Introduction to Strategic Family Therapy

Stroke Kick Technique

• Student comment highlights potential neuroplastic changes from repeated stroke kick use, leading to defensiveness.
• Therapists should avoid overuse; limit to once or twice per session, varying delivery.
• Stroke can be separated in time from the kick; strength-building becomes pre-stroke.
• Stroke kick can be disguised, complimenting before delivering the kick.

Examples of Stroke Kick

• Starting positively, then giving constructive feedback.
• Example: "You did a great job capturing the audience…My constructive feedback is to make more eye contact and project your voice."
• Neurobiological connection: Praise activates oxytocin, fostering closeness; criticism activates cortisol, triggering fight-or-flight.
• Oxytocin production occurs in both the giver and receiver.

Difficulties with Stroke Kick

• Student's unsuccessful attempt: "Thank you for helping around the house lately," then criticizing past behavior.
• Potential misinterpretation by spouse: Hearing