You Are What You Love: The Spiritual Power of Habit - Study Notes

You Are What You Love: The Spiritual Power of Habit - James K. A. Smith

Introduction

  • The concept of worship as integral to human identity.

  • The importance of love and desire in understanding discipleship.

  • The book focuses on practical habits as formative spiritual practices.

Preface

  • Influential contributions from various scholars, highlighting the book's significance.

  • Importance of cultivating the imagination and desires through worship.

Chapter 1: To Worship Is Human

  • Central question: "What do you want?"

    • First question from Jesus in the Gospel of John (John 1:38).

    • Illustrates the core of discipleship and identity.

  • The heart as the wellspring of life (Prov. 4:23).

    • Discipleship involves curating one’s loves and affections.

    • Discipleship is rooted in desire, not merely knowledge.

  • Jesus as the transformative teacher of our loves.

    • Following Jesus entails alignment of our desires with God's.

Chapter 2: You Might Not Love What You Think

  • Exploration of secular liturgies that shape desires.

  • Tarkovsky’s film Stalker as a metaphor for true desires.

    • Characters must confront unarticulated longings.

  • Daily habits and actions reveal true desires and loves.

  • Importance of recognizing the difference between conscious and unconscious loves.

    • The adaptive unconscious shapes behavior more than conscious thought.

  • Critical questioning of our modern models of learning and knowledge acquisition.

Chapter 3: The Spirit Meets You Where You Are

  • Examines cultural settings where habits form.

  • The example of everyday practices, including eating habits, as liturgical formations.

  • Spiritual hungers and the power of habit in shaping desires.

  • How church practices must encompass disciplines that train the heart and desires toward God's ends.

  • The holistic model of faith formation through the Spirit in worship.

Chapter 4: What Story Are You In?

  • The narrative arc of Christian worship as a framework for identity formation.

  • The four chapters of worship:

    • Gathering: The call to enter God’s presence.

    • Listening: Receiving God's words and instructions (law and gospel).

    • Communing: Engaging with God through sacraments.

    • Sending: Empowering the congregation to live out God's commission.

  • Importance of worship as a means of character formation and community bonding.

Chapter 5: Guard Your Heart

  • The significance of home rituals and family dynamics in shaping love and values.

  • The role of baptism and marriage liturgies in creating community.

  • Observational learning through the household environment.

  • Encourage regular introspection and audits of family rituals.

    • Assess household routines through a liturgical lens for their formative influence.

Chapter 6: Teach Your Children Well

  • The necessity of formative practices for spiritual growth in children.

  • Recognition of the church as a primary influence on the formation of young hearts.

  • Examples of using engaging, ritualistic practices in children's ministry that stimulate curiosity and worship.

  • Encouraging family-centered practices that integrate worship into daily life.

Chapter 7: You Make What You Want

  • Exploration of vocation and cultural mandate.

  • Three verbs summarizing the missional aspect of creation: image, unfold, occupy.

    • Image: Reflecting God's character through our actions.

    • Unfold: Cultivating potential in creation.

    • Occupy: Living out our role in the created world.

  • Understanding desire and intention behind our work in every profession.

  • The necessity for practices that shape this vocational calling.

Conclusion

  • Summation of how worship nourishes our identity, shaping not just thought but also practice and love.

  • The transformational power of historical Christian worship as a foundation for discipleship and identity formation.

Further Reading

  • Lists additional academic works and resources that expand on the themes in the book.

Acknowledgments

  • Personal reflections on influences and support received during the writing process.

  • Recognition of influential figures in faith-based writing.