"Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?" Summary

Connie's Character and Appearance

  • Connie is 15 years old.
  • She has a habit of giggling nervously and constantly checking her appearance in mirrors or other people's faces to ensure she looks alright.
  • Her mother frequently scolds her for her self-absorption and obsession with her looks, questioning her identity and perceived beauty.
  • Connie is aware of her attractiveness and places significant value on it.
  • She lives with her mother, father, and older sister, June.
  • June is 24 years old and works as a secretary at Connie's high school.
  • June is described as plain, chunky, and steady, and is often praised by Connie's mother and aunts, which Connie resents.
  • Connie feels that June excels at tasks and responsibilities that she cannot manage, as her mind is preoccupied with "trashy daydreams."
  • Connie's father is mostly absent and uninvolved in their lives, primarily focused on work, meals, and reading the newspaper.
  • Connie expresses strong negative feelings towards her mother, sometimes wishing for her death and her own to escape the situation.
  • Connie's voice is described as high, breathless, and amused, giving the impression that her words are somewhat artificial.

Connie's Social Life and Escapism

  • June's regular outings with her equally plain and steady girlfriends provide Connie with the freedom to socialize without her mother's interference.
  • Connie and her friends are driven to a shopping plaza in town, where they spend time walking through stores, going to movies, or simply loitering.
  • Their attire typically consists of shorts and flat ballerina slippers, adorned with charm bracelets that jingle as they move.
  • They engage in secretive whispers and laughter, often directed at people they find amusing or interesting.
  • Connie's long, dark blond hair is a striking feature that attracts attention.
  • She styles her hair in a way that is both youthful and sophisticated.
  • Connie presents herself differently depending on her location—one way at home and another in social settings.
  • Her walk varies from childlike and bouncy to a more languid and seductive gait.
  • Her mouth is usually pale and smirking but becomes bright and pink when she goes out.
  • Her laugh is cynical and drawling at home but high-pitched and nervous elsewhere, resembling the jingling of her charm bracelet.
  • Occasionally, they go shopping or see a movie, but sometimes they venture across the highway to a drive-in restaurant popular among older teenagers.
  • The restaurant is shaped like a large bottle and features a revolving figure of a grinning boy holding a hamburger.
  • One night, they daringly cross the highway and are immediately invited over by a boy from their high school, whom they dismiss.
  • They navigate through the maze of parked and cruising cars towards the brightly lit restaurant.
  • The restaurant is described as a sacred place that offers them the haven and blessings they crave.
  • They sit at the counter, legs crossed at the ankles, shoulders tense with excitement, and immerse themselves in the music.
  • The music is a constant backdrop, providing a sense of comfort and reliability.

Encounters and Developing Feelings

  • A boy named Eddie approaches them and engages in conversation. He asks Connie if she wants something to eat. She accepts and arranges to meet her friend later.
  • As Connie walks to Eddie's car, she notices a boy with shaggy black hair in a gold convertible staring at her.
  • The boy grins, wags a finger, and says, "Gonna get you, baby."
  • Connie spends three hours with Eddie. They eat hamburgers and drink Cokes at the restaurant and then go to an alley.
  • When Eddie drops her off, she sees her friend talking to a boy. The girls exchange smiles, and Connie asks about the movie, to which her friend replies, "You should know."
  • Connie reflects on the darkened shopping plaza and the circling cars at the drive-in restaurant.
  • She can no longer hear the music from that distance.
  • The next morning, June asks about the movie, and Connie responds with a dismissive, "So-so."
  • Connie goes out several times a week with that girl and occasionally another girl and spends the rest of her time dreaming about boys.
  • All the boys become a single, faceless idea associated with the music and the humid night air of July.
  • Connie's mother frequently interrupts her daydreams, bringing her back to reality.

Family Dynamics and Tensions

  • Connie distances herself from girls her mother disapproves of, and her mother naively believes her.
  • Connie considers her mother simple-minded and feels guilty for deceiving her.
  • Her mother spends her time gossiping on the phone with her sisters, complaining about each other.
  • June is always praised, while Connie is criticized.
  • Connie believes her mother favors her because of her beauty, but they maintain a facade of frustration and exasperation with each other.
  • Occasionally, they share moments of camaraderie over coffee, but their relationship is often disrupted by petty annoyances.

