Esteem from Others: recognition, appreciation, attention, status and reputation
Self-Actualization Needs
Approximately 10% of the population satisfies this need
Maslow emphasizes need for self-actualization is a healthy individual’s prime motivation
Self-Actualization: actualizing one’s potential becoming all one is capable of becoming
Living up to your potential
Accepting your strengths and limitations
Accepting other people for whom and what they are
Being spontaneous
Acting creatively (even if not artistic)
Acting independently (of other’s opinion)
\n 8 Ways to Self-Actualize
Experience things fully, vividly, selflessly. Throw yourself into the experience; concentrate on it fully; let it totally absorb you.
Life is an ongoing process of choosing between safety (out of fear) and risk (for the sake of growth: make the growth choice a dozen times a day).
Let the self emerge. Try to shut out external clues as to what you should think, feel, say, and let your experience enable you to say what you truly feel.
When in doubt, be honest. If you look into yourself and are honest, you will also take responsibility; taking responsibility is self-actualizing.
Listen to your own tastes. Be prepared to be unpopular.
Use your intelligence. Work to do the things you want to do, whether that means to do, whether that means finger exercises at a keyboard, memorizing every bone, muscle, and hormone in the human body, or learning to finish wood so it looks and feels like silk.
Make peak experience more likely: to get rid of illusions and false notions; learn what you are good at and what your potentialities are not.
Find out who you are, what you like and don’t like, what is good and what is bad for you, where you are going, what your mission is. Opening yourself up in this way means identifying defenses – and then finding the courage to give them up.
Cycle of D-Motives
Deficit needs
Deprivation leads to drive to satisfy need
Achieve homeostasis
Not just biological needs
Essential for survival
Even instinctual
Being Motives
Once D-needs are fulfilled, being needs emerge
Growth motivation
Not governed by homeostasis
Becomes stronger as you fulfill them
Strive now to be all that you can be
Self-actualizers
Portrait of Self-Actualizers
Small group according to Maslow
1-2% of the population
Generally 60+ years old
Reality and problem centered
Enjoy solitude and have deep personal relationships with a few close friends
Autonomous, resisted enculturation
Acceptance of self and others
Strong ethics, spiritual, seldom religious
Prefer spontaneity and simplicity
Unhostile sense of humor
Peak Experiences
Moments of transcendence
To climb above culture
Perceptual experiences, largely passive
Spiritual realm for some but necessarily religious people may be reluctant to report
Unlike flow where you have superior functioning, self-absorbed
Peak Experiences Described
Davis (1991) interviewed 250 people
80% reported having a peak experience
Might share contents with close friend
Experience special, intimate, and personal
Not easy to describe in words
Transcend normal language
Failure to Actualize
Many fail to actualize because:
Growth tendency is weaker than deficiency motives. Hard to transcend hunger.
Normal culture downplays the importance of the inner life (voice). Just trying to gain control of our impulses
Growth requires taking risks than many are unwilling to do
Ex. international education. Study in another culture
Jonah Complex
Maslow used biblical story of Jonah to illustrate those unwilling to take risks
Jonah tried to run away from risk
Only after spending some time in the whale did he agree to complete his mission