GayBarsPt.5 (incomplete)

Cruisy Men's Bars: Democratizing Sexy Community

  • Cruisy men’s bars are a specific type of gay bar, including:
    • Leather and kink bars
    • Gay strip clubs
    • Bars for bears (hairy and husky men)
  • Traditionally, these bars served primarily or exclusively cisgender gay men.
  • Like lesbian bars, these gender-segregated bars usually exist in big cities with at least four gay bars.
  • These bars have been criticized for denigrating femininity and women.
  • They also celebrate larger, hairier bodies, older men, and kinks that are often sidelined in conventional gay bars.
  • Some find these places sordid, while others are drawn to that aspect.
  • They are important sites of sexual and self-discovery.
  • Atmospheres are intoxicating, anxiety-inducing, and hot, celebrating the “sex” in homosexuality.
  • Gay men have forged “sexy community.