Motivation is the factors that direct and energize behavior
Motivation has biological, cognitive, and social aspects
Psychologists have developed various approaches to explain motives
Major approaches to motivation: Instinct, Drive reduction, Arousal, Incentive, Cognitive, Hierarchy of needs
Instinct approaches: Inborn patterns of behavior essential for survival
Difficulties with instinctual approach to motivation: Disagreement on primary instincts, Cannot explain specific patterns of behavior, Human behavior is learned, not instinctual
Drive-reduction approaches: Behavior motivated by the need to reduce internal tension caused by unmet needs, Unpleasant feelings until needs are met
Primary drives: related to biological needs or species needs, Secondary drives: brought about by prior experience and learning
Maslow's hierarchy of needs: Self-actualization, Esteem needs, Belongingness and love needs, Safety needs, Physiological needs
Lower needs must be satisfied before higher order needs
Examples of people pursuing higher goals without basic needs
Self-actualizers strive for a positive view of self
Supportive environment necessary for self-actualization
Homeostasis: body's tendency to maintain a steady internal state
Feedback loops maintain optimal state
Challenges of drive-reduction approaches
Cannot explain behaviors that increase excitement or arousal
Arousal approaches: Maintain certain levels of stimulation and activity
Seek stimulation when levels are too low
Incentive approaches: Motivated by desire to obtain valued external goals
External stimuli account for motivation
Cognitive approaches: Motivation is a product of thoughts, expectations, and goals
Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
Obesity: body weight more than 20% above average weight for height
Factors influencing eating behavior
Various motivation theories apply
Biological Factors Hypothesis: Injury to the hypothalamus affects weight set point
Weight set point regulates food intake
Hypothalamus acts as an internal weight thermostat
Metabolism influences ability to lose weight
Metabolic rate varies among individuals
The Need for Affiliation
Relationships and connections with others provide meaning and happiness
Quote from Esther Perel on the importance of relationships
The Need to Belong: Affiliation Motive
Affiliation is a fundamental human need
Bonds have a strong evolutionary component
Ostracism and fear of rejection lead to pain and attempts to re-establish bonds
Research on the effects of cyber or online bullying
Social Isolation: Public Health Crisis?
Increasing levels of loneliness and isolation in the US and other parts of the world
Loneliness can shorten a person's life by 15 years
Loneliness triggers stress hormones and increases the risk of cardiovascular disease and cancer
The Need for Power & Achievement
Need for power: seeking impact, control, and influence over others
Need for achievement: striving for excellence and avoiding failure
Need for Power
People with a strong need for power are more likely to belong to organizations and seek office
Displaying evidence of power through possessions
Differences in how men and women with high power needs channel their needs
Need for Achievement
High need for achievement seeks out challenging situations to prove success
Low need for achievement motivated by a desire to avoid failure
What Are Emotions & Why Do We Have Them?
