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Chapter

Brief summary of events

Key themes explored + relevant quotations

Key character development + relevant quotations

1

Discussion on marriage. Mr + Mrs Bennet discuss arrival of rich Bingley- could marry one of the Bennet sisters. Lizzy is not like other girls

Marriage

  • "it is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife"

Gender roles

  • "they are all silly and ignorant like other girls; but Lizzy has something more of quickness than her sisters"

  • "when a woman has five grown up daughters, she ought to give over thinking of her own beauty"- mother

Wealth + money

  • "a single man of large fortune [...] What a fine thing for our girls!"

Mr Bennet values intelligence (for his daughters) + is intelligent etc.

  • "they are all silly and ignorant like other girls; but Lizzy has something more of quickness than her sisters"

  • "Mr Bennet was so odd a mixture of quick parts, sarcastic, humour, reserve, and caprice."

Mrs Bennet is not vain- motherly

  • "when a woman has five grown up daughters, she ought to give over thinking of her own beauty"

 

2

Mr+ Mrs Bennet plan for Mr Bingley to meet their daughters

Marriage+ love- parents' duty. Familial love is providing the best social marriages.

  • "If I can but see one of my daughters happily settled at Netherfield[...] and all the others equally well married, I shall have nothing to wish for" p11

Mrs Bennet is hysterical woman

  • "my nerves"

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Mr Bennet has visited Mr Bingley. The Bennet sisters are trying to find out what he's like. The dance happens- everyone likes Mr Bingley and hates Mr Darcey.

Reputation matters:

  • Abt Mr Darcey "His character was decided." p13

Snobbery

  • "She is tolerable; but not handsome enough to tempt me"

Romance- based on looks (as well as class)

  • "Oh! She is the most beautiful creature I ever beheld!"

Gender roles- all the sisters (except Lizzy?) conform to gender roles:

Mr Bingley is ideal

  • "good looking and gentlemanlike; he had  pleasant countenance, and easy, unaffected manners"

  • "he was lively and unreserved, danced every dance"

  • Romantic: "Oh! She is the most beautiful creature I ever beheld!"

Mr Darcey is good looking but bad

  • "much handsomer than Mr Bingley [...] till his manners gave a disgust which turned the tide of his popularity."

  • "Not all his large estate in Derbyshire could then save him from having a most forbidding, disagreeable, countenance". P12

  • "He was the proudest, most disagreeable man in the world"

  • "She is tolerable; but not handsome enough to tempt me"

4

Jane's telling Elizabeth how much she likes Bingley.

Gender roles ig?

  • "He is just what a young man ought to be [...] sensible, good humoured, lively; and I never saw such happy manners!-- so much ease, with such perfect good breeding" p16

Social class and snobbery

  • "They were rather handsome, had been educated in one of the first private seminaries in town, had a fortune of twenty thousand pounds, were in the habit of spending more than they ought, and of associating with people of rank; and were therefore in every respect entitled to think well of themselves, and meanly of others." p17

Jane Bennet

  • "You have liked many a stupider person"- Lizzy p16

  • "You ever see a fault in any body. All the world are good and agreeable in your eyes.

  • Mr Bingley: "could not conceive an angel more beautiful" p118

 

5

Introduced to Lucases. They are all complaining about Mr Darcey.

Gender roles

  • "Lady Lucas was a very good kind of woman, not too clever to be a valuable neighbour to Mrs Bennet"

Social class + snobbery (pride)

  • "His pride [...] does not offend me so much as pride often does, because there is an excuse for it. One cannot wonder that so very fine a young man, with family, fortune, every thing in his favour, should think highly of himself. If I may so express it, he has a right to be proud." p21

  • From Mary: "Pride[...] is a very common failing I believe [...] Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us."

Sir William Lucas

  • Of his mayoralty, "The distinction had perhaps been felt too strongly. It had given him a disgust to his business and to his residence." So he moved "where he could think with pleasure of his own importance, and unshackled by business, occupy himself solely in being civil to all the world".

Lady Lucas

  • "Lady Lucas was a very good kind of woman, not too clever to be a valuable neighbour to Mrs Bennet"

6

Miss Bingley + Miss Hurst like Jane but not the other Bennets. Lizzy + Charlotte chat about how Jane should get Mr Bingley + marriage as a whole. They are on a walk (?) Mr Darcey likes Lizzy. Lizzy sings well, Mary... Does not.

Love (+marriage)

  • "if a woman conceals her affection with the same skill from the object of it, she may lose the opportunity of fixing him; and it will then be but poor consolation to believe the world equally in the dark [...] In nine cases out of ten, a woman had better shew more affection than she feels"- Charlotte p22. Charlotte makes plans about how to get the man but Lizzy replies...

  • "Your plan is a good one [...] where nothing is in question but the desire of being well married[...] but these are not Jane's feelings; she is not acting by design"

Marriage

  • "Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance. If the dispositions of the parties are ever so well known to each other or ever so similar beforehand, it does not advance their felicity in the least. They always continue to grow sufficiently unlike afterwards to have their share of vexation; and it is better to know as little as possible of the defects of the person with whom you are to pass your life."

Love

  • "I have been meditating on the very great pleasure which a pair of fine eyes in the face of a pretty woman can bestow" p27

Poor Mary Bennet

  • "Mary, who having, in consequence of being the only plain one in the family, worked hard for knowledge and accomplishments, was always impatient for display."

  • "Mary had neither genius nor taste; and though vanity had given her application, it had given her likewise a pedantic and conceited manner, which would have injured a higher degree of excellence than she had reached." p25

Mr Darcey

  • "I have been meditating on the very great pleasure which a pair of fine eyes in the face of a pretty woman can bestow" p27

7

Catherine + Lydia walk to Meryton to see Aunt Philips- largely to find out about officers. Jane sees Mr Bingley, is unwell so stays there. Lizzy visits her and stays with Jane at Netherfield (with Bingleys)

Gender roles

  • Elizabeth walking 3 miles "was almost incredible to Mrs Hurst and Miss Bingley; and Elizabeth was convinced that they held her in contempt for it. She was received, however, very politely by them"- they put up facade idk.

Catherine + Lydia Bennet

  • "their minds were more vacant than their sisters'"

  • "they could talk of nothing but officers; and Mr Bingley's large fortune"

  • Mr Bennet: "you must be two of the silliest girls in the country"

Elizabeth Bennet

  • "weary ancles, dirty stocking, and a face glowing with teh warmth of exercise" p33

Mrs Hurst + Miss Bingley

  • Elizabeth walking 3 miles "was almost incredible to Mrs Hurst and Miss Bingley; and Elizabeth was convinced that they held her in contempt for it. She was received, however, very politely by them"- they put up facade idk.

  • "...affection and solicitude they shewed for Jane"

8

Dinner at Netherfield. Lizzy goes to look after Jane. Miss Bingley + Hurst trash-talk Lizzy. Lizzy returns and reads. More boring discussion about stuff we can analyse ig. Stuff abt what an accomplished woman should be able to do (idk- prolly write an essay on NLMG). Lizzy leaves again and so they continue insulting her.

Gender roles

  • Miss Bingley about Lizzy walking: "It seems to me to shew an abominable sort of conceited independence, a most country town indifference to decorum".

Social class + snobbery

  • Mrs Hurst: "I have an excessive regard for Jane Bennet, she is really a very sweet girl [...] But with such a father and mother, and such low connections, I am afraid there is no chance of it." She has relatives in "Cheapside"

Gender roles

  • Bingley: "It is amazing to me [...] how young ladies can have patience to be so very accomplished, as they all are. [...] They all paint tables, cover skreens and net purses. I scarcely know any one who cannot do all this."

  • Discussion on what an accomplished woman is, assistant: "A woman must have a thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing, dancing, and the modern languages, to deserve the world [...] she must possess a certain something in her air and manner of walking, the tone of her voice, her address and expressions." p39

Love

  • Darcey: "Undoubtedly [...] there is meanness in all the arts which ladies sometimes condescend to employ for captivation. Whatever bear affinity to cunning is despicable."

Miss Bingley

  • About Lizzy: "Miss Bingley began abusing her as soon as she was out of the room. Her manners were pronounced to be very bad indeed, a mixture of pride and impertinence; she had no conversation, no stile, no taste, no beauty."

Mrs Hurst

  • Also abt Lizzy: "She has nothing, in short, to recommend her, but being an excellent walker... She really looked almost wild." p36

 

9

Mrs Bennet + 2 youngest Bennets come to visit Jane (again- geez guys, she has a cold). Mrs Bennet is hyping up Jane (namesake of Austen... Interesting). Mrs Bennet and co leave.

