Interpersonal Communication - CH1

  • Interpersonal communication is defined by the interaction between people, not location or number, and is a distinct type of interaction.

  • Features of Interpersonal Communication:

    • Selective: Choosing specific individuals.

    • Systemic: Influenced by various factors.

    • Unique: Each interaction is distinct.

    • Processual: Ongoing and evolving.

    • Transactional: Involving mutual influence.

    • Individual: Recognizing uniqueness.

    • Personal knowledge: Understanding beliefs/feelings.

    • Meaning created: Shared understanding.

  • Martin Buber; Communication Continuum:

    • I-It: Treating others as objects.

    • I-You: Acknowledging others but not individualizing.

    • I-Thou: Deepest level, seeing unique individuals.

    • Continuum: impersonal (I-It) -> interpersonal (I-You) -> profound interpersonal (I-Thou).

  • The Interpersonal Imperative: Fulfills physical, safety, belonging, self-esteem, and self-actualization needs.

  • Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: Physical -> Safety -> Belonging -> Self-Esteem -> Self-Actualization.

    • Effective participation in a diverse society requires understanding and learning from others.

  • Models of Interpersonal Communication: Linear, interactive, and transactional.

    • Linear: One-way process (source, message, transmitter, signal, receiver, destination, noise).

    • Interactive: Includes feedback and personal experience.

    • Transactional: Dynamic, multiple roles, includes time.

  • Principles of Interpersonal Communication:

    • We cannot not communicate; it's irreversible, involves ethical choices, is context-dependent.

    • Metacommunication affects meaning; develops/sustains relationships; not a cure-all; effectiveness can be learned.

  • Guidelines for Interpersonal Communication Competence: Develop skills, adapt appropriately, engage in dual perspective, monitor communication, commit to effective and ethical communication.