Profeminist and Masculinist Men’s Movements — Comprehensive Notes (Chapter 4)

Profeminist Men's Groups

  • Emerged in the 1960s and are also called progressive men and male feminists.

  • Aim to redefine manhood and masculinity, reflecting diverse and sometimes conflicting political and personal values.

  • Some groups pursue new images of masculinity; others seek to reinvigorate traditional images and preserve or expand men’s privileges.

  • Activism among men evolves: new groups appear as older ones fade.

  • Profeminist men do not act in isolation from feminist activism: some ally with feminist organizations; others reject feminism and feminists and push traditional masculine roles and privileges.

  • The relationship between men’s activism and feminism is characterized by both collaboration and opposition across groups.

Key Concepts and Strategies

  • Two foci of profeminist activism: (1) concerns about women’s rights and gender equality, (2) concerns about men’s roles and privileges.

  • Performing a traitorous identity: members critique attitudes or actions common in their group to challenge the group and foster change. Example: a hypermasculine male calling out sexist language, which can empower positive social change though others label him a "traitor".

  • Traitorous identity as a form of allyship: described as a way to leverage power for those with less advantage; allies act to advance equity rather than abandon the group.

  • Persuasion: male feminists work to convince friends, coworkers, and communities to alter discriminatory attitudes and practices.

  • MALE (Men's Attitudes and Learnings on Equality) findings: 69%69\% of surveyed men actively champion women in day-to-day work; 64%64\% believe men and women are equally willing to discuss gender equality. These figures illustrate broad engagement in gender-equality efforts (Zalis, 2023).

  • Challenging prescriptions of masculinity: profeminists advocate expanding emotional ranges typically restricted to women; encourage closer relationships with women and men; reframe masculinity to include care, emotional openness, and non-dominant forms of power.

  • Aaronette White’s Penner study (2008) on Black men who identify as feminist shows feminism can enrich parenting, friendships, and self-identity.

  • First Men and Masculinity Conference held in 19751975 in Tennessee; ongoing in collaboration with the American Men’s Studies Association.

  • Prototypes discussed in this chapter: NOMAS, ACT UP, and various antiviolence groups.

NOMAS (National Organization for Men Against Sexism)

  • One of the most feminist organizations in profeminist circles.

  • Self-description: activist organization that is pro-feminist, gay-affirmative, anti-racist, anti-classist, dedicated to enhancing men’s lives and justice across multiple social issues (age, religion, physical abilities).

  • Activities: sponsor workshops to expand men’s awareness of how restrictive masculinities hinder emotional development; guide men toward more expressive lives.

  • Safe testing grounds for talking about feelings, needs, and problems in male-only spaces.

  • Four priorities discussed at NOMAS conferences:

    • Recognizing and resisting the power and privilege that accompany being men.

    • Ending violence against women by analyzing how cultural codes for masculinity legitimize such violence.

    • Ending anti-LGBTQ+ attitudes and the resulting violence against gay and trans people.

    • Developing men’s studies at colleges and universities.

  • In NOMAS, discussion groups mirror consciousness-raising models used by second-wave feminism to encourage open talk about societal expectations and personal impacts.

  • Trait-orous identities and active resistance: NOMAS members often enact traitorous identities to challenge everyday homophobia, sexism, and devaluation of women, and engage in anti-violence advocacy.

  • Fathering Task Group and the newsletter Brother: a vehicle for promoting strong, supportive ties among men and addressing fathering issues.

ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power)

  • Global grassroots movement founded in 19871987 in New York during the height of the AIDS crisis.

  • Tactics: leaderless, democratic structure; direct action politics; high-visibility demonstrations targeting Wall Street, the NYSE, pharmaceutical companies, and public officials.

  • Goals:

    • Advocate for medical treatment and research on HIV/AIDS.

    • Change social attitudes and policy toward populations disproportionately affected by HIV/AIDS, including gay men.

  • Impact: influenced health policy, public attitudes toward gay men, and cultural expectations of men; documented in the film "How to Survive a Plague" (2012).

  • Broader involvement: while primarily led by White, middle-class men, ACT UP also included women, trans, and gender-nonconforming participants who played significant roles (e.g., actions at Shea Stadium in 1988).

