PSY231 Chapter 4 - Women's LT Mating Strategies

Parental-Investment Theory Revisited

  • Developed by Trivers (1972)

    • Higher investment in offspring leads to choosiness in mate selection.

    • The sex that invests less (men) competes more for mating opportunities.

  • In human mating and marriage, both genders are selective due to high parental investment in children.

Mate Preference as EPA

  • People vary in countless traits — looks, intelligence, status, health, etc. Thus, choosing a mate isn’t random — some traits are more valuable from an evolutionary perspective.

  • Natural selection has shaped humans to prefer mates who offer the best chances of reproductive success.

    • For example, traits like health, resourcefulness, or loyalty might increase the chance of survival for offspring.

  • Mate choice isn’t random = it's shaped by evolution. Over time, humans developed preferences for traits that gave their offspring a better shot at survival and success. These preferences now influence how we choose partners, even today.

Cues for Upward Mobility in Male Partners

  • Women look for both physical and non-physical cues signaling a male’s resources and status.

    • Physical Cues: Health, athletic ability.

    • Non-Physical Cues: Reputation, observable economic resources.

Preferences for Economic Resources

  • Observations in other species (e.g., male shrikes attracting mates by displaying food) mirror women's preferences for financial resources in human mates.

  • Financial prospects are seen as important in long-term relationships; studies indicate women value financial resources significantly higher than men do.

Cross-Cultural Studies on Mate Preferences

  • Large studies (Buss, 1989; Buss et al., 1990) involving over 10,000 participants across 37 cultures demonstrate women value financial security significantly more than men.

  • In varied societies (e.g., Himba, Hadza) women prioritize long-term mates for their wealth, respect, and provision abilities.

Preferences for High Social Status

  • Women's preference for men with higher social status correlates with better resource provision for their children.

  • Women in various cultures prioritize social status over other mate characteristics, viewing status as a necessity.

Preferences for Older Partners

  • Average preference for older partners is approximately 3.5 years across cultures.

  • Older men have advantages in terms of resources, maturity, and social connections.

Preferences for Ambition and Industriousness

  • Women often rate ambition and hard work highly in a partner, linking these traits to financial stability and resource acquisition.

Preferences for Dependability and Stability

  • Dependability and emotional stability are highly valued traits, with women generally preferring these characteristics more than men, indicating a desire for a stable partner.

Preference for Athletic Prowess, Formidability, and Height

  • Women are attracted to characteristics that indicate protection, such as athleticism and height, paralleling attraction seen in other primate species.

Preference for Good Health

  • Good health in a potential mate is crucial for reproductive success, impacting offspring survival and health.

  • Characteristics like bilateral symmetry are seen as markers of health and attractiveness.

Commitment and Willingness to Invest in Children

  • Both genders value commitment, with love being a major cue indicating willingness to invest in long-term relationships.

  • Men’s interest in children correlates positively with their desirability as long-term partners.

Homogamy and Partner Similarity

  • Likelihood of emotional bonding and communication increases with partner similarity in background or characteristics.

  • Higher homogamy is linked to lower breakup risks and better child survival overall.

Additional Traits and Deal Breakers

  • Traits such as kindness and humor are favored by women in long-term relationships as they indicate good parenting potential.

  • Common deal breakers include dishonesty, lack of hygiene, or current relationships with others.

Social Role Theory

  • Women’s preferences for high-status mates can be explained by their often lower social power and access to resources, promoting a desire to marry upwards.

  • Marrying upwards would allow them to gain access to valuable resources (that they usually do not have).

Mate Choice Copying

  • The attractiveness of a mate can be influenced by the preferences of others.

  • Men appear more desirable when associated with other women. Women use social cues to judge a man’s quality = “if other women like him, he must be a good catch”.

Temporal Context of Mating Preferences

  • Preferences can vary depending on the context, with women placing higher value on certain traits for long-term versus short-term relationships.

Perceived Mate Values

  • Women’s self-perceived attractiveness affects their desires and standards in potential mates, with higher self-rated attractiveness linked to more extensive trait lists and higher standards.

Conclusion

  • Female mating preferences are complex and influenced by various evolutionary, social, and contextual factors, ultimately shaping male behaviors and perceptions in romantic contexts.