No consensus on the definition and purpose of emotions
Many theories of emotion exist, but none fully explain all aspects of emotional experience
The Functions of Emotions
Emotions prepare us for action and shape our future behavior
Emotions help us interact effectively with others
Determining the Range of Emotions
Challenge in identifying the most important, fundamental emotions
Hierarchy approach to organizing emotions
Dr. Susan David and Dr. Brene Brown's work challenges hierarchies
Determining the Range of Emotions
Basic emotions include happiness, anger, fear, sadness, and disgust
Differences in emotion descriptions across cultures
Germans report experiencing schadenfreude, a feeling of pleasure over another person's difficulties
Behavioral Components of Emotion
Emotions expressed through nonverbal behavior
Cross-cultural similarities in facial expressions of emotion
Six fundamental emotions: happiness, sadness, fear, anger, surprise, disgust
Cross-Cultural Differences in Emotions
Similarities in emotion recognition but differences in how emotions are experienced, regulated, and expressed across cultures
Display rules dictate appropriate expression of emotions
Nonverbal Expression of Emotion
Nonverbal leakage: unconscious spillover of emotional states into nonverbal behaviors
Body language and facial expressions reveal true emotions
The body rarely lies
The Roots of Emotions
Physiological reactions accompany emotions, but the specific role is still debated
James-Lange theory: bodily changes cause the experience of emotion
Cannon-Bard theory: bodily changes and emotional experience occur simultaneously
Schachter-Singer theory: arousal and cognitive labeling determine emotional experience
James-Lange Theory of Emotion
Emotions are a reaction to bodily events from external situations
Brain interprets bodily events as specific emotional experiences
Emotional experiences can occur before physiological changes
Physiological arousal does not always lead to emotional experience
Cannon-Bard Theory of Emotion
Criticized flaws in James-Lange Theory
Physiological changes occur too slowly to trigger emotional responses
Physiological arousal can occur without experiencing emotion
Different emotions can arise from the same physiological arousal
Emotion occurs when the thalamus sends signals to the cortex and autonomic nervous system
Schacter & Singer's Two-Factor Theory of Emotion
Two psychological events required for emotion
After an emotion-provoking event, experience undifferentiated or ambiguous state of arousal
Seek external cues and cognitive interpretation to understand arousal and label it as an emotion
Misattribution of Arousal
Example of being 70 meters above the river
Dutton and Aron's Capilano Suspension Bridge Study
Study with attractive female approaching male visitors on wobbly or sturdy bridge
Ambiguous physiological arousal interpreted as attraction on wobbly bridge
Similar principles to first dates on rollercoasters or scary movies
Contemporary Perspectives on the Neuroscience of Emotions
Specific emotions activate different portions of the brain on PET scans
Happiness associated with decreased activity in certain areas of the cerebral cortex
Sadness associated with increased activity in particular portions of the cortex
Results have critics and skeptics
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's Theory of Constructed Emotion
Emotions are not hardwired brain reactions
Emotions are constructed by the brain in the moment
Brain predicts and constructs the experience of the present world
Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett's Theory of Constructed Emotions (continued)
Emotions detected in others come from one's own head
Same physical sensations can lead to different experiences
Emotions are not controlled by mythical emotion circuits
Teach the brain to predict differently and be the architect of your experience
Dr. Susan David's Emotional Agility
Rejects the distinction of good vs. bad emotions
All emotions serve a function and should be accepted
Suppressing emotions amplifies them and they will reemerge
Radical acceptance of all emotions is the cornerstone of resilience
Dr. Susan David's Emotional Agility (continued)
Accurate labeling of emotions helps discern their cause
Emotions are data, not directives
Own emotions, don't let them own you
Happiness: The Elusive Emotion
What is happiness and how do we find and keep it?
Factors that Contribute to Happiness
Top 3 factors contributing to happiness
Why is Happiness Elusive?
Humans aren't designed to be constantly happy
Hedonic treadmill, upward social comparisons, asymmetry of affective experience
Dispelling Myths about Happiness
Factors that do not predict happiness: money, age, parenthood, IQ, attractiveness
Moderately predict happiness: health, social activity, religious affiliation
Health: physical well-being affects happiness
Social activity: having a strong social network and engaging in social interactions contributes to happiness
Religious affiliation: being part of a religious community can provide a sense of purpose and support
Strongly predict happiness: relationship
Having a satisfying and supportive relationship is a significant predictor of happiness
Twin Studies
Identical twins raised in different environments provide insights into the influence of genetics and environment on development