  • Tactics and legacy: drew on civil rights and feminist movements’ tactics to mobilize and empower communities affected by HIV/AIDS.

Exploring Gendered Lives: The Scariest Phrase and Related Ideas

  • “Be a man” is described as a scariest phrase for boys/men, signaling pressures to suppress emotions.

  • Joe Ehrmann (Coach for America) argues that boys are taught early to separate heart from head, leading to emotional repression and isolation; advocates for strategic masculinity rooted in relationships and causes beyond self.

  • Ehrmann identifies three traditional manhood criteria: athletic ability, sexual conquest, and economic success; these drive constant competition and social isolation.

  • Strategic masculinity is defined as forming deep relationships with others and pursuing a meaningful cause beyond personal success.

  • Take a Stand prompts in this section invite reflection on false masculinity on campuses and strategies to challenge it.

The Scaled Role of Men in History and Education: Academic Programs

  • MEN’S Studies: Courses on men and masculinity exist in some universities; the American Men’s Studies Association founded in 19911991.

  • Talk about the role of men’s studies: reflect on cultural changes, trends affecting men, why men have higher suicide rates, and how shifts in women’s identities/careers intersect with men’s identities.

  • Equimundo: Center for Masculinities and Social Justice reports that about half of American men do not support policies advancing women’s equality, illustrating ongoing gender dynamics in policy attitudes.

  • Take a Stand prompts ask readers to consider the value of men’s studies in college contexts.

Masculinist (Conservative) Men's Groups

  • Masculinist/Promasculine groups argue that women and men are fundamentally different and should have different roles, with sex/gender viewed as binary.

  • They contend men are discriminated against and need to reclaim “alpha” status; views on gay rights are typically not central and may be ignored or denounced by many masculinist groups.

  • Prominent masculinist factions include:

    • Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs): claim feminism oppresses men and seek to restore traditional gender roles and privileges (e.g., A Voice for Men, MALE, MR, Inc.; NOM; National Coalition for Free Men; The National Organization of Men; incels; The Red Pill).

    • Free Men: emphasize the provider role as primary masculine burden; oppose affirmative action and alimony/child support; critique feminists as “soft” or unmanly; seek to restore male prerogatives in the family.

  • Incels (involuntary celibates): online communities that evolved from support networks to forums with misogynist content; some incels advocate violence against women; linked to violent acts and terrorism in some cases.

  • Fathers’ rights groups: argue that men are disadvantaged in custody and divorce proceedings; seek 50/50 custody and constitutional recognition of paternal rights; examples include Fathers 4 Justice in England and various U.S. groups (American Coalition for Fathers, Fathers and Families, Children and Dads Against Discrimination).

  • Distinctions between profeminist fathers and masculinist fathers’ rights groups:

    • Profeminist advocates link custody disparities to broader gender equality and sexism; seek systemic change rather than only custody outcomes.

    • Masculinist groups foreground custody as central and often deny broader gender dynamics in culture that fuel disparities.

  • Core questions raised by Fathers’ rights groups:

    • Can fathers love their children as much as mothers?

    • Is it sex discrimination to give mothers custody advantages? (The text notes most groups acknowledge context: profeminist arguments emphasize systemic sexism; masculinist groups may focus on custody disparities as evidence of bias.)

Free Men and Mythopoetic Movements

  • Free Men (promasculine): emphasize traditional masculine virtues like toughness, self-reliance; view feminists as undermining male identity; link to pre-industrial family structures and male leadership.

  • Mythopoetic movement (Robert Bly): sought personal growth through all-male gatherings; emphasized reclaiming historical masculine ties to nature and myth, focusing on father hunger and bonding rituals (e.g., nature retreats, drumming, poetry, and mythic storytelling).

  • Core critiques of mythopoetics:

    • Critics argue they avoid addressing gender inequality and may sustain inequity by focusing on personal growth without political action.

    • The movement has been described as elitist (predominantly White and middle class) and with limited political agenda.

  • Current status: many mythopoetic groups have declined in numbers; their influence is seen more in shaping conversations about male longing for wholeness and paternal connection.

