Conversation Skills: Avoiding unwanted conversations

Conversation Skills: How to Avoid Them

  • Introduction: The lesson focuses on how to avoid conversations, contrasting with typical English lessons that teach how to initiate and maintain dialogues.

Reasons for Avoiding Conversations

  • Personal Preference: Sometimes, individuals simply don't want to engage in conversation.
  • Scenario Example: The speaker shares an example of walking their dog in the morning before having coffee and not wanting to interact with other dog owners.
  • Annoying Questions: People ask unwanted, personal questions (e.g., about the dog's gender or age).

Tips to Avoid Conversations

1. Avoid Eye Contact
  • Rule: Don't look at people you want to avoid talking to.
  • Contrast: To initiate a conversation, direct eye contact is necessary.
2. Don't Ask Questions
  • Rule: Refrain from asking the other person questions.
  • Example: Avoiding asking about the other person's dog.
  • Contrast: Asking questions is a way to further conversations.
  • Example of a conversation: Asking