Differences in development between genetically identical twins can be attributed to variations in their environment
Developmental Research Techniques
Cross-sectional research: compares people of different ages at the same point in time, provides information about differences in development between age groups
Longitudinal research: traces the behavior of one or more participants over time, assesses change in behavior over time
Sequential research: combines cross-sectional and longitudinal approaches, examines different age groups at several points in time
The Basics of Genetics
Conception: when a sperm cell penetrates an egg cell, forming a zygote
Chromosomes: rod-shaped structures containing genes, transmit genetic information
Genes: parts of chromosomes that program the future development of the body
Earliest Development
Zygote: the new cell formed by the union of an egg and sperm at conception
Germinal period: first 2 weeks after conception, zygote increases in size
Embryo: developed zygote with organs, develops through cell division
Fetus: developing individual from 8 weeks after conception until birth
Age of viability: point at which a fetus can survive if born prematurely
Sensitive periods: times during development when specific events or stimuli have the greatest impact
Teratogens: substances that can alter or harm the development of the unborn baby
Examples: drugs, alcohol, radiation
Timing of exposure determines the significance of the impact and affected bodily systems
Examples of major teratogens
Illness: diseases contracted during pregnancy can have devastating consequences for the fetus
Drug use: mothers taking addictive drugs risk giving birth to addicted babies
Alcohol use: Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD) can cause physical abnormalities and learning disabilities
Major competencies of newborns
Milestones of physical and social development during childhood
Cognitive development during childhood
Reflexes: unlearned, involuntary responses that occur automatically in the presence of certain stimuli
Emotional bonds with caregivers
Seeking closeness to the caregiver and displaying distress on separation
Profound deprivation of attachment can lead to cognitive and emotional impairment
Konrad Lorenz studied attachment in newborn goslings
Goslings instinctively follow the first moving object they see after birth
Harry Harlow studied attachment in infant rhesus monkeys
Monkeys preferred contact with a cloth mother for comfort, even though they would feed from a wire mother
Infants emit behaviors that trigger affectionate responses from caregivers
Caregivers are biologically programmed to respond with care and nurturance
Responsiveness of the caregiver affects the child's attachment
Reciprocity builds attachment
Separation anxiety is used as a measure of attachment
The Strange Situation is a sequence of events involving a child and their mother
Different attachment styles are observed: secure, avoidant, ambivalent, and disorganized-disoriented
Attachment between children and their primary caregivers has consequences for later development
Securely attached children tend to be more socially and emotionally competent with fewer psychological difficulties
Infant attachment relationships lead to internal working models about adult relationships
Securely attached children grow into well-adjusted adults with positive schemas about relationships
Insecurely attached children struggle with adult relationships
Child's temperament and resilience interact with parenting strategies and practices
Parenting styles can be compared to gardeners and carpenters
Erikson proposed 8 stages of psychosocial development, with 4 occurring during childhood
Each stage involves resolving a crisis or conflict
Children are not mini adults and are not passive recipients of experience
Development involves transitional periods (stages) that children must pass through
Children are motivated to match their experiences with their beliefs about the world (schemas)
Assimilation: incorporating new experiences into current understanding (schema)
Schema remains unchanged, low cognitive effort required
Accommodation: adjusting/modifying an existing schema
Change schema to match new experience, high cognitive effort required
Children go through four stages in a fixed order
Sensorimotor Stage (Birth-2 years)
Development of object permanence
Development of motor skills
Little or no capacity for symbolic representation
Preoperational Stage (2-7 years)
Development of language and symbolic thinking
Egocentric thinking
Inability to understand conservation
Concrete Operational Stage (7-12 years)
Development of conservation
Overcoming some egocentrism
Formal Operational Stage (12 years-adulthood)
Development of logical and abstract thinking
Sensorimotor Stage (Birth to 2 years)
Children's understanding of the world is based on touching, sucking, etc.
Little competence in representing the environment using images, language, or symbols
Lack object permanence
Children's understanding of the world is based on touching, sucking, etc.
Little competence in representing the environment using images, language, or symbols
Lack object permanence
Use of language is the most important development
Develop internal representational systems
Egocentric thought
Inability to understand conservation
Sally and Anne scenario
Where will Sally look for her ball?