Familial love is to marry off your kiddos

  • "she had not wish of her [i.e. Jane] recovering immediately, as her restoration to health would probably remove her from Netherfield." p41

Social class (abt Sir Lucas)

  • Mrs Bennet: "so much the man of fashion! so genteel and so easy! -- He has always something to say to every body. -- That is my idea of good breeding" (btw mistyped that as "breading")

Gender roles

  • Mrs Bennet: "my daughters are brought up differently."p44 Look in glossary for fun feminist theory (p388)

Mrs Bennet- wants to marry her kiddos off

  • "she had not wish of her [i.e. Jane] recovering immediately, as her restoration to health would probably remove her from Netherfield." p41

Mrs Bennet about Jane

  • "she has, without exception, the sweetest temper I ever met with" p42

Lydia

  • "She had high animal spirits, and a sort of natural self-consequence"

10

In drawing room. Darcy is writing- Miss Bingley is being a slimy suck-up. Darcy accuses Mr Bingley's humility of being boasting (... it is). They argue a bit. They're all being exceedingly boring in this chapter.

Pride ig?

  • Darcy: "Nothing is more deceitful [...] than the appearance of humility. It is often only carelessness of opinion, and sometimes an indirect boast." p47

 

11

Lizzy + Jane and Mrs H+B  in drawing room. Mr D + B come in- Miss Bingley is obvs trying to bag Mr D. They flirt by... walking. Lizzy + Darcy then flirt by talking about "defects" (romantic).

 

Mrs Hurst and Miss Bingley

  • "Elizabeth had never seen then so agreeable as they were during the hour which passed before the gentlemen appeared."

Mr Darcy

  • "My temper would perhaps be called resentful.-- My good opinion once lost is lost for ever." p56-7

Mr Darcy + Lizzy

  • "And your defect is a propensity to hate every body." "And yours", he replied with a simile, "is wilfully to misunderstand them.". p57

Miss Bingley

  • ""Do let us have a little music,"-- cried Miss Bingley, tired of a conversation in which she had no share."  p57

12

Jane + Lizzy finally leave. Mr D doesn't want Lizzy to know he likes her (-being emo and all that).

 

 

13

Mr Collins sends letter that he will arrive at the Bennets. Mr Collins has patronage of Lady C de B. He arrives and is not a #feminist. Mr Collins will get the house after Mr Bennet dies cuz pAtRiArChY.

Gender Roles + Wealth and Money

  • "my cousin, Mr. Collins, who, when I am dead, may turn you all out of this house as soon as he pleases". P60

  • "I do think it is the hardest thing in the world, that your estate should be entailed away from your own children" (abt Mr Collins have rights to house) p61 see p385.

  • "his commendation of every thing would have touched Mrs/ Bennet's heart, but for the mortifying supposition of his viewing it all as his own future property." p64

Mr Collins

  • "His air was grave and stately, and his manners very formal." p63

14

Mr Bennet + Collins discuss Lady C de B. Does he like her?-- probably. Mr Collins is boasting.

Reputation

  • "Lady Catherine was reckoned proud by many people he knew, but he had never seen any thing but affability in her." p65

Social class + snobbery

  • "Lady Catherine herself says that in point of true beauty, Miss De Bourgh is far superior to the handsomest of her sex; because there is that in her features which marks the young woman of distinguished birth." p66

Lady Catherine De Bourgh

  • "Lady Catherine herself says that in point of true beauty, Miss De Bourgh is far superior to the handsomest of her sex; because there is that in her features which marks the young woman of distinguished birth." p66

15

Mr Collins's backstory. Omg he wants to marry his second-nieces. Jesus. They all go on a walk. Lydia + Kitty meet officers- Mr Denny + Wickham. Mr Darcy and Mr Wickham aren't buddies. At Mrs Philips for dinner.

Marriage

  • Abt Mr Collin : "Having now a good house and very sufficient income, he intended to marry"- marriage is milestone in life.

Lydia + Catherine Bennet

  • "Their eyes were immediately wandering up in the street in quest of the officer, and nothing less than a very smart bonnet indeed, or a really new muslin in a shop window, could recal them." p71

Mr Collins- Jesus he's too obsequious

  • "altogether a mixture of pride and obsequiousness, self-importance and humility".

  • The dude WILL NOT shut up about Lady C de B.

  • "he had never met with so much attention in the whole course of his life"- abt Mrs Philips

16

Dinner Mrs Philips's. Mr Wickham chatting it up with Lizzy. Mr W knew Mr D's dad who was apparently nice. He says Mr D took all his father's money- cutting Mr W out the will (and I oop-). Lady C de B is Darcy's aunt.

Pride

  • "He is not at all liked in Hertfordshire. Every body is disgusted with his pride." abt Mr Darcy p76

Pride + Family

  • According to Mr W, Mr D's pride "It has often led him to be liberal and general [...] Family pride, and filial pride, for his is very proud of what his father was, have done this. Not to appear to disgrace his family [...] or lose the influence of the Pemberley House, is a powerful motive." p80

Social class + snobbery (prejudice)

  • Mr W says about Mr D "Among those who are at all his equals in consequence, he is a very different man from what he is to the less prosperous." p81

Mr Wickham

  • "the agreeable manner in which he immediately fell into conversation, though it was only on its being a wet night"- p75. All style no substance.

  • Abt Mr D "The world [...] sees him only as he chuses to be seen" p77- ironic as this is true for Mr W (he is deceitful)

Lydia

  • "Lydia talked incessantly" p82

 

17

Lizzy tells Jane abt what Mr W said. Jane's a wet blanket Mr Bingley's ball is announced. Mr Collins likes Lizzy.

 

Jane

  • After hearing Mr W's lies abt Mr D "The possibility of his having really endured such unkindness, was enough to interest all her tender feelings; and nothing therefore remained to be done, but to think well of them both, to defend the conduct of each, and throw into the account of accident or mistake, whatever could not be otherwise explained" p84. Cut this down.

18

At the Netherfield ball. Lizzy is looking for Mr W who isn't there cuz of his beef with Mr D. Instead, she dances with Mr C who's obvs a nightmare. Then with Mr D (though she hates him)- it's awks. Miss B says that Mr W was lying to Lizzy, this falls on deaf ears. Mr C, against Lizzy's advice, goes to talk to Mr D. Mrs Bennet is very chuffed about Jane + Mr Bingley. Mary is a painful tryhard as ever and sings badly. Lizzy is embarrassed by her family (she's better than them). They eave the party.

Gender roles

  • "I talked about the dance, and you ought to make some kind of remark" p90- Lizzy is bossy.

Social class + Pride

  • "it must belong to Mr. Darcy, the superior in consequence, to begin the acquaintance" p95 (of Mr C meeting Mr D)

  • "I consider the clerical office as equal in point of dignity with the highest rank in the kingdom" Mr C- p95

Gender roles

  • Mr C being not a #feminist "I consider myself more fitted by education and habitual study to decide on wat is right than a young lady like yourself." Mr C p96

Pride

  • Abt Mrs Bennet's being proud that Jane may marry Mr B, "She concluded with many good wishes that Lady Lucas might soon be equally fortunate, though evidently and triumphantly believing there was no chance of it." p97

Love

  • Mrs Bennet's thoughts on Mr B, "His being such a charming young man, and so rich, and living but three miles from them" p97

Mr Collins

  • Him dancing: "awkward and solemn, apologising instead of attending, and often moving wrong without being aware of it." p89

  • "I consider the clerical office as equal in point of dignity with the highest rank in the kingdom" Mr C- p95

Elizabeth- socially aware

  • "I talked about the dance, and you ought to make some kind of remark on the size of the room, or the number of couples." p90

Mary

  • "such an opportunity of exhibiting was delightful to her" p98

  • "She [Lizzy] looked at her father to entreat his interference, les Mary should be singing all night" p98

19

Mr C proposes to Lizzy. He lists why he wants to marry (to do list- romantic). Lizzy is like- uh... no. Mr C literally just doesn't believe her.

Marriage

  • Mr C prepping to propose to Lizzy "he set about it in a very orderly manner, with all the observances which he supposed a regular part of the business" (i.e. Of getting married). P102

  • Lizzy's response to finding out Mr C wants to propose to her (he asks Mrs Bennet to leave them in private "Dear Ma'am, do not go.-- I beg you will not go." p102

  • Mr C, came to "selecting a wife" p103

  • Mr C: "I think it a right thing for every clergyman [...] to set the example of matrimony in his parish. Secondly, that I am convinced it will add very greatly to my happiness; and thirdly-- which perhaps I ought to have mentioned earlier, that it is the particular advice and recommendation of the very noble lady." (i.e. Lady C de B) P103. Cut down- about why 2 marry, order.

  • Mr C assumes Lizzy will comply "no ungenerous reproach shall ever pass my lips when we are married." p104.

  • Lizzy rejects him "You could not make me happy, and I am convinced that I am the last woman in the world who would make you so.". p105

  • Mr C ""When I do myself the honour of speaking to you next on this subject I shall hope to receive a more favourable answer than you have now given me" p105

Gender roles + marriage (ig)

  • Mr C believes Lizzy is being coy in her denial of his proposal- deceiving him to lure him further (spoiler- she isn't) he says this "would be consistent with the true delicacy of the female character." p105

  • nOt LiKe oThEr gOrLs "Do not consider me now as an elegant female intending to plague you, but as a rational creature speaking the truth from her heart." p106 ooo the glossary

Marriage + social class (pride)

  • Mr C "It does not appear to me that my hand is unworthy your acceptance [...] My situation in life, my connections with the family of De Bourgh, and my relationship to your own, are circumstances highly in my favour" Also "it is by no means certain that another offer of marriage may ever be made you. Your portion is unhappily so small that it will in all likelihood undo the effects of your loveliness and amiable qualications. As I must therefore conclude that you are not serious in your rejection of me." p106

Mr C

  • Mr C prepping to propose to Lizzy "he set about it in a very orderly manner, with all the observances which he supposed a regular part of the business" (i.e. Of getting married). P102

  • Mr C: "I think it a right thing for every clergyman [...] to set the example of matrimony in his parish. Secondly, that I am convinced it will add very greatly to my happiness; and thirdly-- which perhaps I ought to have mentioned earlier, that it is the particular advice and recommendation of the very noble lady." (i.e. Lady C de B) P103. Cut down.

