Sense of self: Awareness of self as differentiated from others, crucial for children's development.
Three areas of development:
Individual self: Aspects that make a person unique (e.g., hardworking, physically fit, confident).
Relational self: Aspects involving connections to others and developing out of social interactions (Chen et al., 2011).
Collective self: Person's concept of self within a group (e.g., race, ethnicity, gender) (Sedikides et al., 2013).
Online self: A recent form of self-representation in Internet forums and multiplayer games.
Genomic self: An individualized profile of your genomic self, which contains information about your biological and psychological traits.
Research has focused on children's awareness of their individual selves, which has its roots in early infancy.
Babies gaze at their reflections but don't realize they are looking at themselves.
Self-recognition study:
Self-recognition is restricted to the here and now at this age.
Children's views and descriptions of themselves become more detailed, specific, and psychological as they grow up.
Ages 3-4: Describe themselves in terms of observable physical features, preferences, possessions, and social characteristics.
Ages 5-7: Describe themselves in terms of their competencies.
Ages 8-10: More aware of their private selves and their unique feelings and thoughts, and they begin to describe themselves in more complex terms.
Early Adolescence (Age 11+): Describe themselves in terms of social relationships, personality traits, and other general, stable psychological characteristics.
Middle Adolescence: Introspective and preoccupied with what others think of them.
Late Adolescence: Self-descriptions emphasize personal beliefs, values, and moral standards.
Westerners and Europeans emphasize an autonomous self that can be described in terms of unique personal traits.
Asians emphasize an interdependent self that can be described in terms of social roles and responsibilities in a network of relationships.
European American children’s descriptions were more 'personal' - referring to personal attributes ("I'm cute"), preferences ("I love playing piano"), possessions ("I have a teddy bear"), and behaviors unrelated to other people ("I'm happy").
Chinese children's descriptions were more "social" - referring to group memberships (''I'm a girl"), and interpersonal relations ("I love my mommy," "My cousins and I do lots of things together").
Western cultures encourage children to embrace positive self-views; Asian cultures value self-criticism and humility because they facilitate group solidarity and harmony.
European American children were more likely to describe themselves in positive terms ("I am beautiful," "I am smart"), whereas Chinese children used nonevaluative descriptors ("I play games," "I go to school").
American mothers focused attention on the child and what the child had accomplished, acknowledged the child's expressions of individuality, and socialized the child to remember personal experiences highlighting individual uniqueness and autonomy.
Chinese mothers focused on group actions with the mother playing a leading role and posing pointed questions. They used the story telling opportunity to remind the child of his or her place in the social hierarchy and the need to follow the rules to maintain social connectedness and harmony. There was little discussion of the child’s individual or unique qualities.
Sharing family memories is one way children learn how to think about their present and past selves in a way that fits their culture.
Self-esteem addresses how positively or negatively children view themselves in relation to others.
Self-esteem is a global evaluation of one's worth as a person (Harter, 2012, 2016).
High self-esteem: view themselves as competent and capable and are pleased with who they are, whereas children who have low self-esteem view themselves as inadequate and inferior to others (Harter, 2012, 2016).
Individuals with high self-esteem also are happier than those with low self-esteem (Baumeister et al., 2003).
High self-esteem in childhood is linked to school success, good relationships with parents and peers, and lack of anxiety and depression (Harter, 2012).
High self-esteem prospectively predicts success and well-being in adult domains such as relationships, work, and health (Orth & Robins, 2014).
However, the direction of cause and effect in these links is not always clear.
Self-esteem can have a dark side, too.
Boosting children's self-esteem does not lead to better social outcomes (Baumeister et al., 2003).
Stanley Coopersmith (1967) found that accepting, affectionate, and involved parents who set clear rules, used noncoercive disciplinary tactics, and considered the child's views had children with higher self-esteem.
Adolescent girls whose mothers were more affectionate had higher self-esteem. Adolescent boys whose mothers were more psychologically controlling, intrusive, and manipulative had lower self-esteem (Ojanen & Perry, 2007).
Authoritative parents had adolescents with higher self-esteem compared to controlling/punitive parents (Lamborn et al., 1991).
Adolescents of supportive fathers reported higher self-esteem (Behnke et al., 2011).
Children with abusive parents have lower self-esteem than those with nonabusive parents (Cicchetti & Toth, 2015).
Parents' approval seems particularly important for fostering self-perceptions in the domains of scholastic competence and good conduct (Harter, 2012).
Peers are important for promoting adolescents' self-perceptions in appearance, popularity, and athletic competence.
Support from peers in public domains is more important than support from close friends.
Being accepted by peers is important for maintaining a positive global self-esteem during adolescence (Litwack et al., 2012).
Even feedback from anonymous peer strangers can affect children's self-esteem (Thomaes et al., 2010).