Preoperational child's response vs. concrete operational child's response
Mastery of the principle of conservation
Some aspects of conservation not fully understood for several years
Ability to think in a more logical manner
Overcoming some egocentrism
Abstract, formal, and logical thinking
Thinking not tied to observed events
Only used infrequently, not reached by many individuals
Cognitive development occurs through social interactions
Zone of proximal development (ZPD)
Scaffolding of learning
Biological changes during puberty
Social, emotional, and cognitive changes
Striving for independence and moving toward adulthood
Adolescents seeking their place in the social world
Erikson's psychosocial stage theory
Identity versus role confusion (Adolescence)
Intimacy versus isolation (Post-adolescence to early 30s)
Generativity versus stagnation (Middle adulthood)
Ego-integrity versus despair (Late adulthood)
Generativity = ability to contribute to one's family, community, work, society
Ego-integrity versus despair (Late adulthood)
Emerging adulthood (late teenage years to mid-20s)
Early adulthood (around age 20 to 40-45)
Middle adulthood (45 to around age 65)
Need for more education in the job market
Little job security and lower job satisfaction
Marrying later and higher divorce rates
Fewer women having children and having them later in life
Intelligence remains stable for most older adults
Some decline in fluid intelligence, but crystallized intelligence remains steady or improves
Memory changes are not inevitable, episodic memories may decline while semantic and implicit memories are largely unaffected
Different perspectives on social changes in late adulthood
Dependent on social support and financial stability
Disengagement Theory
Aging can lead to gradual withdrawal from the world on physical, psychological, and social levels
Provides opportunity for increased reflection and decreased emotional investment in people beyond immediate circle
Activity Theory
Successful aging involves maintaining interests, activities, and level of social interaction from middle adulthood
Critical lens question: What does this theory ignore?
Canadians are living longer than ever before
Comes with physical, mental, and economic costs
Increasing rates of poverty among older adults, especially women
Many older adults live alone or with minimal support
Face ongoing bereavement and anxieties around end-of-life care
Society is youth-focused and not built for healthy aging
Self-critical
"Sadistically realistic"
People's typical ways of thinking, feeling, & behaving
Personality is viewed as:
Relatively consistent over time & across situations
Involving features that distinguish us from each other
Influenced by causes of our patterns of behavior
Personality determined (at least in part) by particular combinations of genes
Grounded in evolutionary theory
Twin studies illustrate the importance of genetics in personality
Nature and nurture both play a role
Behavior motivated by the unconscious
Unconscious contains memories, knowledge, beliefs, feelings, urges, drives, and instincts
Expose the contents of the unconscious to understand personality
Raw, unorganized, inborn part of personality
Purpose is to reduce tension created by primitive drives
Operates on the pleasure principle
Reality prevents fulfillment of id's demands
Develops shortly after birth
Strives to balance the desires of the id and the realities of the outside world
Operates on reality principle
Controls actions and allows higher-order thinking
Represents the rights and wrongs of society
Has two components: conscience and ego-ideal
Conscience prevents morally improper behavior
Ego-ideal motivates morally right behavior
Superego and Id are unrealistic and do not consider practical realities
Ego must mediate or balance between the demands of the superego and the id
Ongoing battles between superego and id shape our personality
Personality developed through a series of 5 psychosexual stages
Developmental periods where conflicts between society's demands and sexual urges occur
Failure to resolve conflicts can result in fixations
Anxiety is a danger signal to the ego
Defense mechanisms are unconscious strategies to reduce anxiety
Everyone employs defense mechanisms
Can become maladaptive if relied upon chronically
Repression: Unacceptable or unpleasant impulses are pushed back into the unconscious.
Regression: People behave as if they were at an earlier stage of development.
Displacement: The expression of an unwanted feeling or thought is redirected from a more threatening powerful person to a weaker one.
Rationalization: People provide self-justifying explanations in place of the actual, but threatening, reason for their behavior.
Denial: People refuse to accept or acknowledge an anxiety-producing piece of information.
Projection: People attribute unwanted impulses and feelings to someone else.
Sublimation: People divert unwanted impulses into socially approved thoughts, feelings, or behaviors.
Reaction formation: Unconscious impulses are expressed as their opposite in consciousness.
Repression is the primary defense mechanism.
Unacceptable or unpleasant id impulses are pushed back into the unconscious.
A thought or desire is pushed out of conscious awareness because it is traumatic and threatening to our sense of self.
The feelings remain lodged within the unconscious, because acknowledging them would provoke anxiety.