  • Mr C assumes Lizzy will comply "no ungenerous reproach shall ever pass my lips when we are married." p104.

  • Mr C "It does not appear to me that my hand is unworthy your acceptance [...] My situation in life, my connections with the family of De Bourgh, and my relationship to your own, are circumstances highly in my favour" Also "it is by no means certain that another offer of marriage may ever be made you. Your portion is unhappily so small that it will in all likelihood undo the effects of your loveliness and amiable qualications. As I must therefore conclude that you are not serious in your rejection of me." p106

Lizzy

  • Lizzy rejects him "You could not make me happy, and I am convinced that I am the last woman in the world who would make you so.". P105

  • nOt LiKe oThEr gOrLs "Do not consider me now as an elegant female intending to plague you, but as a rational creature speaking the truth from her heart." p106 oooo look at the glosssary

20

Mrs Bennet is like wHoT and tries to convince Lizzy. Mr Bennet is like yeah don't marry that geezer. Charlotte arrives. Mrs Bennet is just a bit much (-yes, we get it, you're "nervous").

Family

  • Mrs Bennet "[Lizzy] does not know her own interest; but I will make her know it." p108

  • Mrs Bennet "You [Mr Bennet] must come and make Lizzy marry Mr. Collins, for she vows she will not have him, and if you do not make haste he will change his mind and not have her."

Gender roles + marriage

  • Mrs Bennet abt Lizzy "I do not know who is to maintain you when your father is dead.--- I shall not be able to keep you" p111

Family

  • Mrs Bennet abt Lizzy "I have no pleasure in talking to undutiful children." p111

Mrs Bennet

  • Mrs Bennet "[Lizzy] does not know hr own interest; but I will make her know it." p108

Mr Bennet

  • "calm unconcern" p109

  • "Your mother will never see you again if you do not marry Mr. Collins, and I will never see you again if you do." p110

  • "People who suffer as I do from nervous complaints can have no great inclination for talking. Nobody can tell what I suffer!-- But it is always so." p111

21

Bennet girls walk to Meryton to find Mr W. Mr W tells them he didn't party cuz of Mr D. A letter arrives to Jane from Miss Bingley saying they've left Netherfield as Mr B has business. Miss B (stone-hearted snake) wants Mr B to marry Georgiana Darcy- not Jane.

Social class + snobbery

  • Lizzo explaining why Miss B wants Mr B to marry Miss D "We are not rich enough, or grand enough for them [...] when there has been one intermarriage, she may have less trouble in achieving a second." p116

Romantic love

  • "she was gradually led to hope [...] that Bingley would return to Netherfield and answer every wish of her heart." p118

 

Mr W

  • "I had better not meet Mr. Darcy; that to be in the same room, the same party with him for so many hours together, might be more than I could bear" p113

Miss Bingley

  • "I do not pretend to regret any thing I shall leave in Hertfordshire" p114 letter

  • "[I am] convinced that when Charles gets to town,  he will be in no hurry to leave it again." p115 letter

  • Manipulative "am I wrong, my dearest Jane, in indulging the hope of an event which will secure the happiness of so many?" p116 (i.e. Mr B marrying Miss D)

  • Lizzo explaining why Miss B wants Mr B to marry Miss D "We are not rich enough, or grand enough for them [...] when there has been one intermarriage, she may have less trouble in achieving a second." p116

Jane

  • "she was gradually led to hope [...] that Bingley would return to Netherfield and answer every wish of her heart." p118

22

Bennets dining with Lucases. Charlotte is chatting with Mr C, Lizzo thinks this is to keep him away from her. But no!-- Mr C is getting with Charlotte (this is like love island but with less bikinis and somehow less misogyny).

Marriage

  • "I am not romantic you know. I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins's character, connections, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair, as most people can boast on entering the marriage state." Charlotte p123

Lizzy

  • "she could not help crying out, "Engaged to Mr. Collins! my dear Charlotte-- impossible!" p122

Charlotte

  • "I am not romantic you know. I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins's character, connections, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair, as most people can boast on entering the marriage state." Charlotte p123

 

23

Bennets together. Sir Lucas announces Charlotte's engagement. Mrs Bennet freaks out. Liesel is upset. Bingley's are still M.I.A.

Prejudice?

  • "A week elapsed before she could see Elizabeth without scolding her, a month passed away before she could speak to Sir William or Lady Lucas without being rude, and many months were gone before she could at all forgive their daughter." p125

 

Sir Lucas

  • "Sir William's good breeding carried him through it all" "he listened to all their impertinence with the most forbearing courtesy" p124

Mrs Bennet

  • "A week elapsed before she could see Elizabeth without scolding her, a month passed away before she could speak to Sir William or Lady Lucas without being rude, and many months were gone before she could at all forgive their daughter." p125

  • "Mrs Bennet's sour looks and ill-natured remarks might have been enough to drive happiness away."

Jane

  • "whatever she felt she was desirous of concealing"- abt her sadness without Mr B 127

24 (1)

Miss B writes letter affirming the Bingley's are settled in London. Lesley is obvs mad. Jane is just such a sweetheart (and a wet mop but still). They all talk too much.

Familial love

  • Lizzy "Her heart was divided between concern for her sister, and resentment against all others." p131

Reputation

  • Everyone lives a lie "every day confirms my belief of the inconsistency of all human characters, and of the little dependence that can be placed on the appearance of either merit or sense." Lizzy- cuz Mr C's marriage + no Mr B p133

Prejudice

  • Prejudice against non-Wollstonecraft ideal women abt Charlotte "you [Jane] must feel [...] that the woman who marries him [Mr C], cannot have a proper way of thinking. You shall not defend her [...] You shall not [...] change meaning of principle and integrity, nor endeavour to persuade yourself or me, that selfishness is prudence, and insensibility of danger, security for happiness."p133 Lizzy

Pride

  • "It is very often nothing but our own vanity that deceives us. Women fancy admiration means more than it does." p132

Familial love + social class 'n' snobbery

  • Abt reasons the Bingley sisters keep Mr B away "they may wish him to marry a girl who has all the importance of money, great connections, and pride." p134

Love

  • Mr Bennet "Next to being married, a girl likes to be crossed in a love a little now and then. It is something to think of, and givers her a sort of distinction among her companions." p135

  • "He [Wickham] is a pleasant fellow, and would jilt  you creditably."

 

Lizzy

  • "Her heart was divided between concern for her sister, and resentment against all others." p131

Mr B

  • "that easiness of temper, that want of proper resolution which now made him the slave of his designing friends, and led him to sacrifice his own happiness to the caprice of their inclinations." p131

Jane

  • "He will be forgot, and we shall all be as we were before." p132

  • "I have this comfort immediately, that it has not been more than an error of fancy on my side, and that it has done no harm to any one but myself." p132

  • "My dear Jane!" exclaimed Elizabeth, "you are too good. Your sweetness and disinterestedness are really angelic [...] I feel as if I had never done you justice, or loved you as you deserve." p132ish

  • "Miss Bennet was the only creature who could suppose there might be any extenuating circumstances in the case [...] her mild and steady candour always pleaded for allowances, and urged the possibility of mistakes" p136

Lizzy

  • "There are few people whom I really love, and still fewer of whom I think well." p133

  • "every day confirms my belief of the inconsistency of all human characters, and of the little dependence that can be placed on the appearance of either merit or sense." Lizzy- cuz Mr C's marriage + no Mr B p133

  • abt Charlotte "you [Jane] must feel [...] that the woman who marries him [Mr C], cannot have a proper way of thinking. You shall not defend her [...] You shall not [...] change meaning of principle and integrity, nor endeavour to persuade yourself or me, that selfishness is prudence, and insensibility of danger, security for happiness."p133

Mr Bennet

  • "Next to being married, a girl likes to be crossed in a love a little now and then. It is something to think of, and givers her a sort of distinction among her companions." p135

25 (2)

Mr C, in love with Charlotte after all but like a week, leaves (thank jesus). Mr Gardiner (Mrs Bennet's brother)+ wife come to stay. Mrs Gardiner seems to corroborate Mr W's lies abt Mr D- saying she recollected he was proud and ill-natured (- guys it's just because he's an emo).

Social class

  • "The Netherfield ladies would have had difficulty in believing that a man who lived by trade, and within view of his own warehouses, could ahve been so well bred and agreeable." p137

Gender roles

  • "The first part of Mrs. Gardiner's business on her arrival, was to distribute her presents and describe the newest fashions."

