Jewish Holidays and Practices

Holy Day Celebrations

  • Rosh Hashanah: the Jewish new year
    • Celebrate God creating the world
    • Shofar: ram’s horn
    • 10-day period of reflection
    • Celebrate with family and friends
    • Observed during the fall
    • Honey and apples are traditional foods (sweetness/goodness of God, world, and creation)
  • Yom Kippur: holiest day of Judaism, centers on atonement for sins and mistakes
    • Prayers of forgiveness
    • Fast from food and drink (including water)
    • No work
    • Repent from sins
    • Long services in synagogue
  • Passover: celebrates Israelites’ escape from Egypt
    • Told by God to celebrate in the Torah
    • Seder meal
    • Haggadah: text recited at Seder during passover

Significant Life Milestones

  • Birth and naming
    • Name is consecrated
    • Boys are circumcised on the 8th day following birth (as instructed in Torah)
  • Bar and Bat Mitzvahs
    • Coming of age ritual
    • Signifies children becoming adults in the community (age 13)
    • “Son” (Bar) or “Daughter” (Bat) of the Covenant
  • Marriage
    • Huppah: bridal canopy; sacred place
    • Representing Adam and Eve, return to the Garden of Eden
    • Say vows and blessings beneath the Huppah
    • Seven blessings over a cup of wine
    • Break the glass—symbolizes happiness and sorrow, support as a couple
  • Death and mourning
    • 5 stages
    • 1st day (day of death): rip part of clothing to express sorrow, acknowledge that God is Lord of all
      • Men don’t shave
      • Refrain from wearing leather (made from dead animals; no more death)
      • Body is prepared and placed in a wooden coffin
    • Public mourning
      • Recite Kaddish prayer
      • People visit family, bring food
      • Only supposed to say good things about the person who passed
    • 7 days following burial
      • Continued public mourning
    • 30 days after burial
      • Avoid public celebrations and social gatherings
    • The First Year
      • Full-year mourning for children of the deceased
    • Jewish gravestones are denoted with the star of David
    • Place stones rather than flowers (stones last longer, and you don’t have to kill something that is living to celebrate someone who has passed)
    • Kaddish: a prayer of mourning

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