Isolation and Foreboding

  • One Sunday, Connie skips church and washes her hair to let it dry in the sun.
  • Her parents and sister attend a barbecue at an aunt's house, but Connie declines.
  • Her mother makes a snide remark before leaving.
  • Connie sits in the sun, daydreaming about the previous night with the boy.
  • She romanticizes the experience, contrasting it with what June might imagine.
  • When she opens her eyes, she feels disoriented and detached from her surroundings.
  • Her house looks small and unfamiliar.
  • She seeks refuge inside and turns on the radio to escape the silence.
  • She listens to XYZ Sunday Jamboree, singing along to the songs and enjoying the music.
  • She feels a sense of joy emanating from the music, filling the room.
  • A car approaches, startling her because it is too early for her father's return.
  • The car is an unfamiliar gold jalopy.
  • Connie's heart races, and she frantically checks her appearance before approaching the door.
  • A car stops at the side door. As Connie approaches the door, she sees two boys in the car.
  • She recognizes the driver as the boy from the restaurant with shaggy, black hair. He grins at her and asks if he's late.

The Encounter with Arnold Friend

  • Connie responds with hostility and feigns ignorance.
  • Arnold Friend persists, inviting her for a ride and complimenting her appearance.
  • Connie remains skeptical and questions his identity.
  • Arnold Friend introduces his friend, Ellie Oscar, who is holding a transistor radio playing the same music as inside Connie's house.
  • Connie acknowledges the radio program and its host, Bobby King.
  • Arnold Friend entices Connie with the music and claims it knows where the action is.
  • Connie blushes, unsure if she likes him or not.
  • She asks about the writing on his car.
  • Arnold Friend carefully opens the car door and introduces himself. His name, ARNOLD FRIEND, is written on the side of the car with a drawing of a grinning face wearing sunglasses.
  • He introduces Ellie Oscar as shy.
  • Arnold Friend explains that the numbers 33, 19, and 17 on the car are a secret code.
  • Connie is not impressed.
  • The car has been damaged, and the phrase DONE BY CRAZY WOMAN DRIVER is written around it.
  • Connie laughs, pleasing Arnold Friend.
  • Arnold Friend invites Connie to see more of the car, but she refuses.
  • He persists in asking her to go for a ride.
  • Connie claims she has things to do.
  • Arnold Friend laughs, leans against the car, and comments on her attire.
  • He is dressed in tight jeans, scuffed boots, a belt, and a soiled white shirt.
  • He appears muscular and as if he does hard work.
  • His face is familiar, with a long, hawklike nose.
  • Arnold Friend claims Connie is lying and that she knows this day is meant for a ride with him.
  • Connie asks how he knows her name.
  • Arnold Friend says he knows her and remembers her from the restaurant.
  • He claims he and Ellie came specifically for her.
  • He suggests Ellie can sit in the back.
  • Connie asks where they are going.
  • Arnold Friend removes his sunglasses, revealing pale skin around his eyes.
  • His eyes are like chips of broken glass.
  • He smiles, as if the idea of a ride is new to him, then Connie states it is just a ride.
  • Connie denies telling him her name.
  • Arnold Friend insists he knows her name and everything about her.
  • He claims to know her parents and sister are gone and where they are going to be gone, and who she was with last night, and her best girl’s name.
  • Arnold Friend speaks softly and reassuringly.
  • Ellie turns up the volume on the radio.
  • Arnold Friend dismisses Ellie.
  • Connie asks how he knows all that information.
  • Arnold Friend lists the names of several kids she knows.
  • Connie suggests he is not from around here.
  • Arnold Friend insists she has seen him before but does not remember.
  • Connie doubts she would forget him.
  • Arnold Friend is pleased and begins tapping his fists to the music.
  • Connie examines the car and the expression MAN THE FLYING SAUCERS, an outdated saying.
  • Arnold Friend asks what she is thinking about and if she is worried about her hair.
  • Connie denies it.
  • Arnold Friend asks if she thinks he cannot drive well.
  • He says she is a hard girl to handle and asks if she knows he is her friend and saw him put his sign in the air when she walked by.
  • Arnold Friend draws an X in the air.
  • Connie closes the screen door and stares at Arnold Friend.
  • He stands stiffly relaxed with one hand on the door handle.
  • She recognizes his clothes, smile, and mannerisms, but they do not come together.
  • Connie asks how old he is.
  • His smile fades. She realizes he is older than a kid closer to thirty.
  • Her heart begins to pound faster.
  • Arnold Friend says he is her own age or maybe a couple of years older, eighteen.
  • He grins, and the lines appear at the corners of his mouth.
  • His teeth are big and white, and his lashes are thick and black.
  • Arnold Friend seems embarrassed and looks over at Ellie.
  • He describes Ellie as crazy, a nut, and a real character.
