Alcohol Dependence Notes
Setting Limits and Enforcing Them
- Teach the codependent person to say "no."
- Examples:
- "I’m not going to call your boss."
- "I’m not going to buy drugs for you."
- "You do it yourself."
- Examples:
- Enforce the limit and follow through.
Working on Self-Esteem of the Codependent
- It's crucial to work on the self-esteem of the codependent, otherwise the intervention won't be effective.
- The goal is to have the codependent person believe that setting a limit and saying "no" makes them a good person.
- Abusers will attack the self-esteem of the codependent to make them cave in and comply.
- The codependent needs to bolster their self-esteem from other sources to be less vulnerable to the abuser's attacks.
- Without addressing self-esteem, codependency cannot be effectively treated.
- In dependency/codependency, there are two patients: the abuser and the codependent.
- Set limits on the abuser.
- Work on the self-esteem of the codependent.
Manipulation
- Definition: When the abuser gets the significant other to do things for them that are not in the best interest of the significant other.
- The nature of the act is dangerous or harmful.
- Dependency, codependency, and manipulation are similar because the abuser is getting the significant other to do something for them.
Telling the Difference Between Dependency and Manipulation
- Look at the act that the abuser is asking the other person to do.
- If the act is perfectly harmless, it's dependency.
- If the act is harmful, it's manipulation.
Examples
- Dependency: A 48-year-old patient with alcohol dependence disorder asks her 48-year-old partner to buy alcohol for her.
- There is nothing inherently harmful about a 48-year-old buying alcohol.
- Manipulation: A 48-year-old person with alcohol dependence disorder asks her 16-year-old daughter to go to the store and buy alcohol for her.
- It is illegal and potentially harmful for a 16-year-old to buy alcohol.
- The 48-year-old is asking the 16-year-old to do something that is not in their best interest.
Treatment of Manipulation
- Manipulation is easier to treat because nobody likes being manipulated.
- Set a limit, just like with dependency, but you don't have to deal with the self-esteem of the manipulated person.
- People who are manipulated often express feelings of being stupid or foolish, which is not positive self-esteem.
- When dealing with manipulation, there is only one patient: the abuser. Set limits on them and say no.
Psychological Problems in Abuse
- Dependency/codependency and manipulation are the three big psychological problems in abuse.
- The principles apply generally to all forms of abuse, not just alcohol dependence.
Wernicke-Korsakoff Syndrome
- Occurs in alcohol dependence disorder.
- It is a dementia caused by a deficiency in thiamine (vitamin B1).
- It destroys the brain.
Symptoms
- Memory loss (amnesia) is the primary symptom.
- Confabulation: Making up stories that aren't true to fill in memory gaps.
- Example: A patient with a 40-year history of alcoholism who didn't remember the 1980s claimed to be Ronald Reagan's national security advisor and responsible for the Berlin Wall coming down.
Characteristics
- Preventable: Can be prevented by taking daily doses of vitamin B1, even without stopping alcohol consumption.
- Arrestable: Can be stopped from getting worse by taking vitamin B1.
- Irreversible: The memory loss is permanent, and lost memories will not return.
- Goals for dementia clients should focus on maintaining the current level of function or slowing deterioration, not on improvement.
Medications for Alcohol Dependence Disorder
- Disulfiram and naltrexone.
- Adjuvant therapy: Used in addition to other therapies like psychotherapy and group therapy.
Onset and Duration
- It takes two weeks for the drugs to become effective.
- It takes two weeks for the drugs to clear from the system.
Reactions with Alcohol
- Disulfiram and naltrexone have dangerous reactions when mixed with alcohol.
- Teach patients to avoid all forms of alcohol to prevent physiological crises like nausea, vomiting, and death.
Things to Avoid
- Mouthwash (unless labeled non-alcohol)
- Aftershave
- Perfumes
- Elixirs (liquid medications that contain alcohol)
- Insect repellents (e.g., OFF, Deep Woods Cutter, Skin So Soft)
- Vanilla extract (if not cooked)
- Vinaigrettes (salad dressings that may contain alcohol)
- Alcohol-based hand sanitizer
- Alcohol prep pads