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Topic 2, Managing impressions online 415-441

Managing Impressions Online in Dating

Introduction to Online Dating

  • Self-Presentation Strategies: Investigates how online dating participants present themselves to attract romantic partners.

    • Participants: 34 individuals active on a significant online dating site.

    • Methodology: Telephone interviews covering experiences, perceptions, and strategies.

  • Key Findings:

    • Importance of managing small cues in online profiles.

    • Balancing authenticity with strategic self-presentation.

    • Adapting presentations to affirm identity claims and desires.

  • Theoretical Framework: Supports Social Information Processing (SIP) theory in an online environment.

Background Context

  • Online Dating Evolution: Transition from a marginal to mainstream practice since the early 2000s.

    • User Statistics: 29 million Americans used online dating services by 2003.

    • Market Growth: Estimated growth to $642 million by 2008.

  • Historical Context: Online matchmaking compared to 19th-century newspaper ads and video dating trends in the 1980s.

  • Distinctive Nature: Online dating differs from other online environments due to the anticipation of face-to-face interaction.

Literature Review

  • Social Shaping of Technology: Online behaviors are influenced by technology features and social practices.

  • Self-Presentation Studies:

    • Offline relational development informs online interactions (Taylor & Altman, 1987).

    • Goffman's theory on self-presentation conveyed through control of communication.

Key Concepts in Online Self-Presentation

  • Dual Pressures: Balancing the need to present positively vs. authentically.

    • Expression Types:

      • "Given" expressions (intentional communication)

      • "Given off" expressions (nonverbal cues, often uncontrolled).

  • Importance of Small Cues:

    • Subtle indicators (e.g., spelling, email timing) used for cues about identity and reliability.

  • Strategies of Self-Disclosure: Participants adapt their self-representations to resonate with ideal self-concepts (Higgins, 1987).

Challenges of Misrepresentation

  • Opportunity for Deception: Greater control can lead to misrepresentation.

    • Participants express concerns about identity deception.

    • Misrepresentation Statistics: High instances of identity misrepresentation among participants (e.g., age, appearance).

    • Reciprocity in Deception: People may exaggerate based on perceived deception by others.

  • Potential Outcomes: Strategies to assess credibility become critical.

Interview Methodology and Findings

  • Grid Methodology: Qualitative analysis through in-depth interviews covering aspects like profile construction and personal history.

  • Profile Construction:

    • Profiles serve as primary self-presentation tools, influencing relationship opportunities.

    • Participants emphasize informative, engaging profiles while maintaining honesty.

Findings on Self-Presentation Strategies

  • Profile Content:

    • Profiles reflect aspirations, often showing ideal self-concepts rather than actual attributes.

    • Users may adjust self-descriptions to fit socially acceptable frames or meet search parameters.

    • Self-perception gaps lead to what is termed as the 'foggy mirror' phenomenon where self-images differ greatly from others' perceptions.

Circumventing Constraints in Self-Presentation

  • Technical Interface Effects:

    • Participants must navigate technical site constraints while aiming to express themselves accurately.

    • Desire for broader audience leads users to modify elements such as age or other sensitive descriptors.

  • Balancing Authenticity with Attraction:

    • Creating profiles that highlight appealing attributes while managing authenticity is central to participants' strategies.

Establishing and Demonstrating Credibility

  • Assessment of Others: Importance placed on visual cues and profile content for validation.

    • Descriptive narratives demonstrate integrity, showing rather than just telling about oneself (e.g., through stories or photographs).

  • Implications for Future Research:

    • Need for investigating the extent and social norms surrounding online deception.

    • Exploration of context-specific dynamics in self-presentation strategies among different online dating platforms.

Practical Implications

  • Design Improvements for Dating Sites:

    • Recommendations for features that encourage honesty and mutual assurance among users.

    • Suggestion of employing system designs that mirror social networking principles, integrating features that enhance perceived identity confirmations.

Conclusion

  • Complex Relationship Between Self-Representation and Authenticity: Participants strive to present compelling yet true identities through complex online dating dynamics.