Wang-Socialmediasocial-2016
Chapter Overview
Title: Social Media and Social Relationships
Book: Social Media in Industrial China
Author: Xinyuan Wang
Publisher: UCL Press
URL: JSTOR
License: CC BY-NC-ND 4.0
Key Themes
The Role of Social Media in Chinese Society
Chinese social media users are highly responsive, adjusting quickly to social norms and behavior.
Social media has become integral to daily life, alongside offline interactions, facilitating relationships in contexts where they might not otherwise exist.
Emerging social norms related to social media have reshaped interpersonal interactions among families, friends, and romantic partners.
Social Connections Among Rural Migrants
Current Context: A common trend since 2014 involves messages sent via WeChat urging users to clean up their contacts by sharing group messages, assisting in tracking who rem=ains on their list.
User Reactions: While some find this practice annoying and indicative of insecurity, others use it as a tool to assess their relationships, reflecting a pervasive sense of uncertainty.
Experiences of rural migrants reveal a shift from tight-knit community bonds to transient, unstable connections due to workplace movements.
Relationships and Social Dynamics
Floating Population: Migrants, having left stable rural environments, often find it difficult to forge long-lasting relationships in urban settings, leading to a sense of detachment and disillusionment.
Social Media Profiles: Analysis of QQ profiles indicates that interpersonal networks often consist of non-kinship connections, including online friends and strangers.
Mediated Interactions
Online Behavior: The term 'zombie' refers to contacts on social media with whom users have no interaction, leading young users to keep them for social credibility.
Social media serves as an avenue for emotional expression and connection, contrasting individuals’ feelings of isolation in their day-to-day lives.
Social Media Usage in Families
Communication Across Distance
Young couples and families utilize social media (e.g., QQ, WeChat) to maintain relationships despite physical separations.
Lan's Story: A mother uses locked albums on QQ to share family moments with her husband working in Shanghai, highlighting the emotional comfort provided by digital connections.
Yan Hong's Experience: A woman finds that social media interactions with her husband improve their relationship despite physical absence, showcasing shifts in communication dynamics.
Voice Messaging: Improved control over communication cited as enhancing relationships; in some cases, messages serve as evidence in disputes among family members.
Romantic Relationships on Social Media
Love and Online Interaction
Social media is viewed as a venue for romantic expression, with users feeling more confident in displaying emotions through virtual chats.
Users engage in public displays of affection on platforms like QQ, allowing for private communication to appear publicly romantic.
Jealousy and Surveillance: The constant scrutiny of social media activities (e.g., delayed replies) fosters insecurities and misunderstandings between partners.
Cultural Implications
Public displays on social media reflect societal norms; relationships may be legitimized through social media actions.
Subtle public communication styles allow couples to convey intimacy without overt declarations, maintaining a social balance.
Friendship and Kinship Online
Migrants report a shift from traditional conceptions of friendship toward more fluid interpretations on social media.
Many individuals prefer to expand their networks online due to difficulties in forming bonds amid transient lifestyles.
Social media networks are often perceived as pragmatic tools for support and emotional connection, contrasting established kinship ties with new forms of fraternity.
Privacy in Digital Interactions
Yin Si (Privacy) Concept: In Chinese culture, there is a cultural stigma associated with privacy, often conflated with secrecy.
Young rural migrants use social media to carve out digital spaces of privacy, manipulating audience visibility and allowing for personal expression.
Conclusion: Social media acts as a conduit for rural migrants to navigate new social landscapes, reinforcing their ability to negotiate relationships and personal boundaries in an evolving digital era.