Mr Gardiner

  • "sensible, gentlemanlike man, greatly superior to his sister as well by nature as education."p137

  • "The Netherfield ladies would have had difficulty in believing that a man who lived by trade, and within view of his own warehouses, could ahve been so well bred and agreeable." p137

26 (3)

Mrs Gardiner warns Liza against Mr W. Mr C returns (oh brilliant- him again). Wedding takes place. Jane is in London with Mrs G but Miss B prevents her seeing Mr B. Jane realises she was deceives but is still a sweetheart. Jane would 100% be cottagecore. Mr Wickham has turned his attentions away from Lez.

Love + wealth and money

  • "if he had the fortune he ought to have, I should think you could not do better. But as it is-- you must not let  your fancy run away with you." p142

  • "we see every day that where there is affection, young people are seldom withheld by immediate want of fortune" p143

Family

  • "My father's opinion of me does me the greatest honor; and I should be miserable to forfeit it." p142-3

Social class + prejudice

  •  Caroline did not return my visit till yesterday; and not a note, not a line, did I receive in the mean time." p146

Wealth + love

  • "The sudden acquisition of ten thousand pounds was the most remarkable charm of the young lady to whom he was now rendering himself agreeable" p147

  • "the mortifying conviction that handsome young men must have something to live on, as well as the plain." p148

 

Lizzy

  • "My father's opinion of me does me the greatest honor; and I should be miserable to forfeit it." p142-3

  • "we see every day that where there is affection, young people are seldom withheld by immediate want of fortune" p143

Miss Bingley

  • "I [Jane] confess myself to have ben entirely deceived in miss Bingley's regard for me [...] Caroline did not return my visit till yesterday; and not a note, not a line, did I receive in the mean time." p145-6

Jane

  • "But I pity her [Miss Bingley], because she must feel that she has been acting wrong, and because I am very sure that anxiety for her brother is the cause of it" p146

Mr Wickham

  • "The sudden acquisition of ten thousand pounds was the most remarkable charm of the young lady to whom he was now rendering himself agreeable" p147

27 (4)

Eli is visiting Charlotte with the Lucases. They meet the Gardiners + Jane in London. Gardiners + Liz plan to go gallivanting in the Lake District.

Marriage+ wealth idk

  • "What is the difference in matrimonial affairs, between the mercenary and the prudent motive? Where does discretion end, and avarice begin?" p151 idk what this means.

 

28 (5)

Liz + Lucases at Hunsford. Charlotte seems happy with Mr "the pig" Collins.

Social class + snobbery

  • "Why does she [Lady C de B] not come in?" "Oh! Charlotte says, she hardly ever does. It is the greatest of favours when Miss De Bourgh comes in." p56

Charlotte

  • When Mr C said something embarrassing "Once or twice she [Lizzy] could discern a faint blush; but in general Charlotte widely did not hear." p154

Mr C

  • "She [Lady C de B) is the sort of woman whom one cannot regard with too much deference." irony much p155

29 (6)

At Lady C de B's for dinner. Mr C is just intolerable. Lady C de B talks a LOT. They chat about education (fun) and how girls should be raised. With all this anti-feminism and rude old people, I'm having dreadful flashbacks to dinner parties at my grandparents.

Snobbery

  • "Lady Catherine will not think the worse of you for being simply dressed. She like to have the distinction of rank preserved." p158

Wealth

  • "Sir William was so completely awed, by the grandeur surrounding him, that he had but just courage enough to make a very low bow, and take his seat without saying a word" p159

Social class + wealth

  • "whatever she said, was spoken in so authoritative a tone, as marked her self-importance" p150

  • "delivering her opinion on every subject in so decisive a manner as proved that she was not used to have her judgment controverted." p160

  • "Elizabeth felt all the impertinence of her questions, but answered them very composedly" p160

Gender roles

  • "I see no occasion for entailing estates from the female line-- It was not thought necessary in Sir Lewis de Bourgh's family." p162

  • "you ought all to have learned [music]. [...] Your mother should have taken you to town every spring for the benefit of masters [art study] [...] No governess! How was that possible?" p161

  • ""No governess! How was that possible? [...] Your mother must have been quite a slave to your education." p161

  • Lizzy "We were always encourages to read, and had all the masters that were necessary. Those who chose to be idle, certainly might [have a neglected education]" p161

  • "I always say that nothing is to be done in education without steady and regular instruction, and nobody but a governess can give it." p161-2

  • "What, all five [Bennets] out at once? Very odd!" p162

  • "I think it would be very hard upon younger sisters, that they should not have their share of society and amusement because the elder may not have the means or inclination to marry early." p162

Lady C de B ig

  • "Lady Catherine will not think the worse of you for being simply dressed. She like to have the distinction of rank preserved." p158

Sir William Lucas

  • "Sir William was so completely awed, by the grandeur surrounding him, that he had but just courage enough to make a very low bow, and take his seat without saying a word" p159

Lady C de B

  • "whatever she said, was spoken in so authoritative a tone, as marked her self-importance" p150

  • "delivering her opinion on every subject in so decisive a manner as proved that she was not used to have her judgment controverted." p160

  • "Elizabeth felt all the impertinence of her questions, but answered them very composedly" p160

  • "I see no occasion for entailing estates from the female line-- It was not thought necessary in Sir Lewis de Bourgh's family." p162

  • "you ought all to have learned [music]. [...] Your mother should have taken you to town every spring for the benefit of masters [art study] [...] No governess! How was that possible?" p161

All the education + kids being "out" thing

30 (7)

Sir Lucas leaves Hunsford. To my dismay, Lizzo does not so I'm still stuck reading about it. Lady C de B is a girlboss. Mr Darcy is coming to Rosings (oh god).

Gender roles

  • "She was a most active magistrate [NOT official term!!!] in her own parish […] whenever any of the cottagers were disposed to be quarrelsome, discontented or too poor, the sallied forth into the village to settle their differences, silence their complaints, and scold them into harmony and plenty." p165

Lady C de B

  • "She was a most active magistrate [NOT official term!!!] in her own parish […] whenever any of the cottagers were disposed to be quarrelsome, discontented or too poor, the sallied forth into the village to settle their differences, silence their complaints, and scold them into harmony and plenty." p165

31 (8)

Colonel Fitzwilliam is Mr D's bro. Of course, he likes Eliza. Lizly plays the piano (this girl has practiced more in the novel than I have this whole summer). Mr Darcy and Lizzy kinda argue but like romantically (idk?).

Family

  • "Mr. Darcy spoke with affectionate praise to his sister's proficiency." p169

Gender roles?

  • "There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me." p170

 

Lady C de B

  • "I* had had ever learnt [music' I should have been a great proficient." p169

Mr D

  • "Mr. Darcy spoke with affectionate praise to his sister's proficiency." p169

Lizzy

  • "There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me." p170

Mr Darcy

  • "I certainly have not the talent which some people possess […] of conversing easily with those I have never seen before." p171

32 (9)

Mr D comes to Hunsford, he chats with Lizzy then leaves. Charlotte + Maria arrive- chat about whether Mr D likes Lizzy.

Marriage

  • Lizzy abt Charlotte married to Mr C "She seems perfectly happy, however, and in a prudential light it is certainly a very good match for her." p174

 

33

Liesel goes for a walk in the Park and Mr D seems to like constantly show up (*stalker*). She meets Colonel Fitzwilliam. He says that he thinks Mr D helped save Mr B from an "imprudent marriage"- she assumes this is Jane + Mr B. Lizli is v. upset.

Pride+ reputation?

  • Lizzy "he [Mr D] was the cause, his pride and caprice were the cause of all that Jane had suffered, and still continued to suffer. He had ruined for a while every hope of happiness for the most affectionate, generous heart in the world; and no one could say how lasting an evil he might have inflicted." p182

  • "she [Lizzy] was quite decided at last, that he had been partly governed by this worst kind of pride, and partly by the wish of retaining Mr. Bingley for his sister." p182

Mr Darcy

  • "I do not know any body who seems more to enjoy the power of doing what he likes than Mr. Darcy." p179

  • Lizzy "Mr. Darcy is uncommonly kind to Mr. Bingley,  and takes a prodigious deal of care of him" p180

  • Lizzy "he [Mr D] was the cause, his pride and caprice were the cause of all that Jane had suffered, and still continued to suffer. He had ruined for a while every hope of happiness for the most affectionate, generous heart in the world; and no one could say how lasting an evil he might have inflicted." p182

  • "she [Lizzy] was quite decided at last, that he had been partly governed by this worst kind of pride, and partly by the wish of retaining Mr. Bingley for his sister." p182

34

Eli is mad at Mr D. Mr D arrives and says he loves her!!!! *shock* horror. Lizzy is like- no. Like foil to Charlotte (look at me using Eng Lang words!).

