Freshman Year Advice

Dating

• Avoid dating during the first semester.
  • While it's okay if you find someone compatible, many relationships at this time can be based on lust.
  • Enjoy the new social environment, make friends, and focus on studies.
  • Dating can be pursued later without pressure.

Going Out Clothes

• Avoid buying cheap, trendy going-out tops (e.g., from Shein) with bright colors or floral patterns.
  • These are often worn only once.
• Opt for neutral, simple tops in solid colors like black and white for greater versatility.
• Black and white mini skirts.
• "Going Out Jeans"
• Avoid corsets as they are not commonly worn.
• Invest in essential items like a good black miniskirt, a white miniskirt, and a pair of going-out jeans.

Shoes

• Have a reliable pair of white or black Converse shoes for going out.
  • Black is recommended as it hides dirt better.
• Avoid wearing good shoes when going out.

Self-Care Day

• Dedicate a day or significant time block for personal decompression.
  • Use this time for cleaning, laundry, and starting homework.
  • Establishes a routine and promotes success.

Homework

• Start homework early and spread it out over several days.
  • Avoid waiting until the last minute to complete assignments.

Digital Camera

• Purchase a digital camera for capturing memories.
  • The Sony ZV-1 is recommended, though it lacks a flash.
  • The Canon G7X or other inexpensive digital cameras are good alternatives.

Making Friends

• Be open to making new friends and don't exclusively rely on high school friends.
• Take advantage of welcome week events to meet new people.
  • Everyone is seeking to make friends during this time.
• Welcome week events and the free things.

Planner

• Use a planner to stay organized.

Laptop

• Have a laptop or MacBook instead of relying solely on an iPad.

Clothes

• Don't bring your entire wardrobe to college.
  • You will likely only wear half of it.
  • Bring essential and neutral items, as you will likely go shopping.

Walking Shoes

• Have a good pair of comfortable walking shoes for getting around campus (e.g., Hokas).

Join a Club

• Join a club to stay busy and meet new people.

Embrace Freshman Year

• Embrace your freshman year and avoid excessive stress.
  • Classes are generally easier, and it's a great time to meet people.
  • Take advantage of opportunities and say yes to new experiences (unless harmful).
  • This is the most fun year of college.