn more about the world.
Interests: Engagement in activities that one enjoys.
Likes/Dislikes: Personal preferences that guide choices.
Fears: Anxieties that can hinder action or decision-making.
Needs: Essential requirements that influence behavior.
Definition: External influences involve family, friends, cultural or religious groups, and social norms.
Examples of External Influences:
Media and advertising.
Legal restrictions (e.g., speed limits, drinking age laws).
Setting or location.
Cultural expectations.
Family members (parents, relatives).
Peers and friends.
Role models outside the family (e.g., celebrities, leaders).
Significance: Family is the single greatest influence, both positive and negative.
Reasons for Importance:
Parents serve as a child's first instructors and primary support system.
They model behavior which teaches children how to navigate the world.
Influence can be either followed or resisted by children.
Peer Influence: Peers have a substantial impact during this stage of life.
Why Peers Matter:
They contribute to the social curriculum, establishing what is socially acceptable.
Reference Group: Peers are observed to learn appropriate interactions.
They reinforce gender roles and define acceptable actions for different social settings.
Impact of Cultural Norms: Cultural norms shape choices and behaviors.
Examples:
Gender expectations, such as men taking paternity leave.
Religious beliefs can dictate career choices (e.g., Hindus avoiding beef processing jobs).
Influence of Role Models: Role models, including those personally known or celebrities, significantly impact choices and values.
Quote: "Do not just look for role models, be the one too.” - Manbir Kaur.
Role models influence career aspirations, values, and lifestyle choices.
Media Consumption by Teens: Teens spend an average of nine hours daily on media for enjoyment.
Source: Common Sense Media report on teen screen time.
Understanding the impact of media is essential for shaping behavior and societal views.