The mother's perspective: the job doesn't have enough status.
It's awkward having a policeman around the house.
Friends become reserved, parties are affected.
Loss of first name; replaced by terms like "cop," "flatfoot," etc.
Not much of a life unless one doesn't mind constant interruptions and working weekends/holidays without overtime.
Pay is adequate but requires careful budgeting to afford things like college for kids.
First Night and Encounters on the Beat
First night involves facing harsh realities, such as arresting a prostitute who rips the uniform. The replacement cost is out-of-pocket.
Rubbing elbows with the less desirable elements of society (pimps, addicts, thieves).
Dealing with various categories of people:
Liars, cheats, the classes, people in skid row, and the heartbreak.
Underfed kids, beaten kids, molested kids, lost kids, crying kids, homeless kids, hit-and-run kids, broken arm kids, broken leg kids, broken head kids, sick kids, dying kids, dead kids.
Old people that nobody wants, the reliefs, the pensioners, the ones who walked the street cold, and those who tried to keep warm and died in a $3 room with an unvented gas heater.
Picking up the pieces on one's beat becomes a key responsibility.
Real Adventure in a Prowl Car
Unknown trouble calls at odd hours (2 AM) in backyards lead to encounters with potentially dangerous individuals.
Kid with a knife, a pill head with a gun, or two ex-cons with nothing to lose.
Spending time alone in a car with only the radio for company allows for considerable thought.
Transition to Detective Work
After four years in uniform, one may transition to detective work.
Flying by the seat of your pants becomes common due to the nature of the job.
Dealing with a vast number of suspects (3 million) for every crime with limited facts and relying on hunches.
Running down dead-end leads and working long stakeouts.
Talking to numerous people:
People who saw it happen but really didn't.
People who insist they did it but really didn't.
People who remember, those who try to forget, those who tell the truth, and those who lie.
Endless paperwork and report writing are required.
Reports are filled out when right, wrong, or unsure.
Reports list leads or state the absence of leads.
Report on the reports you've made.
Dealing with the Legal System
Dealing with:
District attorneys.
Defense attorneys.
Prosecuting attorneys.
Judges.
Juries.
Witnesses.
Not always being happy with the outcomes of court decisions.
The Policeman's Perspective
Despite the difficulties, many policemen (over 5,000 in the city) recognize the importance of their endless, glamorous, thankless job.