Mentors such as coaches, teachers, and family friends are also influential sources of support for self-esteem (Reddy et al., 2003; Rhodes & Frederikson, 2004).
Big Brothers Big Sisters programs have a positive influence on children's self-esteem (Rhodes et al., 2000).
Praising talent and intelligence doesn't help children achieve success and sets them up for disappointment (Dweck, 2008).
It is better to foster in children a "growth mindset" that they can develop their abilities through effort.
Parents should focus on children's efforts and how they tackle tasks, praise strategies and progress, and praise socially desirable behaviors and self-improvement rather than abilities.
Stepping out of the way and letting children solve problems on their own will also help them build true self-esteem (Dweck, 2008; Young-Eisendrath, 2008).
Forming a sense of identity involves defining oneself as a discrete, separate entity and addressing the questions "Who am I?" and "What will I become?"
This process is a major challenge in adolescence (Crocetti, 2017).
Erik Erikson's fifth developmental stage focused on the search for a stable self-identity.
Failure to achieve a stable identity results in identity confusion.
James Marcia (1966, 1993) described a period during which adolescents experience a crisis of decision making when alternative identities are explored.
Four types of identity outcomes are possible:
Identity Achievement: Person has gone through exploration of different identities and made a commitment to one. Highest level of identity. Associated with several positive outcomes, including flexible moral reasoning, clear goal setting, and better academic achievement.
Identity Foreclosure: Person has made a commitment without attempting identity exploration. Remain committed to their childhood values and beliefs and do not use adolescence as a period to explore other potential identities.
Identity Moratorium: Person is actively involved in exploring different identities but has not made a commitment. Fail to reach any resolution about who they are and what they believe and value.
Identity Diffusion: Person has experienced neither identity crisis nor identity commitment. Neither engage in exploration nor are concerned about committing themselves to a particular identity; they take life as it happens. Least mature identity state.
Individuals can shift from one to another even over the course of adolescence.
Identity formation is not over in adolescence, and identity change may be more prevalent in young adulthood (Roberts et al., 2006).
Many young adults continue to struggle with identity issues.
Elisabetta Crocetti (2017), identity formation is best understood by three processes:
*Commitment: enduring choices individuals have made regarding various developmental domains.
*In-depth exploration: reflecting on their choices, searching for additional information, talking to others about their commitments.
*Reconsideration of commitment: Comparing present commitments with possible alternative commitments.
Factors influence adolescents' identity development: parents, peers, and biological/cognitive changes.
Emerging adulthood is a key period with unprecedented freedom to explore identity options, but also anxiety and uncertainty (Arnett, 2014).
College students are more likely to have achieved an identity if their parents are supportive, respect their wishes and needs, and avoid intrusive strategies (Luyckx et al., 2007).
Different identity patterns found:
Young adults from disadvantaged families are likely to develop a “pseudo-adult” identity.
Young adults from Asian American families had delayed autonomy and were likely to develop a late adult identity.
Young adults from African American families developed an early adult identity.
Young women who had distant and conflict-ridden relations with their parents had delayed development of psychosocial skills and accelerated adoption of adult roles and identity
In a longitudinal study, development along a sequence from identity diffusion to identity achievement was related to having a prolonged education, making a later transition to adult working life, and starting a family “on time” - not too early, not too late
Identity trajectories fluctuate
Greatest change during the period from early to middle adult-hood, when the likelihood of having an achieved identity increased, and the likelihood of having identity diffusion decreased.
Having an achieved identity was associated with being more intelligent, experiencing success in work, having positive marital and family relationships, and participating in community and political activities.
Adults with a foreclosed identity were likely to have strong positive relationships with their parents and relatives, participate in lodge activities, and become more politically conservative.
Adults experiencing identity moratorium were likely to have weak relationships with their parents, participate in community and political activities, and become more liberal
Ethnic identity refers to the sense of belonging to a certain race or ethnic group.
Ethnic identity emerges gradually over childhood and adolescence.
Even in infancy, 3-month-old babies look longer at faces of their own race than faces of other races (Kelly et al., 2005).
By 9 months, they associate positive emotions with same race faces while linking negative emotions with faces of other races (Xiao et al., 2017).
Preschoolers have been shown to have implicit racial biases (Banaji & Greenwald, 2006, 2013; Qian et al., 2016).
Children become aware of cues to race and ethnicity such as skin color and prefer to play with children from their own group (Rubin et al., 2015).
Minority-group children reach this awareness and preference earlier than children from the majority group (Milner, 1983).
As children develop cognitively, they begin to recognize which behaviors are part of the majority culture and which are unique to their own ethnic group.
They can label themselves as part of a racial/ ethnic group (Brown & Bigler, 2005).
Positive feelings and preferences for ethnic-group activities also begin to develop during this period (Xiao et al., 2015).
