Equity and diversity work is about building community, trust, and respect.
Important to:
Listen carefully and respectfully.
Accept and learn from mistakes (growth can be uncomfortable).
Respect confidentiality.
Understand growth and change take time.
Take care of yourself to stay resilient.
Source: Adapted from Jamie Washington, Washington Consulting Group.
Explain the concept of microaggressions.
Discuss the impact microaggressions have on relationships.
Identify ways to respond effectively to microaggressions.
Formal Definitions:
A statement, action, or incident seen as an instance of indirect, subtle, or unintentional discrimination against a marginalized group (racial, ethnic, gender, etc.).
Indirect, subtle, or unintentional discrimination targeting marginalized groups.
Simplified:
Everyday, subtle, often unintentional interactions or behaviors that express bias toward marginalized groups.
Different from overt discrimination because perpetrators often do not realize they are being offensive.
Source: Kevin Nadal, Professor of Psychology at John Jay College of Criminal Justice.
When observing microaggressions (e.g., people holding signs of their experiences):
Feelings: Sadness, anger, frustration, discomfort.
Thoughts: Awareness of biases, empathy toward marginalized experiences.
Intent Matters:
Sometimes people deliberately intend harm, but often they do not realize the impact of their words/actions.
Regardless of intent, the effect can still be damaging.
"Homework" Analogy:
Addressing microaggressions is like homework: it requires constant effort, reflection, and self-education.
Responding Suggestions:
Assess your safety first.
Clarify intent by asking questions.
Focus on the impact rather than accusing the person.
Model respectful, educational behavior.
Ambiguity:
Microaggressions are often subtle and open to interpretation.
Unawareness:
Many people don't recognize when they are committing them.
Risk of Conflict:
Calling out microaggressions can lead to defensiveness.
Surprising examples: Might include microaggressions in supposedly "safe" or professional settings.
Least surprising: Examples tied to longstanding stereotypes.
Impact on Victims:
Feelings of alienation, invalidation, anger, sadness.
Reinforces systemic structures of inequality.
Vivian Lu's Quote:
"Microaggressions make power structures more tangible and less abstract."
Microaggression Example | Theme | Message Sent |
“Where are you from?” / “You speak good English” | Alien in their own land | You are not truly Canadian; you are a foreigner. |
“You are a credit to your race” / Asking Asians for math help | Ascription of Intelligence | Assumes people of color are generally less intelligent or that all Asians are good at math. |
“I don’t see color” / “There’s only one race: the human race” | Color Blindness | Denies a person of color’s racial/ethnic identity and experiences. |
Clutching purse or following in a store | Assumption of Criminality | You are dangerous or a criminal. |
Telling someone they are "too loud" at work | Pathologizing Cultural Values | Your cultural expressions are wrong; you must conform to dominant (white) norms. |
“The most qualified person should get the job” | Myth of Meritocracy | Suggests systemic barriers don’t exist; blames individuals for inequality. |
Examples:
All university buildings named after wealthy white men.
TV shows/movies dominated by white casts.
Poorly funded schools in communities of color.
High concentrations of liquor stores/fast food in marginalized neighborhoods.
Messages Sent:
You don't belong here.
You won’t succeed here.
You are invisible or irrelevant.
Education is not valued for your community.
Your community is deviant or lazy.
Example:
Halloween costumes or sports mascots that mock Indigenous or other marginalized cultures.
Message:
Your culture is a costume or a joke.
Pause and think before reacting emotionally.
Ask clarifying questions if safe (e.g., "Can you explain what you meant by that?").
Prioritize your safety (physically and emotionally).
Ask yourself:
What risks am I taking?
Is it worth my energy?
What do I hope to achieve?
Stay calm, respectful, and educational.
Avoid sarcasm, arrogance, or mocking.
The goal is education, not humiliation.
Talk about your own growth experiences.
Example: “I used to think that too, but then I learned...”
Critique the behavior or comment, not the individual's character.
This reduces defensiveness and encourages learning.