Love

  • Mr D "In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feeling will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you." p185

Prejudice? + pride

  • Lizzy "Why with so evident a design of offending and insulting me, you chose to tell me that you like me against your will, against your reason, and even against your character?" p186

Familial love

  • Lizzy to Mr D "do you think that any consideration would tempt me to accept the man, who has been the means of ruining, perhaps for ever the happiness of a most beloved sister?" p186

Prejudice + social class (pride)

  • Mr D abt his feelings that Lizzy was inferior "They were natural and just. Could  you expect me to rejoice in the inferiority of your connections? To congratulate myself on the hope of relations, who condition in life is so decidedly beneath my own" p188

Love

  • Lizzy won't marry him cuz "But his pride, his abominable pride" despite "that he should have been in love with her for so many months! So m uch in love as to wish to marry her in spite of all the objection which had made him prevent his friend's marrying her sister [...] was almost incredible!" p189

 

Mr Darcy

  • "In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feeling will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you." p185

  • Mr D abt his feelings that Lizzy was inferior "They were natural and just. Could  you expect me to rejoice in the inferiority of your connections? To congratulate myself on the hope of relations, who condition in life is so decidedly beneath my own" p188

Lizzy

  • "Why with so evident a design of offending and insulting me, you chose to tell me that you like me against your will, against your reason, and even against your character?" p186

  • "do you think that any consideration would tempt me to accept the man, who has been the means of ruining, perhaps for ever the happiness of a most beloved sister?" p186

  • Lizzy won't marry him cuz "But his pride, his abominable pride" despite "that he should have been in love with her for so many months! So m uch in love as to wish to marry her in spite of all the objection which had made him prevent his friend's marrying her sister [...] was almost incredible!" p189

35 (12)

Liz is walking and she meets Mr D who gives her a letter. He explains his actions with Jane (believing her to be indifferent to Bingley) and refutes Mr W's claims- saying he kept asking for money and then tried to seduce his sister to get the money.

There's a LOT to analyse, but we can go back and do it later

Lots to do with reputation

Family love + reputation

  • Regard for my sister's credit and feelings prevented an y public exposure" p196

Mr W

  • "Mr. Wickham's chief object was unquestionably my sister's fortune" p196

Mr D

  • At end of letter, "I will only add, God bless you." p197

36

Lizlo reads Mr D's letter: she's mad abt the Jane bit but she begins to believe abt Wickham. She is ashamed at her prejudice against Mr D and her vanity.

Prejudice

  • "With amazement did she first understand that he believed any apology to be in his power; and stedfastly was she persuaded that he could have no explanation to give, which a just sense of shame would not conceal. P198

  • "She was now struck with the impropriety of such communications to a stranger [Mr W], and wondered it had escaped her before." p200

  • "she had never, in the whole course of their acquaintance [...] seen any thing that betrayed him to be unprincipled or unjust- any thing that spoke him or irreligious or immoral habits," p201

  • "She grew absolutely ashamed of herself. [...] she had been blind, partial, prejudiced, absurd. "How despicably have I acted!" she cried." p201

Pride + Prejudice (aaaa)

  • "But vanity, not love, has been my folly.-- Pleased with the preference of one, and offended by the neglect of the other [..] I have courted prepossession and ignorance, and driven reason away, where either were concerned. Till this moment, I never knew myself." p202

Reputation

  • "The extravagance and general profligacy which he scrupled not to lay to Mr. Wickham's charge, exceedingly shocked her" p199

  • "She [Lizzy] tried to recollect some instances of goodness, some distinguished trait of integrity or benevolence [...]. But no such recollection befriended her." p200

  • "His countenance, voice, and manner, had established him at once in the possession of every virtue." p200

Love

  • "She was now struck with the impropriety of such communications to a stranger, and wondered it had escaped her before." p200

 

VANITY has made her prejudiced against Darcy and towards Mr W. Now she realises her prejudice blinded her.

Lizzy

  • "With amazement did she first understand that he believed any apology to be in his power; and stedfastly was she persuaded that he could have no explanation to give, which a just sense of shame would not conceal. P198

  • "She grew absolutely ashamed of herself. [...] she had been blind, partial, prejudiced, absurd. "How despicably have I acted!" she cried." p201

  • "But vanity, not love, has been my folly.-- Pleased with the preference of one, and offended by the neglect of the other [..] I have courted prepossession and ignorance, and driven reason away, where either were concerned. Till this moment, I never knew myself." p202

Mr D

  • "his style was not penitent, but haughty. It was all pride and insolence." p198

  • "The extravagance and general profligacy which he scrupled not to lay to Mr. Wickham's charge, exceedingly shocked her" p199

  • "she had never, in the whole course of their acquaintance [...] seen any thing that betrayed him to be unprincipled or unjust- any thing that spoke him or irreligious or immoral habits," p201

Mr W

  • "extravagance and general profligacy" p199

  • "She [Lizzy] tried to recollect some instances of goodness, some distinguished trait of integrity or benevolence [...]. But no such recollection befriended her." p200

  • "His countenance, voice, and manner, had established him at once in the possession of every virtue." p200

  • "She was now struck with the impropriety of such communications to a stranger, and wondered it had escaped her before." p200

  • "he had either been deceived with regard to her [Lizzy's] fortune, or had been gratifying his vanity by encouraging the preference which he believe she had most incautiously shewn." p201

37 (14)

Mr D + the Colonel leave. Lilo is also getting ready to leave (FINALLY). She's mulling over the letter. Liz is angsty abt her family (she's bEtTeR than them).

Gender roles

  • Lady C de B "Daughters are never of so much consequence to a father." p205

  • "I cannot bear the idea of two young women travelling post by themselves. It is highly improper [..] Young women should always be properly guarded and attended, according to their situation in life. " p205

Family + Social class + Reputation

  • "her family a subject of yet heavier chagrin. They were hopeless of remedy. Her father, contented with laughing at them, would never exert himself to restrain the wild giddiness of his younger daughters. [...]

  • Lizzy+ Jane "endeavour to check the imprudence of Catherine and Lydia; but while they were supported by their mother's indulgence, what chance could there be of improvement?" p206

  • "How grievous then was the thought that, of a situation so desirable in every respect, so replete with advantage, so promising for happiness, Jane had been deprived, by the folly and indecorum of her own family!" p207

Lady C de B

  • "I cannot bear the idea of two young women travelling post by themselves. It is highly improper [..] Young women should always be properly guarded and attended, according to their situation in life. " p205

  • "Miss De Bourgh exerted herself so far as to curtsey and hole out her hand to both." p207

Lizzy + Bennets

  • "her family a subject of yet heavier chagrin. They were hopeless of remedy. Her father, contented with laughing at them, would never exert himself to restrain the wild giddiness of his younger daughters. [...]

  • Lizzy+ Jane "endeavour to check the imprudence of Catherine and Lydia; but while they were supported by their mother's indulgence, what chance could there be of improvement?" p206

Catherine + Lydia

  • "They were ignorant, idle, and vain."

Jane

  • "How grievous then was the thought that, of a situation so desirable in every respect, so replete with advantage, so promising for happiness, Jane had been deprived, by the folly and indecorum of her own family!" p207

38

Lizly is leaving. They reach the Gardiner's house.

 

Charlotte

  • Marriage "But she had chosen it with her eyes open [...] she did not seem to ask for compassion."

  • "Her home and her housekeeping, her parish and her poultry, and all their dependent concerns, had not yet lost their charms" p209

Liz

  • "such a temptation to openness as nothing could have conquered" p210

39 (16)

Jane + Lizzy at dinner with Lydia + Kitty. They find out the soldiers would be leaving Meryton. Then they go home.

Gender roles

  • Lydia: "Look here, I have bought this bonnet. I do not think it is very pretty; but I thought I might as well buy it as not." p211

  • Abt Lydia's silly pleasures "They would doubtless be congenial with the generality of female minds. But I confess they would have no charms for me. I should infinitely prefer a book". p214

Love + pride?

  • On whether Mr W liked Miss King "Who could [care] about such a nasty little freckled thing?" p212

Family

  • "more than once during dinner did Mr. Bennet say voluntarily to Elizabeth, "I am glad you are come back, Lizzy" p13- dads don't give much affection usually. "voluntarily"- comedy

Lydia

  • Lydia: "Look here, I have bought this bonnet. I do not think it is very pretty; but I thought I might as well buy it as not." p211

  • On whether Mr W liked Miss King "Who could [care] about such a nasty little freckled thing?" p212

Mr B

  • "more than once during dinner did Mr. Bennet say voluntarily to Elizabeth, "I am glad you are come back, Lizzy" p13- dads don't give much affection usually. "voluntarily"- comedy

Mary

  • Abt Lydia's silly pleasures "They would doubtless be congenial with the generality of female minds. But I confess they would have no charms for me. I should infinitely prefer a book". p214

40

Lizzo tells Jane abt Darcy. She can't tell her abt the Mr B part of the letter tho.

Prejudice

  • poor Jane! who would willingly have gone through the world without believing that so much wickedness existed in the whole race of mankind, as was here collected in one individual." p217

  • "The general prejudice against Mr. Darcy is so violent, that it would be the death of half the good people in Meryton, to attempt to place him in an amiable light." p218

Reputation!!

