Parsons Chapter 7

Introduction
  • Babies express emotions from birth, inviting connection.

  • Social-emotional development is crucial for counselors.

  • Emotional development is foundational for adaptation and psychopathology.

Chapter Objectives
  • Explain self-conscious emotions.

  • Describe factors contributing to personality development.

  • Describe factors involved in emotion regulation and the caregiver's role.

  • Explain Erikson's stages of psychosocial crises.

  • Describe the value of healthy attachment and influencing factors.

The Value of Emotions
  • Emotions are rapid information processing systems aiding survival.

  • Fear response leads to fight or flight.

  • Emotions coordinate reactions, perception, and behavior.

  • Emotions enrich experiences and strengthen relationships.

_ Theories of Emotional Development
  • Some theorists suggest a general emotional response.

  • Early emotional life consists of attraction/withdrawal.

  • Other theorists argue infants are born with discrete feelings.

  • Basic emotions become more complex with development.

Basic Emotions in Babies
  • Newborns express distress through crying.

  • Babies show interest, disgust, and satisfaction.

  • Around two months, infants exhibit social smiling.

  • By six months, babies express differentiated emotions.

Self-Conscious Emotions
  • By 24 months, babies express self-conscious emotions.

  • These emotions reflect a sense of self and understanding of social rules.

  • Toddlers may show shame or empathy.

  • Appearance indicates cognitive sense of self and understanding of standards.

Emotion Regulation
  • Unregulated emotions can have negative consequences.

  • Emotion regulation is controlling behavior, including emotions, thoughts, actions, and attention.

  • It involves adjusting emotional state to achieve goals.

  • Emotion regulation is essential for successful development.

  • Difficulty is associated with later aggressive or withdrawn behaviors.

  • Emotional self-regulation improves rapidly due to prefrontal cortex development and caregiver influence.

  • Caregiver-child interactions are significant.

  • Healthy interactions help children acquire knowledge of emotions and adaptive strategies.

  • Caregivers scaffold emotion regulation by modeling adaptive strategies.

  • Soothing responses help babies stop crying.

  • Babies soothed at two months can self-soothe at six months.

Caution About Self-Soothing Behaviors

  • Self-soothing behaviors can provide relief.

  • Problematic if continued or if the child engages in injurious behaviors.

  • Parent should consult with a counselor if concerned.

Emerging Personality
  • Infant descriptions point to temperament and unfolding personality.

  • Children have a constitutional foundation as temperament.

  • Temperament includes stable, early appearing individual differences.

  • Temperament reflects reactivity and self-regulation.

  • Fussy babies are quickly aroused and have low self-regulation ability.

  • Temperament and personality are less stable during infancy and toddlerhood.

  • Personality development is a result of biologically based temperament interacting with experiences and social context.

Culture and Temperament
  • Temperament has a biological base shaped by social-cultural experience.

  • Parents influence personality by modeling and responding to behaviors based on cultural values.

  • Asian cultures prioritize low levels of emotionality.

  • Japanese mothers discourage emotional reactions, while North American mothers encourage them.

  • Japanese children display lower irritability and more self-soothing.

Resolving Psychosocial Crises (Erik Erikson)
  • Erikson's theory emphasizes social experiences and resolving personal needs within social context demands.

  • Conflict between individual and society creates crises.

  • Infants and toddlers move from dependence to independence.

Trust vs. Mistrust

  • Early experiences shape infant expectations about the world's safety and supportiveness.

  • Developing trust is the challenge for infants.

  • Trust develops through feeding and caregiver response to cries.

  • Warm physical contact during feeding helps babies trust that their needs will be met.

  • Responding to crying builds expectation that the world is safe and predictable.

  • Inconsistent or unsupportive care leads to mistrust and withdrawal.

  • Unresponsive caregivers elicit anxiety, fear, and mistrust.

  • Mistrust can result from cruel treatment or unmet needs.

  • Successful resolution is the foundation for future risk-taking and independence.

Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

  • Erikson's second stage focuses on unfolding autonomy.

  • Muscular maturation is the foundation for experimentation.

  • Child explores and establishes independence.

  • Scaffolding freedom increases the probability of success.

  • Toddlers want independence and express their emerging self.

  • Scaffolding and structuring experiences promotes independence and self-reliance.

Attachment and Early Social Connection
  • Infants and toddlers are socio-emotional beings interested in their social world.

  • Desire and ability to connect and attach to a caregiver is nearly universal.

  • John Bowlby proposed an ethological theory of attachment.

  • Bowlby maintains that both infants and caregivers are biologically disposed to form attachments.

  • Newborns foster caregiver interest through crying, clinging, cooing, and smiling.

  • Bowlby argued infants develop an internal working model of attachment.

Mary Ainsworth

  • Ainsworth developed the Strange Situation to observe babies' responses.

  • The method has been used across social-cultural contexts to investigate attachment patterns.

  • Ainsworth reported three categories: secure, anxious-avoidant, and anxious-ambivalent.

