Freshman Year Advice

Dating

  • Avoid dating during the first semester.
    • While it's okay if you find someone compatible, many relationships at this time can be based on lust.
    • Enjoy the new social environment, make friends, and focus on studies.
    • Dating can be pursued later without pressure.

Going Out Clothes

  • Avoid buying cheap, trendy going-out tops (e.g., from Shein) with bright colors or floral patterns.
    • These are often worn only once.
  • Opt for neutral, simple tops in solid colors like black and white for greater versatility.
  • Black and white mini skirts.
  • "Going Out Jeans"
  • Avoid corsets as they are not commonly worn.
  • Invest in essential items like a good black miniskirt, a white miniskirt, and a pair of going-out jeans.

Shoes

  • Have a reliable pair of white or black Converse shoes for going out.
    • Black is recommended as it hides dirt better.
  • Avoid wearing good shoes when going out.

Self-Care Day

  • Dedicate a day or significant time block for personal decompression.
    • Use this time for cleaning, laundry, and starting homework.
    • Establishes a routine and promotes success.

Homework

  • Start homework early and spread it out over several days.
    • Avoid waiting until the last minute to complete assignments.

Digital Camera

  • Purchase a digital camera for capturing memories.
    • The Sony ZV-1 is recommended, though it lacks a flash.
    • The Canon G7X or other inexpensive digital cameras are good alternatives.

Making Friends

  • Be open to making new friends and don't exclusively rely on high school friends.
  • Take advantage of welcome week events to meet new people.
    • Everyone is seeking to make friends during this time.
  • Welcome week events and the free things.

Planner

  • Use a planner to stay organized.

Laptop

  • Have a laptop or MacBook instead of relying solely on an iPad.

Clothes

  • Don't bring your entire wardrobe to college.
    • You will likely only wear half of it.
    • Bring essential and neutral items, as you will likely go shopping.

Walking Shoes

  • Have a good pair of comfortable walking shoes for getting around campus (e.g., Hokas).

Join a Club

  • Join a club to stay busy and meet new people.

Embrace Freshman Year

  • Embrace your freshman year and avoid excessive stress.
    • Classes are generally easier, and it's a great time to meet people.
    • Take advantage of opportunities and say yes to new experiences (unless harmful).
    • This is the most fun year of college.