American Marriage Institutionalization Deinstitutionalization
American Marriage: Institutionalization and Deinstitutionalization
Mate Selection Exchange Theory
Costs and Benefits: Relationships involve costs and benefits. Interactions persist if both individuals derive social and psychic rewards. If costs outweigh rewards, interactions cease.
Homogamy:
Definition: The tendency of like to marry like.
People with similar attributes (age, race, religion, etc.) tend to pair more frequently than by chance.
Heterogamous Marriages:
Definition: Marriages in which spouses differ significantly in characteristics such as race, age, or religion.
Reference: Hughes and Kroehler (2013:230)
Additional Theories of Mate Selection
Matching Hypothesis: Individuals with similar levels of physical attractiveness are more likely to pair. This increases mutual satisfaction (payoff) and reduces rejection risk.
Complementary Needs Theory: Opposite personality traits create balance and completeness in relationships, enriching the partnership.
Reference: Hughes and Kroehler (2013:318)
Historical Forms of Marriage in Western Societies
Institutional Marriage
Definition: Adherence to traditional marriage roles and patterns, viewing marriage as a dominant cultural institution.
Characteristics:
Limited focus on compatibility or love between partners.
Companionate Marriage
Definition: Based on sentiment, friendship, and sexuality.
Companionate Love: A form of love that develops gradually and is based on rational assessment, rather than pure sexual passion.
Individualized Marriage
Definition: Flexible marriage focusing on personal identity and emotional needs.
Characteristics:
Partners aim for personal satisfaction and self-development, rather than fulfilling traditional roles.
Moving away from roles of a good parent or loyal spouse.
Reference: Cherlin (2004:853)
Deinstitutionalization of Marriage
Definition: Coined by Andrew Cherlin, it refers to the weakening of social norms related to marriage.
Implications: Couples are uncertain about marriage formation, leading to more experimentation with intimate and sexual relationships.
Reference: Ritzer (2015:284)
Source: Cherlin, Andrew. 2009. The Marriage-Go-Round: The State of Marriage and the Family in America Today. New York: Knopf.