Wishes and regrets
Wish/ If only + Past Simple or + Would/Could….
Use: Express a wish/regret about a general state that exists in the present, or a usual or regular event or habit. We use would when the mentioned action could be changed if the Subject chose to (Often used to complain one’s behavior)
Use: Things that aren’t true or something that we want in the present, with could = action can be changed —> used to complain
Ex: I wish I would have a better phone.
If only I was in a more prestigious school.
Wish/ If only + Past Perfect
Use: Express a wish or regret about the past by saying how we would like the past to be different
Ex: If only I had met you earlier.
Wish/ If only + infinitive with to
Use: In formal situations, = want + infinitive. Can be used to talk in the past, present or future.
Ex: Napoleon wished to keep all his plans a secret until the very last moment.
Noteworthy points
Wish + Present Simple ≈ wish + infinitive, but is more requirements-oriented (future) And the wish + past simple is more frequently used.
Ex: I wish you listen. I wish you listened more.
When people talk about their wishes for the future, they use hope more often.
Ex: I hope you have a great experience in our hotel. She hopes to get a better job.
Would rather + infinitive (possible future event)
Ex: I’d rather go to the beach than go hiking.
Would prefer + infinitive with to(possible future event)
Ex: I’d prefer to have a coffe rather than some bland tea.