Rites of Manhood and Black Male Mentoring

  • Rites of Passage Academy (related to 100 Black Men of South Metro Atlanta): mentoring program for Black boys in grades 8–12; focuses on community leadership, college preparedness, health and wellness, nature exploration, financial literacy, and more.

  • Emphasis on mentoring as a means to prepare young men for future life and to affirm a positive model of manhood beyond single-issue movements.

  • The broader concept of rites of passage connects to traditional cultures where manhood is marked by guided transition and mentoring by older men.

  • Take a Stand prompt invites reflection on cultural rites and their reflection of gender roles.

Religious and Grassroots Movements for Men

  • Promise Keepers (Christian men’s movement): founded by Bill McCartney and Dave Wardell (1990–1991) with rapidly growing events (e.g., 1991 Stand in the Gap; 1994 Seven Sites with >278,000278,000 attendees).

  • Goals and rhetoric:

    • Emphasize leadership of husbands/fathers as aligned with religious doctrines of marriage and family.

    • Members take seven promises reflecting commitments to family, faith, and community.

  • Criticisms:

    • Exclusion of women from meetings; debates over whether husbands leading wives reflects inequality.

    • Perceived as a conservative political movement rather than purely spiritual or social.

    • Racial inclusivity attempts in leadership but ongoing critiques regarding LGBTQ+ exclusion and homophobia.

  • Peak and decline: peak in 19971997 with large budgets and mass rallies; revenue in 20232023 around 1.07 million1.07\text{ million}, indicating membership decline.

  • Impact: some former PK participants have started grassroots men’s ministries in churches; debates about the balance between religious leadership and gender equality.

  • 100 Black Men of America and Promise Keepers are contrasted as two strands of male leadership traditions—one focusing on mentoring and community uplift, the other on religious-spiritutal leadership within heterosexual marriage norms.

Million Man March and Million More Movement

  • Million Man March (Fall 1995): led by Louis Farrakhan and the Nation of Islam; goal to bring Black men to Washington, D.C. to seek spiritual transformation, political action (voting), and commitment to family and church.

  • Spike Lee’s Get on the Bus (1997) documents the march; the event was framed as a powerful moment of male solidarity and reform.

  • Critiques from Black intellectuals (e.g., Glenn Loury) argued the march risked turning anger into racialized activism and could be anti-feminist or anti-gay; concerns about the movement’s gender politics.

  • Millions More Movement (2005): an evolution from a single march to a broader ongoing movement focused on educational, political, spiritual, social, and economic development; intended to be inclusive of all sexes, races, and sexualities while maintaining a focus on racial disparities.

  • Justice or Else Rally (2015): Farrakhan’s event signaling a continuation of the movement and turnover to new leadership and generations.

  • Contemporary linkage to #BlackLivesMatter: the Movement’s evolution demonstrates fluidity and intersectionality across race, gender, and sexual orientation, with the modern Black Lives Matter movement taking a more profeminist stance.

Contemporary Men's Movements

  • The adequacy and relevance of the traditional masculine script in modern America are questioned in light of economic and social changes since 2008 (Great Recession) and the 2020 pandemic.

  • Economic shifts: job losses during the 2008 recession and the pandemic have reduced the traditional payer identity for men; this affects self-esteem and male identities tied to income.

  • Family law: U.S. family laws have not kept pace with changing family dynamics, contributing to sustained debates about fathers’ rights and gender roles in parenting.

  • Internet-enabled connections: online communities enable masculinist movements to organize and propagate ideas, sometimes with vitriolic content; anonymity facilitates coordinated conflict and harassment (e.g., A Voice for Men).

  • Notable online figures and platforms: Paul Elam (A Voice for Men) and the broader manosphere provide spaces where misogynistic rhetoric can spread.

  • Contemporary examples and tensions illustrate a shift from single-issue activism to more complex debates about masculine identity, gender equality, and power in the digital age.

Misogyny and Toxic Masculinity in Contemporary Discourse

  • Andrew Tate: described as a leading figure in online misogyny and the so-called "king of toxic masculinity"; a self-proclaimed misogynist with a large global following on platforms like X/Twitter and formerly banned on multiple platforms due to violent and misogynistic content.