  • Mr W vs D "One has got all the goodness and the other all the appearance of it" p217

Jane

  • Abt Mr W "What a stroke was this for poor Jane! who would willingly have gone through the world without believing that so much wickedness existed in the whole race of mankind, as was here collected in one individual." p217

Mr W

  • "poor Jane! who would willingly have gone through the world without believing that so much wickedness existed in the whole race of mankind, as was here collected in one individual." p217

  • Mr W vs D "One has got all the goodness and the other all the appearance of it" p217

Mr D

  • Mr W vs D "One has got all the goodness and the other all the appearance of it" p217

  • "The general prejudice against Mr. Darcy is so violent, that it would be the death of half the good people in Meryton, to attempt to place him in an amiable light." p218

41

Soldiers are leaving. The younger + Mrs Bennets want to go 2 Brighton. Lydia's invited by Mrs Forster (wife of a Colonel) to visit the soldiers in Brighton. Ellie chats Mr W (awks).

Gender roles

  • Abt the soldiers leaving "Good Heaven! What is to become of us! What are we to do!" p221

Family

  • Elizabeth abt Lydia + Kitty "Vain, ignorant, idle, and absolutely uncontrouled! Oh!" p223

Lydia + Kitty

  • Abt the soldiers leaving "Good Heaven! What is to become of us! What are we to do!" p221

  • "Vain, ignorant, idle, and absolutely uncontrouled! Oh!" p223

Lizzo

  • Abt Lydia + Kitty "Vain, ignorant, idle, and absolutely uncontrouled! Oh!" p223

Mr W

  • "He looked surprised, displeased, alarmed; but with a moment's recollection and a returning smile" p225

42 (19)

Lizzo bemoans her family some more. She goes with Gardiners to Derbyshire (instead of Lake District which ofc she bemoans a bit). They arrive in Lambton and plan (to Lizzy's bemoaning) to go 2 Pemberley.

Love + Marriage

  • "Her father captivated by youth and beauty, and that appearance of good humour, which youth and beauty generally give, had married a woman whose weak understanding and illiberal mind, had very early in their marriage put an  to all real affection for her. p228

  • "Respect, esteem and confidence, had vanished for ever; and all his views of domestic happiness were overthrown". p228

Marriage + Family

  • "But she had never felt so strongly as now, the disadvantages which must attend the children of so unsuitable a marriage [Mr + Mrs B]." p229

Wealth + Money

  • "she [Lizzy] really had no pleasure in fine carpets or satin curtains" p232

Mr B

  • "Her father captivated by youth and beauty, and that appearance of good humour, which youth and beauty generally give, had married a woman whose weak understanding and illiberal mind, had very early in their marriage put an  to all real affection for her. p228

  • "Respect, esteem and confidence, had vanished for ever; and all his views of domestic happiness were overthrown". P228

Lizzy

  • "But she had never felt so strongly as now, the disadvantages which must attend the children of so unsuitable a marriage [Mr + Mrs B]." p229

  • "she really had no pleasure in fine carpets or satin curtains" p232

43 (1)

Gardiners + E arrive at Pemberley. She likes it. Housekeeper (Mrs Reynolds) loves Mr D. OMG soap opera moment! Mr D is actually there in the garden!! Mucho awks. Mr D is civil tho. They tramp around the garden.

Wealth + Pride

  • Pemberley: "it was neither gaudy nor uselessly fine; with less of splendor and more real elegance" p236

Reputation (+ Prejudice?)

  • Mrs R: "I have never had a cross word from him in my life, and I have known him ever since he was four years old." p238

  • "Whatever can give his sister any pleasure, is sure to be done in a moment. There is nothing he [Mr D] would not do for her." p239

Family

  • "Whatever can give his sister any pleasure, is sure to be done in a moment. There is nothing he [Mr D] would not do for her." p239

Mr D

  • Pemberley: "it was neither gaudy nor uselessly fine; with less of splendor and more real elegance" p236

  • Mrs R: "I have never had a cross word from him in my life, and I have known him ever since he was four years old." p238

  • Mrs R: "he was always the sweetest-tempered, most  generous-hearted, boy in the world." p238

  • Mrs R: "He is the best landlord, and the best master," said she, "that ever lived." p239

  • "Whatever can give his sister any pleasure, is sure to be done in a moment. There is nothing he [Mr D] would not do for her." p239

44

Lizzy + Gardiners meets Miss D, who is v shy (this is just an autistic family, guys). Bingley is also there cuz why not. Lizlo likes Mr D.

 

 Lizzy

  • "more than commonly anxious" p248

  • "she walked up and down the room, endeavouring to compose herself" p249

45 (3)

Meets Miss D again. Miss B + Hurst are there too. It's a bit awks. Mr D + G etc. arrive. Miss B is a jealous troll- she tries to get Mr D to move on from Liz with no success.

Reputation + Prejudice + Pride

  • Abt Miss D "all that embarrassment which, though proceeding from shyness and the fear of doing wrong, would easily give to those who felt themselves inferior, the belief of her being proud and reserved." p255

Social class + prejudice

  • "Miss Bingley was venting her feelings in criticisms on Elizabeth's person, behaviour, and dress" E.g. "She is grown so brown and coarse!" (look in gloss) p257

Miss B

  • "Miss Bingley was venting her feelings in criticisms on Elizabeth's person, behaviour, and dress" E.g. "She is grown so brown and coarse!" (look in gloss) p257

  • On making Mr D admits he likes Lizlo, "Miss Bingley was left to all the satisfaction of having foreced him to say what gave no one any pain but herself" (sarcasm btw) p259

46 (4)

Lizzy back at Lambton (with Gardiners) she gets letter from Jane. Omg Lydia has eloped with Wickham (the girl is literally my age). Everyone is shocked. The Bennet fam are looking for Lydia. Lizli blames herself and Mr D like sits with her in silence (great job dude). She and the Gardiners set off back to Longbourn.

Marriage + Family + Love (+ pride + prejudice?)

  • Marriage for 'love'= not good and is only the result of irrational deceit etc. Abt Lydia + Mr W, Jane: "dearest Lizy, something has occurred of a most unexpected and serious nature" p260

  • "Her power was sinking; every thing must sink under such a proof of family weakness, such an assurance of the deepest disgrace." p264

  • "all love must be vain" (I'm too tired to analyse this bit) p264

Reputation

  • Lizzy abt not telling her fam about Mr W: "Had his character been known, this could not have happened. But it is all, all too late now." p264

Mr Wickham

  • Lizzy abt not telling her fam about Mr W: "Had his character been known, this could not have happened. But it is all, all too late now." p264

Elizabeth

  • "Her power was sinking; every thing must sink under such a proof of family weakness, such an assurance of the deepest disgrace." p264

47

The Gardiners don't really believe it. Lizzo half-spills the tea abt Mr W. They arrive at Longbourn where Mrs Bennet is panicking. Jane + Liz chat.

Prejudice

  • Lizzy, abt J's opinion on Mr W "Of whom does Jane ever think ill?" p270

Pride + prejudice

  • "Blaming every body but the person to whose ill judging indulgence the errors of her daughter must be principally owing." p273

Love + marriage

  • Lydia's letter: "I should never be happy without him, so think it no harm to be off [to Gretna Green to marry Mr W]". P276

Jane

  • Lizzy, abt J's opinion on Mr W "Of whom does Jane ever think ill?" p270

Mrs Bennet

  • "Blaming every body but the person to whose ill judging indulgence the errors of her daughter must be principally owing." p273

  • "I am frightened out of my wits and have such tremblings, such flutterings, all over me" p274

48

Mr G goes to get Mr Bennet back from London. All misery. Oh God not HIM again. Mr C sends a letter. He like goes ahead and blames the Bennet parents like wow man. Discreet. Mr W is a gambler, and bad at it. Mr B returns and blames himself and repents.

Reputation

  • "All Meryton seemed striving to blacken the man, who, but three months before, had been almost and angel of light. " p279

Reputation + family + Pride (broken pride) + marriage

  • Abt Lydia's marriage: "A death of your daughter would have been a blessing in comparison of this." p281

Reputation + family + prejudice + social class+ wealth+ marriage + gender roles to an extent

  • "this false step in one daughter, will be injurious to the fortunes of all the others" p282

Family love

  • "No, Kitty, I have at last learnt to be cautious, and" you will feel the effects of it." p284

  • "Say nothing of that [Lydia's marriage]. Who should suffer but myself? It has been my own doing, and I ought to feel it." p284

Mrs Bennet

  • Abt Mr G going to get Mr Bennet: "[she] considered it as the only security for her husband's not being killed in a duel." p279 gloss

Mr W

  • "All Meryton seemed striving to blacken the man, who, but three months before, had been almost and angel of light. " p279

  • "it had just transpired that he had left gaming debts behind him, to a very considerable amount" p282

Mr C

  • Abt Lydia's marriage: "A death of your daughter would have been a blessing in comparison of this." p281

Lydia ig

  • "this false step in one daughter, will be injurious to the fortunes of all the others" p282

Mr Bennet

  • "Say nothing of that [Lydia's marriage]. Who should suffer but myself? It has been my own doing, and I ought to feel it." p284

  • "No, Kitty, I have at last learnt to be cautious, and you will feel the effects of it." p284

49

Letter from Mr G: Lydia isn't married yet, but plans to be. Mr W has only asked for a small amount (like dowry) which confuses Mr B- he assumes Mr G has paid off Mr W's gambling debts. Rejoicing idk.

