Theories of Personality: Harry Stack Sullivan: Interpersonal Theory
Overview
- People develop their personality within a social context
- Without other people, humans would have no personality
- Development rests on the individual’s ability to establish intimacy with another person
- Anxiety can interfere with satisfying interpersonal relations
- Healthy development entails experiencing intimacy and lust toward another same person
Background
- Born February 21, 1892
- Oldest existing son of poor Irish Catholic parents
- Lonely childhood existence
- Poor relationship with father
- Close friendship with Clarence Bellinger
- Academically gifted
- Poor academic performance in freshman year at Cornell
- Suffered schizophrenic breakdown
- Enrolled for medicine, receive degree 2 years after graduation
- Worked with William Alanson White
- Private practice in New York
- Zodiac group
- His therapy was neither psychoanalytic nor non-Freudian
- Died of cerebral hemorrhage on January 14, 1949
- Rumors of homosexuality
Personality
- Personality is an energy system
- Tension: potentiality for action
- Energy Transformations: action themselves
Tension
- Anxiety, premonitions, drowsiness, hunger, sexual excitement
- Not always on a conscious level
- Partial distortions of reality
- 2 Types
- Needs
- Tensions brought about by a biological imbalance between the person and environment
- Episodic
- Biological component and interpersonal relations
- Zonal Needs: arises from a specific body part
- General Needs: overall well being of a person
- Tenderness is a basic interpersonal need
- Anxiety
- Disjunctive, diffuse, and vague, call forth no consistent action for relief
- Transferred through empathy
- Chief disruptive force blocking the development of healthy interpersonal relations
- Prevents people from learning from mistakes
- Persisting pursuance of childish wish for security
- Ensures people will not learn from experience
- Its presence is worse than its absence
- Stems from complex interpersonal relations
- Vaguely represented in awareness
- No positive value
- Blocks satisfaction of needs
- Tensions transformed into either overt/covert actions
- Behaviors that satisfy our needs and reduce anxiety
- May be observable/hidden from other people (emotions, thoughts)
- Evolves into dynamisms
Dynamisms
- traits/habitual patterns
- Major Classes
- Related to specific zones of the body
- Mouth, anus, genitals
- Those related to tensions
- Disjunctive (malevolence)
- Isolating (lust)
- Conjunctive (intimacy and self-system)
- Malevolence
- Disjunctive dynamism between evil and hatred
- Feeling of living among one’s enemies
- 2-3 years, when child is rebuffed, ignored, or punished
- Adoption of malevolent attitude for protection
- Timidity, mischievousness, cruelty, antisocial behavior
- Lust
- Assumes an isolating tendency
- Auto-erotic behavior
- Hinders an intimate relationship
- Increases anxiety and decreases self-worth
- Intimacy
- Emerges in the chumship
- Close interpersonal relationship between 2 people of equal status
- Equal partnership
- Integrating dynamism that draws out loving reactions from people
- Decreases loneliness and anxiety
- Rewarding experiences most healthy people desire
- Self-System
- Most complex and inclusive of all dynamisms
- Consistent pattern of behavior that maintains people’s interpersonal security by protecting them from anxiety
- Principal stumbling block to favorable changes in personality
- Security operations
- Security Operations
- Reduces feelings of anxiety/insecurity
- 2 Kinds
- Dissociation
- Includes impulses, desires, and needs that a person refuses to allow into awareness (dreams)
- Repression
- Selective Inattention
- Refusal to see things that one does not wish to see (conscious)
Personifications
People’s images of themselves or others
Begins in infancy and continues throughout development
- Bad mother - good mother
- Me
- Eidetic personifications
Bad Mother - Good Mother
- Similar to Klein’s Good Breast and Bad Breast
Representations of self and other
Mental images that we acquire during development to help us understand ourselves and the world
- A cognitive approach to understand personality
Personifications help maintain emotional equilibrium and reduce anxiety
Separation of good and bad
Me
- Bad Me, Good Me, Not Me
- Building blocks of self-personification
- Bad Me
- Grows from experiences of punishment and disapproval
- Represents those aspects of the self that are considered negative and hidden from others and possibly the self
- Anxiety results from recognition of the bad me
- Ex. recalling an embarrassing moment
- Ex. guilt about a past action
- Good Me
- Results from experiences with reward and approval
- Experiences associated with tenderness and intimacy
- Everything we like about ourselves
- The part of us we share with others and prefer to focus on because it produces no anxiety
- Not Me
- Anxiety provoking experiences that invoke security operations may become dissociated from self to form the not-me
- Security operations = Sullivan’s concept of defense mechanisms
- Experiences that are denied
- Experiences that are kept out of awareness and repressed
- Acknowledging not-me experiences creates high anxiety or negative emotion

Level of Cognition
- Refers to ways of perceiving, imagining, and conceiving
- Prototaxic: undifferentiated experiences which are highly personal
- Parataxic: communicated to others in a distorted fashion
- Syntaxic: consensually validated and symbolically communicated
Stages of Development
- Infancy (0-2 years old)
- Significant Other: mother
- Interpersonal Process: tenderness
- Learnings: good/bad
- Childhood (2-6 years old)
- Significant Other: parents
- Interpersonal Process: imaginary playmates
- Learnings: syntaxic language
- Juvenile Era (6-8.5 years old)
- Significant Other: playmates
- Interpersonal Process: living with peers
- Learnings: competition, compromise, cooperation
- Preadolescence (8-13 years old)
- Significant Other: single chum
- Interpersonal Process: intimacy
- Learnings: affection and respect
- Early Adolescence (13-15 years old)
- Significant Other: several chums
- Interpersonal Process: intimacy and lust
- Learnings: balance, security operations
- Late Adolescence (15 years old and above)
- Significant Other: lover
- Interpersonal Process: fusion of intimacy and lust
- Learnings: discovery of self and world
Psychological Disorders
- All psychological disorders have an interpersonal origin and must be understood with reference to social environment
- Deficiencies found in psychiatric patients are found in every person to a lesser degree
- Psychological difficulties are not unique, but come from same interpersonal difficulties we all face
- 2 broad classes of schizophrenia: organic and situational
Psychotherapy
- Therapist is a participant observer who established an interpersonal relationship with the patient and provides opportunity for syntaxic communication
- Sullivan therapists attempt to help patients develop foresight, discover difficulties in interpersonal relations, and restore their ability to participate in consensually validated experiences
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