Projection: People defend against recognition of their own negative thoughts, feelings, motivations by projecting them onto others.
People attribute unwanted impulses and feelings to someone else.
People divert unwanted impulses into socially approved thoughts, feelings, or behaviors.
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Displacement: Unleashing emotions on a safer or more socially acceptable target
Example: Yelling at partner for not doing the dishes after being yelled at by boss
Rationalization: Generating reasonable-sounding explanations for unacceptable behaviors or failures
Ego constructs a rational motive to explain the unacceptable action caused by irrational impulses of the ID
Allows expression of dangerous impulses without disapproval from the superego
Explains some of the greatest atrocities in history
Jung's Collective Unconscious
Rejects Freud's emphasis on sexual urges
Primitive urges of the unconscious represent a positive life force and motivation for creativity
Suggests the existence of a universal collective unconscious
Common set of ideas, feelings, images, and symbols inherited from ancestors and displayed in behavior across cultures
Examples: Love of mother, belief in a supreme being
Collective Unconscious and Archetypes
Collective unconscious contains archetypes, universal symbolic representations
Example: Mother archetype reflected in art, religion, literature, and mythology
Karen Horney: The First Feminist Psychologist?
Rejects Freud's suggestion of penis envy in women
Women envy independence, success, and freedom associated with men
Personality develops based on social relationships and meeting child's needs
Emphasizes cultural influences on personality
Example: Society's rigid gender roles lead to ambivalence about success in women
Trait theory: Identifying basic traits to describe personality
Traits: Consistent personality characteristics and behaviors displayed in different situations
All people possess certain traits, but the degree varies and can be quantified
Example: Different degrees of friendliness trait in different individuals
Allport's 3 basic categories of traits
Cardinal traits: Direct most of a person's activities
Example: Total selflessness directing energy towards volunteering
Central traits: Major characteristics of an individual
Example: Honesty, sociability, kindness
Secondary traits: Affect behavior in fewer situations and less influential than central or cardinal traits
Example: Reluctance to eat meat, love of classical music
Cattell and Eysenck: Factor Analysis
Factor analysis: Identifying associations among variables to reveal patterns
Cattell's 16 pairs of source traits, Eysenck's 3 major dimensions (extraversion, neuroticism, psychoticism)
The Big Five Personality Traits: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, Neuroticism
Personality is the sum of learned responses to the external environment
Skinner's belief that personality is a collection of learned behavior patterns
Similar responses across situations caused by patterns of reinforcement in the past
Learning approaches focus on modifying behavior through learning
Bandura's observational learning theory: People can foresee outcomes of behaviors without carrying them out
Reciprocal determinism: Environment affects personality, but behavior and personalities also modify the environment
Self-efficacy: Belief in one's personal capabilities
People with high self-efficacy have higher aspirations, persistence, and success
Self-efficacy can be cultivated through reflecting on past successes and failures, reinforcement, and encouragement from others
Humanistic approaches emphasize innate goodness and drive to achieve higher levels of functioning
Rogers' need for self-actualization: Realizing highest potential
Need for positive regard: Desire to be loved and respected, dependence on others' opinions
Self-discrepancies: Conflict between experiences and self-concepts
Discrepancies lead to psychological disturbances and anxiety
Conditions of worth: Placing value on others' opinions leads to distorted self-concepts
Incongruence leads to anxiety and defensive behavior
Physiognomy: Personality traits detected from facial features
Falsified in the past but making a return
Examples of discriminating structural features for predicting criminality
Projective tests: Ambiguous stimulus to describe or tell a story
Examples: Rorschach test, Thematic Apperception Test (TAT)
Self-report measures: Directly asking about thoughts and feelings
Example: Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory-2 (MMPI-2)
Behavioral assessment: Measuring behavior to describe personality characteristics
Stress and Coping in Health Psychology
Psychoneuroimmunology: Study of the relationship among psychological factors, the immune system, and the brain
Highest reported stress levels among 35-54 year-olds
Students feeling overwhelmed and academic life being traumatic
15-17-year-olds spending most of their day under significant stress
Grade 7 & 8 students reporting stress and worry
Stress is a response to events that threaten or challenge one's ability to cope
Even pleasant events can evoke stress
Stress is subjective and varies from person to person
Perception of threat and lack of coping resources determine stress
Stress is subjective and impacts individuals differently
Individual differences in noticing and appraising an event
Primary appraisal: Relevance and significance of the event
Secondary appraisal: Ability to cope with the event
Categorizing stressors
Cataclysmic events are sudden and affect many people simultaneously.
