Colonisation has created an unequal society, and Pākehā have benefited.
Pākehā need to challenge outdated ideas and take cues from Māori leadership to decolonise.
Intentions don't matter when tracing the effects of colonisation; unconscious bias and systemic benefits to Pākehā must be addressed.
Decolonisation is complex and political, hinging on relationships and Māori leadership.
Reflecting on Decolonisation
Decolonisation allows Pākehā to better understand their identity, history, and connection to the land.
Pākehā identity is often based on ignoring how they came to be connected to the land.
Discomfort is important in decolonisation, and Pākehā should reflect on why they feel it instead of becoming defensive.
Avoid denial, diversion, detriment-centring, and demands to "move on."
Transforming Through Decolonisation
Pronouncing Māori names correctly is essential as it shows respect.
Learn from Māori on their experiences and on racism, and trust their views.
Pākehā must understand that their experiences of society may differ greatly from those of Māori.
Indigeneity
Pākehā are not Indigenous, and claiming Indigeneity arises from insecurities.
Fears about being asked to leave miss the point as the issue is about control, power and lack of manaakitanga (reciprocity and mutual respect) from Pākehā.
Pākehā can legitimise their place by honouring the Treaty relationship and engaging in decolonisation.
Māori 'Entitlements'
Pākehā often ignore their own privileges and inherited wealth from colonisation.
Decolonisation requires giving up power and privilege in material ways.
Support the return of Māori land and advocate for better resource allocation.
Advocate for shifting power away from Pākehā norms in workplaces and communities.
The Danger of Good Intentions
Be aware of the politics involved when engaging with te reo and tikanga Māori.
Avoid positioning oneself as an expert and consider motivations and capacity to navigate carefully.
Prioritise Māori needs and spaces and respect their perspectives, and be aware of what you say.
Pākehā must exhibit humility and care, and acknowledge broader systems perpetuating colonialism.
Speaking Up
It is important to speak out against racism and exclusionary actions; free speech is not absolute.
Balance individual freedoms with collective responsibilities.
Open a dialogue rather than shaming.
Be gentle and respectful in conversations, and support decolonisation movements.
Concluding Thoughts
Decolonisation requires a long-term commitment to listen, think, and act to create a fairer society.
Pākehā must give up some power in determining the country's direction, and should be led by Māori.
This process will require discomfort and courage in the pursuit of a stronger, fairer, and healthier society.