They recognize that ancestry, pride, and heritage are aspects of ethnicity.
Elementary school children also understand ethnic group constancy.
The active period of ethnic-identity development is adolescence.
Adolescents recognize that discrimination, bias in group attitudes, and prejudice are part of racial/ ethnic identity as well (Ulma-Taylor et al., 2014).
Minority students achieved varying levels of ethnic identity:
A clear, positive ethnic identity is related to high self-esteem, more optimism, and more social competence, as well as more positive feelings toward the ethnic group (Chavous et al., 2003; Rivas-Drake et al., 2014).
If they identify too strongly with the dominant culture, they are often criticized and ostracized by their ethnic group peers for being "too white."
Minority students benefit from embracing their ethnicity and forming a positive ethnic identity without disparaging the majority culture (Rivas-Drake et al., 2014).
They are less likely to become delinquents, do better in school, experience less depression, and have more positive attitudes toward other ethnic groups.
Identities that can be formed:
Parents play a major role in the development of children's ethnic identity by imparting knowledge about cultural traditions, instilling pride in their ethnic heritage, and preparing children for the hardships that can accompany minority status (Seaton et al 2012, Umana-Taylor et al 2013).
In high school, most students hang out with members of their own ethnic group/ They tend not to know classmates in other ethnic groups well (Steinberg et al 1992)
Broader cultural forces and events contribute to children's and adolescents' ethnic identity development.
Research also shows infants make sense of actions that require understanding.
In preschool children describe others in physical form same as themselves.
When they are 4 years old, infer event in trait.
When they are 5-7, personality (Gelman, Heyman).
When they are 9-10, more use traits (Alvarez, Flavell).
Over middle period realize difference, which causes skepticism.
Then fully understand them (Flavell, Harter, Heyman)
“Demographer behaviorist during early stages (Flavell).”.
Perspective taking is the capacity to understand another person's point of view (Birch et al., 2017).
The capacity to select the proper gift for someone (Atance)
Five stages (Robert Selman):
Stage 0: Egocentric.
Stage 1: Separate view.
Stage 2: Considering thoughts feelings.
Stage 3: viewpoints seen as “3rd”.
Stage 4: Societal/in depth is how children view
Several things that children abilities, families parents sibling friendships and culture assist with understanding social situations.
Some researchers show families and those who discuss become better at theory of mind (Ensor Taumoepeau,
Social tendencies are embedded in children and intellectual abilities
Parential influences, play strong role
Conversations contribute
Experiences are more limited in home, where only have self help concerns (Brown, Perner)
Experiences external like cultural brokering, higher points of theary of mind(Eksner & Orellana)
And through perspectives teaching skill
Some children adapt as influenced from their (Wellman) world, traits.
U S: help while Indian views in context and obligations (Miller)
Chinese people are more modest.
Universal but culture still sets it
In societies that reflect many cultures, people recognize different languages, colors, values, etc.Two key factors children must address:
Social categories (label Individuals in the other groups); and
Prejudice. Whether negative attitude towards those individuals.
Stereotype - labels (Killen, Mulvey) with recognition individuals are not different from each other/or unique.
Stereotyping 3 to 9 years (Davis), consciousness is seen as early
Prejudice often think because stereotypes then act bad. They are all viewed same way (Aboud).
As more understanding groups the explicit becomes less and (Aboud, Powlishta.
lAT tests show implicit prejudice ( Banaji & Greenwald.2013).
Determinants of prejudice
Grows with (Cunningham) feeling of.fear because bad and (Hischfeld) adaptive in the end
More from social perspective: the factors. Parents
Adult messages media
Rebecca conducted, found (Bigler & Liben) groups and school settings would effect prejudice
Some actions such as common grounds can be taken (Pettigrew & Tropp to ensure people bond
Reduce competiveness(Abrams) to create bonds (Sherif) and point others(Aboud) to traits outside culture helps
If large differences exist between groups, the majority group may consider the minority to be less than human (Chalk & Jonassohn, 1990).
Genocide results from it (Chalk)
Examples: Holocaust, Rwanda, and Darfur.
Holocaust
Rwanda
Dafur
Islamic State
They can and (Obama) reduce this
A child’s communication to teachers and parents, assist
aspect of cognitive, for developing is the process of the
social. Speech being how one says
Steps Toward Language Fluency
Preverbal (what baby expresses)
Babbling or noises.
Semantic Language comes from using all together and in various ways
The Acquisition
When sentences (Hoff
Semantic, a few, but grammar later in 2 years time (Cleave) and all (Thompson) fundamental grammar by age of 5
Learning The Social Uses of language includes understanding many of the unspoken language, like pragmatics
rules (Hoff is essential), how language adjust to audience (Syrett).
With children have difficultly understanding because (Ellis) not all times does that communication go clear. Often they are aware, until help