Counseling and the Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP)

Counseling & The SLP

Brittny Ball M.A., CCC-SLP

What Counseling Is

  • Counseling regarding a communication disorder is a vital component of the services that SLPs provide to their patients and families.

  • According to Roth and Worthington, counseling is defined as an interpersonal relationship intended to alleviate emotional stress arising from or contributing to the primary communicative disorder (pg. 44).

  • An ongoing process.

  • Should involve the multidisciplinary team to ensure consistency in approach.

  • A relationship that takes time to build.

  • Requires sensitivity and empathy.

  • Respect for the individual.

  • Honesty

  • Active listening

  • Advocating for your patient.

Why We Counsel

  • Education is a key reason for counseling.

  • Helping patients and families cope with the rehabilitation process and the disorder in general.

  • Providing resources to patients and families.

  • Developing strategies for managing the disorder.

  • Allows clients to communicate their feelings and fears.

  • Allows a space for clients to target and experience attitude and behavioral changes.

What Counseling Is NOT

  • Counseling vs. Psychotherapy:

    • Psychotherapy: Involves looking for unconscious patterns in behavior to make personality changes.

    • Counseling: Involves assisting a client to acknowledge feelings and emotions and appropriately implementing problem-solving to assist the client with adjustment.

Boundaries Within Counseling

  • SLPs are not psychologists.

  • There are boundaries with topics discussed.

    • Examples of topics that are outside the scope of SLP counseling:

      • Marital problems

      • Chronic depression/Anxiety

      • Unrelated health issues

  • It's important to recognize when you feel uncomfortable and to refer when necessary.

Common Responses of Patients and Families

  • What to expect:

    • Grief

    • Anger

    • Depression

    • Guilt

    • Shame

    • Anxiety

    • Isolation

Traits of an Effective Counselor

  • Appropriate sharing: Being intentional about the information you share and do not share about yourself.

  • Non-Judgmental: Being aware of your biases and never pressing information as “good vs. bad” or “right vs. wrong.”

  • Comfortable with tears and emotions: Resisting the urge to re-direct and providing a space for the patient/family to process emotions.

  • Keeping the focus on the patient/family: Determine their specific needs and be flexible.

  • Not being solution oriented: Focus on the patients and what they are communicating and not on finding a solution to their problems.

  • Ability to terminate the relationship: Set your patients up for success with discharge.

Strategies Used by an Effective Counselor

  • Desensitization: Targeting the alleviation of anxiety about triggering situations.

  • Relaxation: Training your patient to use strategies to relax.

  • Counter-questions: Using questions to determine what the patient/family is really seeking.

  • Reframing: Directing the patient’s/family’s attention to the positives.

  • Open-ended/Indirect questions: Encourages individuals to share more than a one- or two-word answer.

  • Role playing: Prepping your patient for anxiety-producing situations.

  • Empathetic listening/Paraphrasing: Active listening with rephrasing of their shared feelings.

  • Silence: Gives the individual space to formulate thoughts and often share more.

Practice Scenarios: How Would You Respond?

  • Parents of a 5-year-old boy with autism who is non-verbal ask you: “Will he ever talk?”

  • A spouse of an individual who has sustained a significant stroke leaving him with left-sided hemiplegia and severe Broca’s aphasia asked you, “How long before he is normal again?”

  • A 25-year-old female individual who stutters tearfully states, “I hate how lonely I am! I don’t think I am ever going to find a man who will love me because of the way I talk.”

Citation

  • Roth, F. P., & Worthington, C. K. (2016). Treatment resource manual for speech-language pathology. Cengage Learning.