Money + marriage

  • Mr Bennet: "Wickham's a fool, if he takes her [Lydia] with a farthing less than ten thousand pounds." p288

Family + gender roles? + marriage

"My dear, dear Lydia!" she cried: "This is delightful indeed!-- She will be married!-- I shall see her again!-- "She will be married at sixteen!" p289

Jane

  • "as I always hoped," cried Jane; "they are married!" [... Mr G's letter] They are not married" p286

Mrs Bennet

  • "My dear, dear Lydia!" she cried: "This is delightful indeed!-- She will be married!-- I shall see her again!-- "She will be married at sixteen!" p289

50 (8)

Talking about family sitch. Mrs B planning wedding. Liz likes Mr D. Indeed, Mr G has pledged to pay Mr W's debts. Lydia + Mr W are going to come to Longbourn.

Love + prejudice/pride (realises result of pride)

  • "She began now to comprehend that he was exactly the man, who, in disposition and talents, would most suit her. His understanding and temper, though unlike her own, would have answered all her wishes." p295

Love

  • "But how little of permanent happiness could belong to a couple [Mr W + Lydia] who were only brought together because their passions were stronger than their virtue." p296

Elizabeth

  • "She began now to comprehend that he was exactly the man, who, in disposition and talents, would most suit her. His understanding and temper, though unlike her own, would have answered all her wishes." p295

Lydia + Mr W

  • "But how little of permanent happiness could belong to a couple who were only brought together because their passions were stronger than their virtue." p296

51

Mr W + Lydia visit Longbourn. Lydia is describing the wedding- she lets slip that Mr D was there (of all people). Tis a mystery why.

Prejudice + family + marriage

"The easy assurance of the couple, indeed, was enough to provoke him [Mr B]. Elizabeth was disgusted, and even Miss Bennet was shocked. Lydia was Lydia still; untamed, unabashed, wild, noisy, and fearless." p298

Mr W

  • "Wickham's affection for Lydia, was just what Elizabeth had expected to find it; not equal to Lydia's for him." p299

52 (10)

Lilo writes to Mrs G to ask abt Mr D. Turns out Mr D had found Lyd + Mr W- feeling bad abt not telling the world what an asshat Mr W is. Mr D paid Mr W's debts. What a nice goth! Wickham + Liz chat. I got too bored to read that bit.

Reputation + pride

  • Abt not telling people how bad Mr W is: "He generously imputed the whole to his mistaken pride, and confessed that he had before thought it beneath him, to lay his private actions open to the world. Hi character was to speak for itself. He called it, therefore, his duty to step forward, and endeavour to remedy an evil, which had been brought on by himself." p305

Love

  • "He had done all this for a girl whom he could neither regard nor esteem [i.e. Lydia]" p308

Mr D

  • Abt not telling people how bad Mr W is: "He generously imputed the whole to his mistaken pride, and confessed that he had before thought it beneath him, to lay his private actions open to the world. Hi character was to speak for itself. He called it, therefore, his duty to step forward, and endeavour to remedy an evil, which had been brought on by himself." p305

  • "He had done all this for a girl whom he could neither regard nor esteem [i.e. Lydia]" p308

Mr W

  • "Wickham of course wanted more than he could get" p306

53

Lydia and the Wickers leave. Mr Bingley is coming! Jane is scared. He arrives with Mr D! Mrs B is awks. Mr B likes Jane again though!

Reputation

  • "He [Mr W] smiled, looked handsome, and said many pretty things." p312

Love

  • Lizzy aby Mr D coming: "The colour which had been driven from her face, returned for half a minute with an additional glow, and a smile of delight added lustre to her eyes, as she thought for that space of time that his affection and wishes must still be unshaken." p316

Pride/Snobbery + Prejudice + Reputation

  • "He [Mr B] was received by Mrs. Bennet with a degree of civility, which made her two daughters ashamed, especially when contrasted with the cold and ceremonious politeness of her curtsey and address to his friend [i.e. Mr D]". p317 Irony- Mr D's been good to fam.

  • Lizzy abt Mrs B's treatment of Mr D "[she] was hurt and distressed to a most painful degree by a distinction so ill applied." p317

Mr W

  • "He smiled, looked handsome, and said many pretty things." p312

Jane

  • Abt Mr Bingley coming: "Not that I am afraid of myself, but I dread other people's remarks." p314

Lizzy

  • Abt Mr D coming: "The colour which had been driven from her face, returned for half a minute with an additional glow, and a smile of delight added lustre to her eyes, as she thought for that space of time that his affection and wishes must still be unshaken." p316

Mrs Bennet

  • "He [Mr B] was received by Mrs. Bennet with a degree of civility, which made her two daughters ashamed, especially when contrasted with the cold and ceremonious politeness of her curtsey and address to his friend [i.e. Mr D]". p317 Irony- Mr D's been good to fam.

  • Lizzy abt Mrs B's treatment of Mr D "[she] was hurt and distressed to a most painful degree by a distinction so ill applied." p317

54 (12)

Bingley + Darcy leave. Party at Longbourn incl. Those two are there. Things are awks between Liz and Mr D cuz of Mrs B I think idk.

Love + social class + marriage + reputation (B's mired by Jane)

  • "I think you are in a very great danger of making him as much in love with you as ever." p320. Irony- but undertone that such undesirable marriage is danger for Bingley.

Pride (social class)+ prejudice + reputation + family

  • "Mr. Darcy was almost as far from her [Elizabeth], as the table could divide them. He was on one side of her mother." metaphor p321

 

Jane + Bingley

  • "I think you are in a very great danger of making him as much in love with you as ever." p320. Irony- but undertone that such undesirable marriage is danger for Bingley.

Bennets + Liz + Mr D

  • "Mr. Darcy was almost as far from her [Elizabeth], as the table could divide them. He was on one side of her mother." metaphor p321

55

Mr Bingley comes again. He is invited to come again to shoot with Mr Bennet. Yet again, Mr Bingley comes for dinner. God, it never ends!! Mrs Bennet is trying to get Jane and Bingley together like some weird dating show. Oh -oop, they're engaged now. That was quick.

 

Gender roles

  • "He is come-- Mr. Bingley is come. -- He is, indeed. Make hast, make haste. Here, Sarah, come to Miss Bennet this moment, and help her on with her gown. Never mind Miss Lizzy's hair." p325

Family + marriage

  • "Mrs. Bennet's invention was again at work to get every body away from him and her daughter." p327

Love

  • "Tis too much!" she added, "by far too much. I do not deserve it. Oh! why is not every body as happy." p327

Family

  • "Elizabeth's congratulations were given with a sincerity, a warmth, a delight, which words could but poorly express." abt J's engagement p327-8

Love

  • "in spite of his [Mr B] being a lover, Elizabeth really believed all his expectations of felicity, to be rationally founded,  because they had for basis the excellent understanding, and super-excellent disposition of Jane, and a general similarity of feeling and taste between her and himself." p328 cut down. Love not impulsive.

Marriage + gender roles

  • Mrs Bennet abt Jane getting engaged "I was sure you could not be so beautiful for nothing!" p329 Not for self.

 

Mr Bingley

  • "He bore with the ill-judged officiousness of the mother, and heard all her silly remarks with a forbearance and command of countenance." p326

Mrs Bennet

  • "He is come-- Mr. Bingley is come. -- He is, indeed. Make hast, make haste. Here, Sarah, come to Miss Bennet this moment, and help her on with her gown. Never mind Miss Lizzy's hair." p325

  • "Mrs. Bennet's invention was again at work to get every body away from him and her daughter." p327

  • Mrs Bennet abt Jane getting engaged "I was sure you could not be so beautiful for nothing!" p329

Jane

  • "Tis too much!" she added, "by far too much. I do not deserve it. Oh! why is not every body as happy." p327

  • Mrs Bennet abt Jane getting engaged "I was sure you could not be so beautiful for nothing!" p329

  • Liz abt Jane: "Till I have your disposition, your goodness, I never can have your happiness." p331 idk cuz of later Liz is happy?

Lizzy

  • "Elizabeth's congratulations were given with a sincerity, a warmth, a delight, which words could but poorly express." abt J's engagement p327-8

56 (14)

Lady C de B just arrives. What a girlboss. Lizzy and her go for a walk. OOOOO she says there's a rumour Liz will marry Mr D and she's pissed. Wait so Mr D's meant to be marrying C de B's daughter. cOuSiNs!!! Jeez. C De B delivers the Mother of all monologues- girl is fuming. She promptly buggers off.