  • Tate’s narrative frames success and masculinity around domination, wealth, and control, including comments that blame women for sexual assaults; his rhetoric is cited as an example of the online manosphere’s influence.

  • The term misogyny is distinguished from sexism by its focus on hatred of women as a group, with ideas embedded in culture; Tate’s rise underscores how misogyny can thrive online and attract large audiences even amid platform bans.

  • The manosphere: a network of online communities that often use dehumanizing language toward women (e.g., calling women "whores" or "social cancers").

  • Questions for reflection: Should individuals who espouse hatred of women and advocate violence toward women have protection for free speech? What are the limits of free expression when it causes real-world harm?

  • Contemporary note: misogyny is discussed as a cultural phenomenon that intersects with political ideology, economic insecurity, and online dissemination.

The Good Men Project (GMP)

  • Tom Matlack’s Good Men Project (founded by Matlack, Houghton, and Bean): a multifaceted initiative aimed at stimulating a national conversation about what it means to be a good man today.

  • Book and media: The Good Men Project (2009) is a collection of essays by diverse men (Black/White, gay/straight, wealthy/poor) sharing watershed moments and turning points in life.

  • The companion DVD (2009) features discussions on fathering, infidelity, addiction, and moral crises; intended to model how men talk about emotion through storytelling rather than direct emotion talk.

  • Core idea: there is no single definition of a "good man"; reading diverse stories helps men articulate their own values and paths.

  • Good Men Foundation (with GMP) funds programs for at-risk boys; the GMP online magazine (launched in 2010) features diverse topics including sex, relationships, sports, fatherhood, and aging; aims to counter stereotypical male images with more nuanced portrayals of manhood.

  • Reach and impact: GMP claims to reach a broad audience, including a substantial proportion of female readers seeking perspectives on male experiences; emphasizes community and dialogue over prescriptive guidance.

  • Motto: "If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation" signals a dialogic, non-prescriptive approach to redefining masculinity.

  • Take a Stand: How would you define a "good man"? (Prompts readers to engage in self-definition rather than accepting cultural prescriptions.)

Summary and Reflections

  • The landscape of men’s movements is diverse and often contradictory, ranging from profeminist efforts aimed at gender equality to masculinist efforts aimed at preserving or regaining traditional male privileges.

  • Some groups collaborate with feminist movements, while others oppose or reject feminism altogether.

  • Across these movements, common threads include attempts to redefine masculinity, critique traditional gender codes, and address violence, emotions, and relationships.

  • The activism of profeminist groups typically emphasizes ending violence against women, promoting LGBTQ+ rights, and expanding men’s emotional and relational capacities; their work spans education, safe spaces for men, and public discussion.

  • Masculinist groups emphasize preserving or reclaiming traditional male roles (provider, leader) and often challenge feminist gains; some subgroups promote harmful ideologies (e.g., misogyny, incel culture).

  • The evolution of movements is closely tied to broader social changes (economic shifts, family law, online culture, intersectionality of race and gender).

  • Ethical and practical implications: these movements shape policies, education, and interpersonal dynamics; debates about gender equality, freedom of expression, violence prevention, and inclusivity remain central to understanding contemporary masculinity.

Key Terms

  • ACT UP

  • father hunger

  • men’s rights activists

  • Million Man March

  • misogyny

  • mythopoetic movement

  • NOMAS

  • Fathers 4 Justice

  • Free Men

  • incel

  • male feminists

  • traitorous identity

  • masculinist

  • Walk a Mile in Her Shoes

  • Promise Keepers

  • Mentors in Violence Prevention (MVP)

  • White Ribbon Campaign (WRC)

Take a Stand: Review Questions and Prompts

  • What role should men play in ending gendered violence, and how do profeminist and masculinist movements approach this question differently?

  • How do traitorous identities function as tools for change within profeminist groups?

  • In what ways have online movements (the manosphere, incels, and figures like Andrew Tate) shaped contemporary understandings of masculinity and gender relations?

  • How can universities balance academic inquiry into men and masculinity with concerns about exclusion or extremism?

  • Reflect on your own culture’s rites of passage and how they reflect gender expectations; what changes might support healthier models of masculinity?