Overview of the Self and Personal Development

Intended Learning Outcomes for Understanding the Self

  • Participants should be able to define the nature, concept, and meaning of the self.
  • Participants should be able to discuss the nature of the self from their own point of view.
  • Participants should be able to use the conceptualization and representation of the self from various disciplines and perspectives.

Fundamental Concepts of Self-Understanding: Discovery and Awareness

  • Understanding the self is considered an essential component of every person's life.
  • Better self-understanding requires allowing oneself to experience the twin processes of self-discovery and self-awareness.
  • Self-discovery is the process of learning, understanding, or knowing more about oneself and who they are. It involves becoming aware of one's true potential, character, motives, and other internal drivers.
  • Self-awareness is the specific knowledge of yourself and your worth as a person.
  • Experience-based examples of awareness include the specific results or insights one hopes to gain from meditating.
  • Self-awareness is viewed as a direct result of undergoing the process of self-discovery.

The Nature and Moldability of the Self

  • The question "Who am I?" often begins with the name, but names are merely signifiers that represent who a person is.
  • A name signifies the individual, but the name is not the person itself, regardless of how intimately bound it is with the bearer.
  • The self is thought to be significantly more than just a name.
  • The self is not static; it is something that a person perennially molds, shapes, and develops over time.

Personality and the S.E.L.F. Acronym

  • The sum total of a personality is represented by the acronym S.E.L.F., indicating that what a person is results from:
    • Social factors.
    • Environmental factors.
    • Other Life Factors.
  • Personality is defined as being made up of the characteristic patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that make a person unique.
  • The self is considered to be the total personality.
  • The word "personality" originates from the Greek word "persona," which translates to a "mask" worn by actors in the theater.
  • In this context, every individual is viewed as an actor in the theater called life.

Issues of the Self: The Journey of Self-Understanding

  • Self-understanding is a continuous journey rather than a destination.
  • There are always new things to discover about the self, leads to new paths to success resulting from that understanding.
  • The kind of person an individual becomes is defined by the way they look at themselves and their relationship with the world.
  • Understanding these relationships allows an individual to examine who they are and, more importantly, creates the person they want to be.

The Nature Versus Nurture Debate

  • The nature versus nurture debate is one of the oldest philosophical issues within psychology, involving two competing claims:
    • One side claims that genes determine an individual.
    • The other side claims that the environment, culture, and experience determine the individual.
  • Nature is defined as genetic or hormone-based behaviors, traits, and dispositions. It includes all genes and hereditary factors that influence an individual, ranging from physical appearance to personality characteristics.
  • Nurture refers to all environmental variables that impact who a person is. This includes early childhood experiences, upbringing, social relationships, and the surrounding culture.
  • While arguments regarding the predominance of nature or nurture remain unresolved, an eclectic standpoint is adopted: the Self is safely assumed to be a product of BOTH Nature and Nurture.

Lexical Distinctions Between Self and Identity

  • Self: Based on the lexical definition, the self is "the person that someone normally or truly is… or the entire person of an individual."
  • Identity: Based on the lexical definition, identity refers to "the qualities, beliefs, etc., that make a particular person or group different from others… or the distinguishing character or personality of an individual."