Lecture 13 (mandy) - Conflict
Sources of Conflict
Consider the following aspects:
What are the sources of conflict?
How does it make people feel?
Were the issues resolved satisfactorily?
What is Conflict?
Definition:
Conflict is a disagreement or difference of opinion that can occur between individuals or groups.
Sources of Conflict:
Conflict can arise from:
Different perspectives
Unmet needs
Communication breakdowns
Power imbalances
It may manifest physically (fight), verbally (argument), or through strong feelings about others' beliefs.
Biological Responses to Conflict
Fight or Flight Response:
Why do we experience this response?
Historically, humans needed to survive threats (like attacks from predators) which has conditioned our biological responses.
In modern contexts, threats might include workplace conflicts.
Physiological Triggers:
This response involves the brain's amygdala reacting to perceived threats.
Hypothalamic Activation:
Activates the sympathetic nervous system and releases adrenaline.
Cortisol Release:
The adrenal cortex releases cortisol for sustained alertness.
Physical Reactions to Stress
Dilation of pupils
Dry mouth
Fast breathing
Heart pounding
Tensed muscles
Slowed digestion
Sweating of palms
The Effects of Stress on Health
Chronic Stress Impacts:
Prolonged activation of the fight or flight response can lead to severe health risks, such as:
Headaches
High blood pressure
Weakened immune system
Heart diseases
Depression and anxiety
Sleep disorders (insomnia)
Stress manifests through physiological symptoms:
Rapid heartbeat
Stomachaches
Fertility issues
Personal Responses to Conflict
Common Responses:
Fight: confrontational
Flight: avoidance
Freeze: inaction
Face: addressing the problem in a rational manner
Emotional Responses to Conflict
Feelings that may arise during conflicts:
Annoyance
Panic
Stress
Anticipation
Frustration
Understanding Behavioral Types in Conflict
Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson categorizes human behaviors into four color-coded profiles:
Red: Bold leaders; ambitious.
Yellow: Social and optimistic; creative.
Green: Friendly and loyal; selfless.
Blue: Analytical and detail-oriented.
Conflict Dynamics and Challenges
Challenging Combinations:
Opposite colors tend to clash, e.g., Reds and Greens with contrasting approaches to conflict.
Effective communication (listening) is suggested for bridging differences.
Managing Conflict Positively
Potential Positive Outcomes:
When managed appropriately, conflict can foster:
Team-building skills
Critical thinking
Innovative ideas
Alternative resolutions
Conflict Resolution Process:
Recognizing two differing parties and collaborating on a solution can enhance outcomes.
Important to approach issues calmly instead of avoiding or resorting to conflict.
Conflict Recap
Key messages:
Learn the importance of understanding differing perspectives and the role of negotiation styles in conflict resolution.
Negotiation Approaches
Collaboration vs. Compromise:
Collaboration: Work together towards a common goal (win-win).
Compromise: Find a middle ground (both give some things up).
Negotiation Outcomes Models
Types of Negotiation Outcomes:
Accommodating: I lose, you win
Avoiding: I lose, you lose
Competing: I win, you lose
Compromising: both win, both lose
Collaborating: I win, you win
Assertiveness and Cooperativeness
Definitions:
Assertiveness: Confidently state what one believes.
Cooperativeness: Willingness to assist or support others.
Reflection on Outcomes
After negotiation, discuss feelings about the outcomes collectively and individually.
Determine personal negotiation styles and areas for improvement.
Managing Conflict at Work
Common Types of Workplace Conflict:
Interpersonal Conflict: Between individuals.
Intra-Group Conflict: Within a team or department.
Inter-Group Conflict: Between different groups.
Intra-organizational Conflict: Across the whole organization.
Sources of Workplace Conflict
Potential Causes:
Unclarified roles
Personality differences
Poor communication
Competing job duties
Unmet needs
Inequities in resource distribution
Signs of Conflict at Work
Indicators include:
Absenteeism and decreased productivity
Increased direct complaints
Behavioral changes
High turnover rates
Silence in meetings
Disruptive Impact of Workplace Conflict
Consequences Include:
Personal insult attacks (27%)
Increased sickness and absenteeism (25%)
High turnover rates (18%)
Project failures (9%)
Strategies for Managing Conflict
Best Practices:
Know your emotional triggers.
Address issues privately.
Allow others to express themselves.
Identify disagreements collaboratively.
Individual Conflict Types
Minor Issues: Simple disagreements
Ongoing Problems: Persisting conflicts characterized by rivalry or ongoing resentment.
Formal Grievances: Established procedures for addressing disputes.
Resources and Support
Introduce Acas and their role in conflict resolution and workplace rights.
Provides arbitration and mediation services for various disputes.
Conclusion and Further Reading
Key References:
Eisenhardt, K. M., Kahwajy, J. L., & Bourgeois, L. J. (1997)
Opportunities for further learning in managing team dynamics and conflict resolutions.