Internal External Influences

Unit 1: Who Am I?

Internal & External Influences

• Understanding internal and external influences is crucial for self-awareness.

Internal Influences

• Definition: Internal influences refer to one's private values and attitudes.

• Example: Supporting the environmental movement and consciously limiting travel to reduce carbon footprint.

• Key Aspects of Internal Influences:

  • Knowledge: Awareness and understanding that shape decisions.

  • Curiosity: A drive to explore and learn more about the world.

  • Interests: Engagement in activities that one enjoys.

  • Likes/Dislikes: Personal preferences that guide choices.

  • Fears: Anxieties that can hinder action or decision-making.

  • Needs: Essential requirements that influence behavior.

External Influences

• Definition: External influences involve family, friends, cultural or religious groups, and social norms.

• Examples of External Influences:

  • Media and advertising.

  • Legal restrictions (e.g., speed limits, drinking age laws).

  • Setting or location.

  • Cultural expectations.

  • Family members (parents, relatives).

  • Peers and friends.

  • Role models outside the family (e.g., celebrities, leaders).

Family Influence

• Significance: Family is the single greatest influence, both positive and negative.

• Reasons for Importance:

  • Parents serve as a child's first instructors and primary support system.

  • They model behavior which teaches children how to navigate the world.

  • Influence can be either followed or resisted by children.

Friends and Peer Pressure

• Peer Influence: Peers have a substantial impact during this stage of life.

• Why Peers Matter:

  • They contribute to the social curriculum, establishing what is socially acceptable.

  • Reference Group: Peers are observed to learn appropriate interactions.

  • They reinforce gender roles and define acceptable actions for different social settings.

Cultural or Religious Norms

• Impact of Cultural Norms: Cultural norms shape choices and behaviors.

• Examples:

  • Gender expectations, such as men taking paternity leave.

  • Religious beliefs can dictate career choices (e.g., Hindus avoiding beef processing jobs).

Role Models

• Influence of Role Models: Role models, including those personally known or celebrities, significantly impact choices and values.

• Quote: "Do not just look for role models, be the one too.” - Manbir Kaur.

• Role models influence career aspirations, values, and lifestyle choices.

Media Influence

• Media Consumption by Teens: Teens spend an average of nine hours daily on media for enjoyment.

  • Source: Common Sense Media report on teen screen time.

• Understanding the impact of media is essential for shaping behavior and societal views.