  • A fourth pattern, anxious-disorganized/disoriented, was added by Maiman Solomon.

Categories of Attachment

  • Secure: Use caregiver as a secure base, explore, return when frightened, reconnect easily.

  • Avoidant: Insecure attachment, not overtly distressed during separation, exhibit mild avoidant behaviors upon return.

  • Ambivalent: Anxiety and mixed feelings, distress and anger observed upon separation.

  • Disorganized/Disoriented: Often found in children who have experienced abuse or neglect, view caregiver as both source of comfort and anxiety, conflicting behaviors, no consistent strategy.

Phases of Attachment

  • Attachment develops through phases:

  • Preattachment (birth to 6 weeks): Built-in signals to bring caregivers into contact for comfort, no fear of strangers.

  • Indiscriminate Attachment (6 weeks to 6-8 months): Respond differently to caregivers vs. strangers, aware of connection between actions and caregiver behavior, begin to develop trust, no protest when separated.

  • Discriminate Attachment (6-8 months to 18-24 months): Protest caregiver's departure, separation anxiety, employ requests and persuasion.

  • Formation of Reciprocal Relationship (2 years and on): Predict caregiver return after separation, show less anxiety.

  • Secure attachment contributes to strong friendships, emotional understanding, early conscience, and positive self.

  • Secure attachment is associated with more adaptive emotion regulation.

  • Insecure attachments show more significant emotion dysregulation, greater risk for externalizing and internalizing problems.

  • Babbling, following, clinging, and requesting bedtime stories are forms of social interaction.

  • Providing a signal before transitioning helps.

Caregiver Interaction
  • Secure attachment and healthy social relationships result from caregiver interactions.

  • Securely attached babies have caregivers who are sensitive to their signals and consistently available.

Cultural Variations
  • All children need to develop a relational network.

  • Bowlby's universality questioned.

  • Criticism: fails to consider cultural variations.

  • Attachment patterns may need to be interpreted differently in certain cultures.

  • Conclusions about caregiver style and quality should be viewed within the local context, culture, and living conditions.

Cultural Variations Examples:

  • Zambia: Siblings play an essential role in carajiving, and attachment is strong to both mother and sibling carajivers.

  • Germany: Infants appear more avoidant attachment when contrasted to American babies, possibly reflecting cultural valuing of independence.

  • Saharan communities: Children do not exhibit stranger anxiety.

Take Away for Counselors
  • Attachment quality is impacted by caregiver sensitivity and responsibility.

  • Resolution of psychosocial crises is affected by caregiver responses.

  • Caregivers need knowledge and skills to support healthy development.

  • Providing caregivers with practice and feedback enhances attachment security.

  • Psychoeducation can address emotion regulation and facilitating healthy attachments.

Targets for Psychoeducation

  • Emotion Regulation: Emotionally available caregivers are sensitive, structuring, non-intrusive, and non-hostile.

    • Counselors can help caregivers:

    • Model emotion regulation by being patient.

    • Reduce caregiver reactivity by remaining calm and lowering voice volume.

    • Be responsive to cues and needs.

    • Provide comforting words and gestures.

    • Establish routines.

  • Facilitating Healthy Attachments:

    • Securely attached babies have caregivers who are sensitive and consistently available.

    • Counselors can help caregivers:

    • Use verbal and nonverbal communication to bond.

    • Use appropriate physical contact.

    • Engage in face-to-face contact.

    • Use a gentle tone of voice, responding and repeating the child's vocalizations.

    • Provide freedom and space to explore.

    • Be consistent with routines and schedules.

  • Working with Temperaments:

    • Caregivers of difficult children can decrease emotional reactivity and increase emotion regulation by setting limits and teaching alternative ways of expressing displeasure.

    • Caregivers of shy infants and toddlers can reduce reactivity to novelty by being warm and supportive and placing appropriate demands on the child to approach new experiences.

Keystones
  • Emotions are a basis for rapid information processing.

  • Babies respond with arousal and valence.

  • Infants express differentiated emotions by six months of age.

  • Self conscious emotions developed by 24 months.

  • Emotion regulation is the result of neurological development and experience.

  • Personality development is the result of biologically based temperament interacting with experiences and social context.

  • Erickson's theory posits that infants are attempting to establish a sense of trust.

  • Babies make emotional attachments.

  • Bowlby's theory of attachment remains the most widely accepted view of attachment.

  • The development of attachment is fostered or inhibited as a function of carriage either responsiveness.

Introduction

  • Babies show emotions at birth.

  • Social-emotional development is key for counselors.

  • Emotional development is vital for adaptation.

Chapter Objectives

  • Explain self-conscious emotions.

  • Describe factors in personality and emotion regulation.

  • Explain Erikson's psychosocial stages.

  • Describe attachment value.

The Value of Emotions

  • Emotions are rapid info systems for survival.

  • Fear leads to fight or flight.

  • Emotions coordinate reactions and behavior.

  • Emotions enrich experiences and relationships.

Theories of Emotional Development

  • Some see general emotional response.

  • Early life: attraction/withdrawal.