Examples: major catastrophes
Personal stressors are major life events with immediate reactions.
Examples: death of a loved one, loss of a job, major personal failure
Long-lasting effects after major catastrophes or personal stressors.
Symptoms include flashbacks, emotional numbing, sleep difficulties, substance abuse.
Veterans and women in treatment for substance misuse often have PTSD.
Trauma severity and outcomes are weakly correlated.
Everyday annoyances with long-term effects if they continue.
Examples: changes in life, internal conflicts, frustration, pressure.
Daily grind of traffic, work, kids, cooking, laundry.
Activates same hormonal response as acute stressors, but over prolonged periods of time.
Daily Hassles & Uplifts scales used to assess chronic stressors & their buffers.
Minor positive events that make one feel good/uplifted.
Frequent experience of uplifts may protect psychological health.
Greater number of uplifts experienced, the fewer negative psychological symptoms reported.
Examples: compliments, friendly chats, great meals, accomplishing goals, etc.
Minor irritations of daily life.
Examples: not enough time, too many things to do, troubling thoughts about the future, etc.
Emotional, physiological, and psychological responses.
Behavioral, emotional, cognitive, physiological responses.
Coping efforts, anxiety, anger, fear, etc.
Autonomic arousal, hormonal fluctuation, neurochemical changes.
Stage of physical exhaustion.
Stress has biological and psychological consequences.
Exposure to stressors leads to hormone secretions, increased heart rate and blood pressure.
Short-term responses may be adaptive, but chronic exposure leads to decline in overall biological functioning.
Stressful reactions can promote deterioration of body tissues.
Psychophysiological disorders result from or are worsened by stress.
Physical problems such as high blood pressure, headaches, backaches, indigestion, fatigue, etc.
High levels of stress prevent people from adequately coping with life.
Changes our view of the world, negative lens, less able to deal with new stressors.
Cumulative activation of fight-or-flight response causes widespread damage.
High blood pressure, plaque build-up in arteries, heart attack.
Changes gut bacteria, increase in GERD.
Cortisol increases appetite, crave comfort food, put on extra weight.
Dampen immune response, slow healing.
Shortened telomeres, cell age measurement, leads to cell death.
Acne, hair loss, sexual dysfunction, headaches, muscle tension.
Bodily response to stress.
3 stages: alarm & mobilization, resistance, exhaustion.
Stress hormones released, physiological changes, coping depleted.
Stress response system defends, then fatigues.
Alarm reaction, resistance, exhaustion.
Alarm and mobilization, resistance, exhaustion.
Negative consequences of stress occur when coping is inadequate.
Health psychologists take a broader approach than the GAS model.
Focus on outcomes of stress and identified 3 main consequences.
Mind-body connection is real and often undervalued.
Type A behavior characterized by hostility, competitiveness, time urgency, feeling driven.
Type B behavior characterized by cooperation, patience, noncompetitiveness, nonaggressiveness.
Type D (distressed) characterized by insecurity, anxiety, negative outlook.
Type A's lead fast-paced lives, more prone to heart disease.
Hostility is a key component linking Type A behavior and heart disease.
Type A behavior predicts heart disease independently of other factors.
Hostility leads to excessive physiological arousal, increased production of stress hormones.
Type A and Type B personality characteristics.
Type A's more prone to heart disease, driven, impatient, multitaskers.
Cancer is the 2nd leading cause of death after CHD.
Emotional responses of people living with cancer can affect the course of the disease.
Study found that those with a fighting spirit were more likely to recover.
