Philosophy (Filial piety)

Stable States of Character

  • Individuals with virtuous character possess stable states of character.

  • A virtuous person naturally performs the right actions without excessive deliberation.

  • Exceptions exist in extreme circumstances where reflection may be necessary.

Virtuous Actions and Practice

  • Continuously practicing virtuous actions is essential to becoming virtuous.

  • Virtue is a skill developed over time, akin to learning a craft.

  • Initially, efforts to be virtuous may feel awkward or ineffective ("bad at being good").

  • Example: The character traits modeled in the animated series "Avatar" can illustrate the process of developing virtues like bravery and compassion.

Filial Piety and Growing into Adulthood

  • Practicing filial piety can teach individuals how to navigate adult relationships.

  • Filial piety involves respect and duty towards parents, but the nature of this relationship can vary.

  • It is crucial to consider that not all parents model ideal behavior or virtue.

    • In such cases, children may not owe filial piety to their biological parents.

    • Instead, they can demonstrate filial respect to other adult figures in their lives, who embody positive traits.

Friendship Dynamics

  • Friendship typically occurs between equals engaging in shared activities; this may not always apply to parent-child relationships.

  • The nature of friendship and filial piety influences their relationship dynamics, especially regarding the activities shared between parents and children.

  • Addressing the objection of bad parenting:

    • Bad parents do not necessarily forfeit filial respect; individuals can form positive attachments elsewhere.

    • Influence of virtuous adult figures can guide the understanding of filial piety in a more productive way.