Larkin and Duffy comparison - for 12/12/25
Loss
Wild Oats
presents an atmosphere of accepted loss, a loss that derives from personal mistake rather than worldly disadvantage.
hints at a damaged masculinity, broken by the lack of strength and willpower to pursue this relationship - trickles into nothing - loss
“ was an agreement that I was too selfish, withdrawn, and easily bored of love” - individual flaws caused the breakdown of the relationship
Loss is presented as not necessarily debilitating but rather a bittersweet reflection of a time that was better
“In my wallet are still two snaps”, - suggests he takes comfort in reminiscing and despite the loss, feels a sense of comfort that he has a memory of this relationship
“Larkin is synonymous with loneliness, scepticism and regret” - Edwards
talking in bed
Loss is presented as a gradual shift that is represented in the breakdown of a connection.
lack of intimacy already prompts the loss of something - without a relationship technical ending, the couple mutually understand that it is over.
“yet more and more time passes silently “ - loss of mutuality