Research shows that a fighting spirit does not improve long-term survival rate.
Emotional state affects the immune system, similar to how stress affects it.
Certain psychological therapies have the potential to extend the lives of people with cancer.
Chronic stress can lead to impaired performance, burnout, and psychological problems.
Impaired performance includes choking under pressure.
Burnout is characterized by physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion.
Chronic stress can contribute to the risk of developing psychological problems or exacerbate existing ones.
Ways to buffer against or reduce the experience of stress.
Various strategies to cope with stress:
Therapy
Music
Spa time
Exercise
Stress management
Nature
Hobby
Yoga
Meditation
Examples of coping with stress in reality:
ENEJERRY'S Cookie Dough Cream
Efforts to control, reduce, or tolerate stress.
Meditation is associated with various benefits in relation to stress:
Reduction in stress hormones and inflammatory response.
Reduction in anxiety, depression, PTSD, chronic negative thoughts.
Increases in positive emotions, gratitude, empathy.
Improves quality of sleep.
Greater self-awareness/insight, sense of self-efficacy.
Increased memory and attention span, less mind wandering.
Exercise reduces stress and improves mood.
Chemical release during exercise improves mood and reduces anxiety.
Exercise can provide a "Time Out" from worries.
Exercise improves sleep quality.
Exercise can be a form of meditation in motion.
Relationships with others act as a buffer against stress.
Emotional support makes individuals feel valued, heard, and seen.
Informational support provides advice on dealing with stress.
Tangible support involves providing goods and services to help.
Avoidant coping involves trying to avoid stressors.
Examples include wishful thinking, self-medicating, and procrastination.
Defense mechanisms are unconscious strategies to reduce anxiety.
Examples include repression, projection, displacement, and emotional insulation.
Optimism, conscientiousness, and hardiness are personality factors.
Optimists believe negative events are temporary and manageable.
Optimistic people are more productive and engage in problem-focused coping.
Optimists have lower mortality rates, better immune system response, and happier relationships.
Conscientious people engage in healthier habits, preventative healthcare, and constructive coping.
Hardy people have a lower rate of stress-related illness and take direct action to deal with stressors.
Resilience is the ability to withstand, overcome, and thrive after adversity.
Resilient people are easygoing, independent, and work with what they have.
Posttraumatic growth involves exploring the potential benefits and growth from adversity.
Some adversity is necessary for growth and resilience.
Stress can promote personal growth and self-improvement.
Intermediate levels of adversity associated with better health than low levels.
Critical Periods for Growth (Page 49)
Good parenting can make a child feel safe and have a positive affective style.
Major adversity is not likely to benefit children, so they should be protected from major traumas.
Avenues for Growth (Page 50)
Adversity reveals hidden abilities and changes self-concept for the better.
Psychological immune system helps in moving forward after trauma.
Adversity acts as a filter, separating true friends from fair-weather friends.
Adversity changes priorities and philosophy toward life.
Greater appreciation for supportive people and more empathy for others' suffering.
Parting Thoughts: How To Cultivate a Greater Subjective Well-Being
Start with self-compassion and extend it out to others.
Practice self-compassion by being kind and understanding towards yourself.
Extend compassion to others by showing empathy and support.
Engage in more voluntary activities that are intrinsically valuable to you & that allow you to meet new people.
Participate in activities that align with your interests and values.
Seek out opportunities to engage with new people and expand your social circle.
Surround yourself with people who align with your core values (or who elevate yours)
Choose friends and companions who share similar values and beliefs.
Surrounding yourself with positive influences can enhance your well-being.
Be genuine and authentic with others (socialize without an end-game)
Interact with others sincerely and without ulterior motives.
Build genuine connections based on honesty and authenticity.
Look people in the eye (put away your damn phone).
Give people your full attention by maintaining eye contact.
Avoid distractions, such as constantly checking your phone, during conversations.
Express appreciation/gratitude. Tell people you value them.
Show gratitude towards others by expressing appreciation for their presence and contributions.
Let people know that you value and cherish their presence in your life.
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