  • Others: infants born with discrete feelings.

  • Basic emotions become complex.

Basic Emotions in Babies

  • Newborns cry for distress.

  • Babies show interest, disgust, satisfaction.

  • Social smiling at two months.

  • Differentiated emotions by six months.

Self-Conscious Emotions

  • By 24 months, babies show self-conscious emotions.

  • Reflect sense of self and social rules.

  • Toddlers show shame or empathy.

Emotion Regulation

  • Unregulated emotions are negative.

  • Emotion regulation = controlling behavior, emotions, thoughts, actions, attention.

  • Adjusting emotional state to goals.

  • Essential for development.

  • Difficulty linked to aggression or withdrawal.

  • Improves due to prefrontal cortex and caregiver influence.

  • Caregiver-child interactions matter.

  • Healthy interactions teach emotions and strategies.

  • Caregivers model strategies.

  • Soothing helps babies stop crying.

Caution About Self-Soothing Behaviors

  • Self-soothing can help.

  • Problematic if continued or injurious.

  • Consult a counselor if concerned.

Emerging Personality

  • Infant descriptions = temperament and personality.

  • Children have temperament.

  • Temperament = stable individual differences.

  • Temperament reflects reactivity and self-regulation.

  • Fussy babies aroused quickly, low self-regulation.

  • Temperament/personality less stable in infancy.

  • Personality = temperament + experiences + context.

Culture and Temperament

  • Temperament shaped by social-cultural experience.

  • Parents model/respond to behaviors based on values.

  • Asian cultures value low emotionality.

  • Japanese mothers discourage emotions, North American mothers encourage.

  • Japanese children less irritable, more self-soothing.

Resolving Psychosocial Crises (Erik Erikson)

  • Erikson: social experiences, resolving needs in social context.

  • Conflict between individual and society creates crises.

  • Infants move to independence.

Trust vs. Mistrust

  • Early experiences shape expectations.

  • Developing trust is the challenge.

  • Trust develops through feeding and response to cries.

  • Warm contact helps babies trust needs are met.

  • Responding to crying builds safety expectation.

  • Inconsistent care = mistrust, withdrawal.

  • Unresponsive caregivers = anxiety, fear, mistrust.

Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

  • Erikson's second stage: autonomy.

  • Muscular maturation for experimentation.

  • Child explores, establishes independence.

  • Scaffolding freedom increases success.

  • Toddlers want independence.

Attachment and Early Social Connection

  • Infants are socio-emotional beings.

  • Desire to connect and attach.

  • Bowlby: ethological theory of attachment.

  • Infants/caregivers biologically disposed to attach.

  • Newborns foster interest through crying, clinging, cooing, smiling.

  • Bowlby: internal working model of attachment.

Mary Ainsworth

  • Ainsworth: Strange Situation.

  • Used to investigate attachment patterns.

  • Categories: secure, anxious-avoidant, anxious-ambivalent.

  • Fourth pattern: anxious-disorganized/disoriented.

Categories of Attachment

  • Secure: Uses caregiver as base, explores, returns when scared, reconnects.

  • Avoidant: Insecure, not distressed during separation, avoidant upon return.

  • Ambivalent: Anxiety and mixed feelings, distress and anger observed upon separation.

  • Disorganized/Disoriented: Abuse or neglect, caregiver = comfort and anxiety.

Phases of Attachment

  • Preattachment (birth to 6 weeks): Signals to bring caregivers into contact, no fear of strangers.

  • Indiscriminate Attachment (6 weeks to 6-8 months): Respond differently to caregivers vs. strangers, aware of connection between actions and caregiver behavior, develop trust, no protest when separated.

  • Discriminate Attachment (6-8 months to 18-24 months): Protest caregiver's departure, separation anxiety, employ requests and persuasion.

  • Formation of Reciprocal Relationship (2 years and on): Predict caregiver return after separation, show less anxiety.

Caregiver Interaction

  • Secure attachment from caregiver interactions.

  • Securely attached babies have sensitive, available caregivers.

Cultural Variations

  • All children need relational network.

  • Bowlby's universality questioned.

  • Criticism: fails to consider cultural variations.

Cultural Variations Examples:

  • Zambia: Siblings play a key role.

  • Germany: Infants more avoidant.

  • Saharan communities: Children lack stranger anxiety.

Take Away for Counselors

  • Attachment impacted by caregiver sensitivity.

  • Psychosocial crises affected by caregiver responses.

  • Caregivers need skills to support development.

Targets for Psychoeducation

  • Emotion Regulation: Emotionally available caregivers are sensitive, structuring, non-intrusive, and non-hostile.

  • Facilitating Healthy Attachments: Securely attached babies have sensitive and consistently available caregivers.

  • Working with Temperaments: Caregivers of difficult children can decrease emotional reactivity and increase emotion regulation by setting limits and teaching alternative ways of expressing displeasure.

Keystones

  • Emotions are for rapid information processing.

  • Babies respond with arousal and valence.

  • Infants express differentiated emotions by