  • Ellie is still listening to the music, his sunglasses concealing his thoughts.
  • He is wearing an unbuttoned orange shirt, revealing his pale, bluish chest.
  • His collar is turned up around his chin.
  • Connie describes Ellie as strange.
  • Arnold Friend repeats her words to Ellie and pounds on the car to get his attention.
  • Ellie turns around, and Connie is shocked to see that he is not a kid either—he looks like a forty-year-old baby.
  • Connie feels dizzy and stares at him, waiting for something to change.
  • Ellie’s lips move with the words of the music.
  • Connie faintly suggests that they should leave.
  • Arnold Friend questions why. He reminds her that it is Sunday and they came to take her for a ride.
  • He has the voice of the man on the radio.
  • Arnold Friend says that regardless of who she was with last night and today, she is with him.
  • He tells her to step outside.
  • Connie says she has things to do.
  • Arnold Friend insists they are not leaving until she comes with them.
  • Connie refuses.
  • Arnold Friend warns her not to fool around.
  • He puts his sunglasses on top of his head, revealing what seems like a wig.
  • Connie feels dizzy and fearful. She believes he drove up the driveway but came from nowhere else and belongs nowhere.
  • Everything about him and the music seems only half real.
  • Connie threatens to call the police if her father comes.
  • Arnold Friend says he is at a barbecue.
  • Arnold Friend knows that her parents are at Aunt Tille's, and offers disturbing details about their activities, e.g. sister in a blue dress and high heels, and mother is helping some fat woman with the corn.
  • Connie cries out when he mentions a fat woman.
  • Arnold Friend tells her that he likes her the way she is, and smiles at her sleepily.
  • Arnold Friend tells her what she's going to do: come out the door, sit up front with him, and assures her that he's her lover.
  • Connie denies that he is her lover.
  • Arnold Friend insists that he is her lover and knows everything about her: it is real nice and asks that she could not ask for anyone more polite.
  • Then Connie backs away from the door, covering her ears and muttering that people don't talk like that.
  • Arnold Friend pauses, almost falls, but catches his balance by grabbing a porch post.
  • Connie says that she is going to call the police.
  • Arnold Friend then begins to smile from inside of a mask, a mask that runs out as if he has forgotten his throat.
  • Tells her he is not coming in there but she is coming out here.
  • Connie rushes forward and tries to lock the door.
  • Arnold Friend says to Connie that the door is just a screen door, just nothing, and he can get through everything, especially Arnold Friend.
  • Then Arnold Friend offers Connie a situation to think about, in which if the place got lit up with fire, she would come running to him.
  • He incorporates words from a song from last year about a girl running into her boyfriend's arms; Connie stands barefoot on the linoleum floor, staring at him.
  • Connie asks what he wants and he responds that it's her.
  • Her father's coming back and she washed her hair for him.
  • He then goes on to say that it was him she washed her ahir for.
  • Ellie asks if he should pull out the phone.
  • Arnold Friend tells him to shut his mouth because this isn’t his business.
  • He doesn't have plans to go into the house where he doesn't belong but just waits for her to comes out to him.
  • Connie repeats that he is crazy and backs away from the door so he cant come in.
  • Arnold Friend says if she comes out he will take her to a nice ride, but if she doesn't all her people will be hurt.
  • Ellie is told to not mind them, that it all belongs to them.
  • Arnold Friend invokes an old women down the road (that he claims she got against) to influence Connie to surrender.
  • But promises he will not make it last long; promises she will like him soon after because it's all over for her there.
  • Then she turns and runs into the back room and picks up the phone (because he mentions harm to her family).
  • As does because she feels that all sense is lost.
  • She kicks the phone away from her after she screamed in the phone.
  • In a gentle-loud voice, Arnold Friend says that there is no place to run or remember for Connie now.
  • Friend tells her that where she is at is only cardboard box that he can knock down any time.
  • Arnold Friend said that he'd have his arms tight around her so she wouldn't need to try to get away, and that then he'd show her the sensation/reality of love.
  • A metaphor of solidity used to describe her emotions.
  • Ellie told to put that away
  • Not angry, incantation kindly
    *Corn and hotdogs with burst over an outdoor fire; they don't know anything about her, have never did, honey, etc etc…. all while the words are not angry, but an incantation.
  • He opened his arms and let his elbows point in, and wrists limp, so he wouldn't make her self conscious.
  • She watches herself push the door pen. And she looks safe in the other doorway, and observes herself moving into the sunlit reaches for Arnold Friend.