Topic 2, Managing impressions online 415-441
Managing Impressions Online in Dating
Introduction to Online Dating
Self-Presentation Strategies: Investigates how online dating participants present themselves to attract romantic partners.
Participants: 34 individuals active on a significant online dating site.
Methodology: Telephone interviews covering experiences, perceptions, and strategies.
Key Findings:
Importance of managing small cues in online profiles.
Balancing authenticity with strategic self-presentation.
Adapting presentations to affirm identity claims and desires.
Theoretical Framework: Supports Social Information Processing (SIP) theory in an online environment.
Background Context
Online Dating Evolution: Transition from a marginal to mainstream practice since the early 2000s.
User Statistics: 29 million Americans used online dating services by 2003.
Market Growth: Estimated growth to $642 million by 2008.
Historical Context: Online matchmaking compared to 19th-century newspaper ads and video dating trends in the 1980s.
Distinctive Nature: Online dating differs from other online environments due to the anticipation of face-to-face interaction.
Literature Review
Social Shaping of Technology: Online behaviors are influenced by technology features and social practices.
Self-Presentation Studies:
Offline relational development informs online interactions (Taylor & Altman, 1987).
Goffman's theory on self-presentation conveyed through control of communication.
Key Concepts in Online Self-Presentation
Dual Pressures: Balancing the need to present positively vs. authentically.
Expression Types:
"Given" expressions (intentional communication)
"Given off" expressions (nonverbal cues, often uncontrolled).
Importance of Small Cues:
Subtle indicators (e.g., spelling, email timing) used for cues about identity and reliability.
Strategies of Self-Disclosure: Participants adapt their self-representations to resonate with ideal self-concepts (Higgins, 1987).
Challenges of Misrepresentation
Opportunity for Deception: Greater control can lead to misrepresentation.
Participants express concerns about identity deception.
Misrepresentation Statistics: High instances of identity misrepresentation among participants (e.g., age, appearance).
Reciprocity in Deception: People may exaggerate based on perceived deception by others.
Potential Outcomes: Strategies to assess credibility become critical.
Interview Methodology and Findings
Grid Methodology: Qualitative analysis through in-depth interviews covering aspects like profile construction and personal history.
Profile Construction:
Profiles serve as primary self-presentation tools, influencing relationship opportunities.
Participants emphasize informative, engaging profiles while maintaining honesty.
Findings on Self-Presentation Strategies
Profile Content:
Profiles reflect aspirations, often showing ideal self-concepts rather than actual attributes.
Users may adjust self-descriptions to fit socially acceptable frames or meet search parameters.
Self-perception gaps lead to what is termed as the 'foggy mirror' phenomenon where self-images differ greatly from others' perceptions.
Circumventing Constraints in Self-Presentation
Technical Interface Effects:
Participants must navigate technical site constraints while aiming to express themselves accurately.
Desire for broader audience leads users to modify elements such as age or other sensitive descriptors.
Balancing Authenticity with Attraction:
Creating profiles that highlight appealing attributes while managing authenticity is central to participants' strategies.
Establishing and Demonstrating Credibility
Assessment of Others: Importance placed on visual cues and profile content for validation.
Descriptive narratives demonstrate integrity, showing rather than just telling about oneself (e.g., through stories or photographs).
Implications for Future Research:
Need for investigating the extent and social norms surrounding online deception.
Exploration of context-specific dynamics in self-presentation strategies among different online dating platforms.
Practical Implications
Design Improvements for Dating Sites:
Recommendations for features that encourage honesty and mutual assurance among users.
Suggestion of employing system designs that mirror social networking principles, integrating features that enhance perceived identity confirmations.
Conclusion
Complex Relationship Between Self-Representation and Authenticity: Participants strive to present compelling yet true identities through complex online dating dynamics.