American Marriage Institutionalization Deinstitutionalization

American Marriage: Institutionalization and Deinstitutionalization


Mate Selection Exchange Theory

  • Costs and Benefits: Relationships involve costs and benefits. Interactions persist if both individuals derive social and psychic rewards. If costs outweigh rewards, interactions cease.

  • Homogamy:

    • Definition: The tendency of like to marry like.

    • People with similar attributes (age, race, religion, etc.) tend to pair more frequently than by chance.

  • Heterogamous Marriages:

    • Definition: Marriages in which spouses differ significantly in characteristics such as race, age, or religion.

    • Reference: Hughes and Kroehler (2013:230)


Additional Theories of Mate Selection

  • Matching Hypothesis: Individuals with similar levels of physical attractiveness are more likely to pair. This increases mutual satisfaction (payoff) and reduces rejection risk.

  • Complementary Needs Theory: Opposite personality traits create balance and completeness in relationships, enriching the partnership.

    • Reference: Hughes and Kroehler (2013:318)


Historical Forms of Marriage in Western Societies

Institutional Marriage

  • Definition: Adherence to traditional marriage roles and patterns, viewing marriage as a dominant cultural institution.

  • Characteristics:

    • Limited focus on compatibility or love between partners.

Companionate Marriage

  • Definition: Based on sentiment, friendship, and sexuality.

  • Companionate Love: A form of love that develops gradually and is based on rational assessment, rather than pure sexual passion.

Individualized Marriage

  • Definition: Flexible marriage focusing on personal identity and emotional needs.

  • Characteristics:

    • Partners aim for personal satisfaction and self-development, rather than fulfilling traditional roles.

    • Moving away from roles of a good parent or loyal spouse.

    • Reference: Cherlin (2004:853)


Deinstitutionalization of Marriage

  • Definition: Coined by Andrew Cherlin, it refers to the weakening of social norms related to marriage.

  • Implications: Couples are uncertain about marriage formation, leading to more experimentation with intimate and sexual relationships.

    • Reference: Ritzer (2015:284)

    • Source: Cherlin, Andrew. 2009. The Marriage-Go-Round: The State of Marriage and the Family in America Today. New York: Knopf.