Pride (social class) + prejudice

  • "She [Lady C] entered the room with an air more than usually ungracious, made no other reply to Elizabeth's salutation, than a slight inclination of the head" p332

Social class (pride)

  • Mrs Bennet to C de B about the garden: "but I assure you it is much larger than Sir William Lucas's" p333

Prejudice + pride (social class) + marriage + reputation

  • Abt possible union of Mr D + Liz, Lady C de B: "Though I know it must be a scandalous falsehood" p33

Prejudice + pride (social class) + marriage + love + family

  • Abt possible union of Mr D + Liz, Lady C de B: "But your arts and allurements may, in a moment of infatuation, have made him forget what he owes to himself and to all his family." p335

Love + marriage + family + prejudice + social class (pride) + gender roles (+reputation some)

  • C de B: "While in their [Mr D + C de B's daughter] cradles, we planned the union [...] to be prevented by a young woman of inferior birth, of no importance in the world, and wholly unallied to the family!" p336

  • C de B, on possible union of Mr D + Liz: "Because honour, decorum, prudence, nay, interest, forbid it." p336

  • "The upstart pretensions of a young woman without family, connections, or fortune. Is this to be endured!" p337 Woman's role is to be advantageous to man.

  • C de B to Liz abt Mr D possible union: "You refuse to obey the claims of duty, honour, and gratitude. You are determined to ruin him in the opinion of all his friends, and make him the contempt of the world." p338

Love + marriage + gender roles

  • Liz abt union with Mr D, to C de B: "I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness" p338

Lady C de B

  • "She entered the room with an air more than usually ungracious, made no other reply to Elizabeth's salutation, than a slight inclination of the head" p332

  • Abt possible union of Mr D + Liz "Though I know it must be a scandalous falsehood" p334

  • Abt possible union of Mr D + Liz "But your arts and allurements may, in a moment of infatuation, have made him forget what he owes to himself and to all his family." p335

  • "While in their [Mr D + C de B's daughter] cradles, we planned the union [...] to be prevented by a young woman of inferior birth, of no importance in the world, and wholly unallied to the family!" p336

  • On possible union of Mr D + Liz: "Because honour, decorum, prudence, nay, interest, forbid it." p336

  • "The upstart pretensions of a young woman without family, connections, or fortune. Is this to be endured!" p337

  • To Liz abt Mr D possible union: "You refuse to obey the claims of duty, honour, and gratitude. You are determined to ruin him in the opinion of all his friends, and make him the contempt of the world." p338

Mrs Bennet

  • To C de B about the garden: "but I assure you it is much larger than Sir William Lucas's" p333

Elizabeth

  • Abt union with Mr D, to C de B: "I am only resolved to act in that manner, which will, in my own opinion, constitute my happiness" p338

57

Liz mulls. Letter arrives from Mr C. NOOO him again! Mr C seems to think Mr D will soon propose (hint: he will).

Marriage + gender roles

  • Mr Bennet to Liz about possible union with Mr D: "Let me congratulate you, on a very important conquest." p342

Reputation + prejudice + pride

  • Abt Bennet's allowing Lydia back to house after marriage: "You ought certainly to forgive them [Mr W + Lyd] as a christian, but never to admit them in your sight or allow their names to be mentioned in your hearing" p343

Mr Collins

  • Abt Bennet's allowing Lydia back to house after marriage: "You ought certainly to forgive them [Mr W + Lyd] as a christian, but never to admit them in your sight or allow their names to be mentioned in your hearing" p343

Mr Bennet- what a legend

  • "For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbours, and laugh at them in our turn" p343-4

 

58 (16)

Mr D + Bingers come to Longbourn. Mr D + Lizly walking- she thanks him for how he helped Lyds. She admits she likes him. Yay they are a couple. Engaged! That was quick. They chat about their past idk.

Love

  • The stuff he did for Lyd: "I thought only of you." p346

  • Only Liz expressing her love: "he expressed himself on the occasion as sensible and as warmly as a man violently in love can be supposed to do." p346

Pride (overcoming it) + Love

  • Mr D to Liz: "my behaviour to you at the time, had merited the severest reproof. It was unpardonable. I cannot think of it without abhorrence." p347

  • Mr D: "You [Liz] taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled." p349

Lizzy

  • To Mr D: "Let me thank you again and again, in the name of all my family, for that generous compassion which induced you to take so much trouble, and bear so many mortifications, for the sake of discovering them." p346

Mr D

  • The stuff he did for Lyd: "I thought only of you." p346

  • Only Liz expressing her love: "he expressed himself on the occasion as sensible and as warmly as a man violently in love can be supposed to do." p346

  • "my behaviour to you at the time, had merited the severest reproof. It was unpardonable. I cannot think of it without abhorrence." p347

  • "You [Liz] taught me a lesson, hard indeed at first, but most advantageous. By you, I was properly humbled." p349

59

Liz tells Jane abt Mr D. Jane is obvs worried- the dude is hardcore goth- but then happy. Mr D + Bingpot come again. Mr D + Liz tell Mr Bennet abt engagement. Then Liz tells Mrs Bennet.

Love + family + marriage

  • Jane fearing Liz doesn't really love Mr D "And do you really love him quite well enough? Oh Lizzy! do any thing rather than marry without affection." p353

Love

  • "I do, I do like him," she replied, with tears in her eyes, "I love him." p356

Family

  • Mr B checking Liz will be happy in marriage "My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life." p356

Family + pride + prejudice+ wealth + marriage + gender roles

  • On knowing Mr D is marrying Liz: "Such a charming man!" p567 Irony

  • On knowing Mr D is marrying Liz: "Oh! my sweetest Lizzy!" p567 Irony. Favouritism abt success as typical woman marriage etc. Yk.

Jane

  • Fearing Liz doesn't really love Mr D "And do you really love him quite well enough? Oh Lizzy! do any thing rather than marry without affection." p353

Mrs Bennet

  • Irony "if that disagreeable Mr. Darcy is not coming here again with our dear Bingley!" p354

  • On knowing Mr D is marrying Liz: "Such a charming man!" p567 Irony

  • On knowing Mr D is marrying Liz: "Oh! my sweetest Lizzy!" p567 Irony

Lizzy

  • "I do, I do like him," she replied, with tears in her eyes, "I love him." p356

Mr Bennet

  • Checking Liz will be happy in marriage "My child, let me not have the grief of seeing you unable to respect your partner in life." p356

60

Liz and Mr D chat. Many letters are sent idk. Everyone' stories are being wrapped up.

Gender roles + love + pride (women personal pride)

  • "You were disgusted with th women who were always speaking and looking, and thinking for your approbation alone. I roused, and interested you, because I was so unlike them." p359 Literally not like other girls.

Love (if you drive apart= brings together) + prejudice + snobbery/social class/ reputation (doesn't stop love/marriage)

  • Irony, Mr D: "Lady Catherine has been of infinite use, which ought to make her happy, for she loves to be of use." p360 See in page.

Family + reputation + pride + prejudice + wealth

  • Miss Bingley's congratulations to her brother, on his approaching marriage, were all that was affectionate and insincere." p362

Family + marriage (is escape) + snobbery (pride) + wealth

  • Abt moving with Mr D: "she looked forward with delight to the time when they should be removed from society [i.e. Her family] so little pleasing to either, to all the comfort and elegance of their family party at Pemberley." p363

 

Liz + Mr D

  • "You were disgusted with the women who were always speaking and looking, and thinking for your approbation alone. I roused, and interested you, because I was so unlike them." p359 Literally not like other girls.

Lady C de B

  • Irony, Mr D: "Lady Catherine has been of infinite use, which ought to make her happy, for she loves to be of use." p360 See in page.

Miss Bingley

  • Miss Bingley's congratulations to her brother, on his approaching marriage, were all that was affectionate and insincere." p362

Liz

  • Abt moving with Mr D: "she looked forward with delight to the time when they should be removed from society [i.e. Her family] so little pleasing to either, to all the comfort and elegance of their family party at Pemberley." p363

61

Wrapping up this sitch (thank GOD). Jane + Liz move out. Kitty is better. Lyds + Wickers are poor. AAAA we're DONE DONE YAY.

Gender roles + family (importance of it)

  • "she became, by proper attention and management, less irritable, less ignorant, and less insipid." p365

Marriage + wealth

  • Bad marriage= undesirable. Asking Liz 4 money: "I do not think we shall have quite money enough to live upon without some help." p365

  • "They were always moving from place to place in quest of a cheap situation, and always spending more than they ought." p366

Marriage + love + reputation

  • "His [Mr W] affection for her [Lyds] soon sunk into indifference; her's lasted a little longer; and in spite of her youth and her manners, she retained all the claims to reputation which her marriage had given her." p366

Gender roles + marriage

  • Abt Liz: "she [Georgiana] began to comprehend that a woman may take liberties with her husband" p366

Kitty

  • "she became, by proper attention and management, less irritable, less ignorant, and less insipid." p365

Lydia + Wickham

  • Bad marriage= undesirable. Asking Liz 4 money: "I do not think we shall have quite money enough to live upon without some help." p365

  • "They were always moving from place to place in quest of a cheap situation, and always spending more than they ought." p366

  • "His [Mr W] affection for her [Lyds] soon sunk into indifference; her's lasted a little longer; and in spite of her youth and her manners, she retained all the claims to reputation which her marriage had given her." p366

Liz + Mr D

  • Abt Liz: "she [Georgiana] began to comprehend that a woman may take liberties with her husband" p366