PSY231 Chapter 4 - Women's LT Mating Strategies
Parental-Investment Theory Revisited
Developed by Trivers (1972)
Higher investment in offspring leads to choosiness in mate selection.
The sex that invests less (men) competes more for mating opportunities.
In human mating and marriage, both genders are selective due to high parental investment in children.
Mate Preference as EPA
People vary in countless traits — looks, intelligence, status, health, etc. Thus, choosing a mate isn’t random — some traits are more valuable from an evolutionary perspective.
Natural selection has shaped humans to prefer mates who offer the best chances of reproductive success.
For example, traits like health, resourcefulness, or loyalty might increase the chance of survival for offspring.
Mate choice isn’t random = it's shaped by evolution. Over time, humans developed preferences for traits that gave their offspring a better shot at survival and success. These preferences now influence how we choose partners, even today.
Cues for Upward Mobility in Male Partners
Women look for both physical and non-physical cues signaling a male’s resources and status.
Physical Cues: Health, athletic ability.
Non-Physical Cues: Reputation, observable economic resources.
Preferences for Economic Resources
Observations in other species (e.g., male shrikes attracting mates by displaying food) mirror women's preferences for financial resources in human mates.
Financial prospects are seen as important in long-term relationships; studies indicate women value financial resources significantly higher than men do.
Cross-Cultural Studies on Mate Preferences
Large studies (Buss, 1989; Buss et al., 1990) involving over 10,000 participants across 37 cultures demonstrate women value financial security significantly more than men.
In varied societies (e.g., Himba, Hadza) women prioritize long-term mates for their wealth, respect, and provision abilities.
Preferences for High Social Status
Women's preference for men with higher social status correlates with better resource provision for their children.
Women in various cultures prioritize social status over other mate characteristics, viewing status as a necessity.
Preferences for Older Partners
Average preference for older partners is approximately 3.5 years across cultures.
Older men have advantages in terms of resources, maturity, and social connections.
Preferences for Ambition and Industriousness
Women often rate ambition and hard work highly in a partner, linking these traits to financial stability and resource acquisition.
Preferences for Dependability and Stability
Dependability and emotional stability are highly valued traits, with women generally preferring these characteristics more than men, indicating a desire for a stable partner.
Preference for Athletic Prowess, Formidability, and Height
Women are attracted to characteristics that indicate protection, such as athleticism and height, paralleling attraction seen in other primate species.
Preference for Good Health
Good health in a potential mate is crucial for reproductive success, impacting offspring survival and health.
Characteristics like bilateral symmetry are seen as markers of health and attractiveness.
Commitment and Willingness to Invest in Children
Both genders value commitment, with love being a major cue indicating willingness to invest in long-term relationships.
Men’s interest in children correlates positively with their desirability as long-term partners.
Homogamy and Partner Similarity
Likelihood of emotional bonding and communication increases with partner similarity in background or characteristics.
Higher homogamy is linked to lower breakup risks and better child survival overall.
Additional Traits and Deal Breakers
Traits such as kindness and humor are favored by women in long-term relationships as they indicate good parenting potential.
Common deal breakers include dishonesty, lack of hygiene, or current relationships with others.
Social Role Theory
Women’s preferences for high-status mates can be explained by their often lower social power and access to resources, promoting a desire to marry upwards.
Marrying upwards would allow them to gain access to valuable resources (that they usually do not have).
Mate Choice Copying
The attractiveness of a mate can be influenced by the preferences of others.
Men appear more desirable when associated with other women. Women use social cues to judge a man’s quality = “if other women like him, he must be a good catch”.
Temporal Context of Mating Preferences
Preferences can vary depending on the context, with women placing higher value on certain traits for long-term versus short-term relationships.
Perceived Mate Values
Women’s self-perceived attractiveness affects their desires and standards in potential mates, with higher self-rated attractiveness linked to more extensive trait lists and higher standards.
Conclusion
Female mating preferences are complex and influenced by various evolutionary, social, and contextual factors, ultimately shaping male behaviors and perceptions in romantic contexts.