10-Kinship
Kinship & Close Relationships
Instructor: Dr. Julia Marshall
Date: November 7th, 2025
Housekeeping
Reminder of a review session.
Mention of the Marshall et al. paper in Nature Human Behavior; students are not responsible for it.
Understanding Social Relationships in Children
Do Children Distinguish Between Different Social Relationships?
Inquiry into children’s ability to distinguish between types of social relationships.
Children’s Understanding of Kinship as a Social Category (Spokes & Spelke, 2016)
Key Investigations:
Study 1: Focus on children’s expectations regarding kinship.
Participants: Children aged 3 to 5 years.
Questions for Children:
For Cara’s Sister:
Which person has the same last name as Cara?
Which person has Cara never seen before?
For Cara’s Friend:
Which person has Cara played with many times?
Which person does Cara not know much about?
Scenarios Explored:
Children evaluated social relationships through questions about familiarity and kinship.
Findings from Spokes & Spelke (2016)
Goal: Examine how children aged 3 to 5 understand and reason about kinship relations compared to friendship relations.
Design:
Conceptual questions (e.g., “Who has the same grandmother?”).
Behavioral prediction questions (e.g., “Who would share a treat with whom?”).
Context included both conceptual and behavioral predictions through a storytelling method.
Results:
3- and 4-year-olds did not reliably distinguish between kin and friends.
Conclusion:
Children's explicit understanding of kinship emerges gradually across preschool years.
3- and 4-year-olds all understand friend vs. stranger, 3-year-olds struggle with last name question in kin vs. stranger, both 3- and 4-year-olds struggle with kin vs. friend
Friendship Dynamics in Children
Secret Sharing as an Inferrence of Friendship (Liberman & Shaw, 2018)
Study Context:
Investigated how children infer friendship through secret sharing.
Participants: Children from ages 3 to 12 (N = 452).
Design: Five studies asking if sharing a secret indicates friendship.
Secret vs. cookie, secret vs. fact etc.
Findings:
3 to 5-year-olds are at chance of secret vs. cookie, 6-8 above chance 9-12 even higher
Similar pattern for secret vs. fact (protracted development)
By age 6, children began to expect friendships to form when secrets were shared.
Children younger than 6 do not infer friendship from secret sharing but recognize that friends share secrets.
Secret sharing was perceived as a stronger indicator of friendship than sharing physical objects or facts.
Conclusion:
Over middle childhood kids begin to understand the social world in unique and more nuanced way
Children understand the social significance of secrets in forming friendships.
Children’s Use of Partial Resources to Indicate Friendships (Liberman & Shaw, 2018)
Study Focus:
Whether children infer social relationships (friendship) based on resource distribution.
Design: Children aged 4 to 9 observed unequal distributions of resources:
Partial Procedure: Intentionally favoring one child.
Impartial Procedure: Randomized distribution (using a die).
Findings:
Children thought that those who partial-distributed resources were better friends with the favored child.
Younger children (4-6) also inferred friendship from impartial distributions.
Older children (7-9) differentiated between intentional and random distributions concerning friendship.
Conclusion:
Children’s understanding of resource distribution evolves with age, enabling them to discern between friendship cues and random acts.
Concepts of Family and Intimacy
Cues to Infer Kinship Relationships
Discussion Prompt:
During observations, what cues do children utilize to determine familial relationships?
Early Concepts of Intimacy: Saliva Sharing (Thomas et al., 2022)
Study Details:
Children aged 5 to 7 explored the concept of saliva sharing to infer close relationships.
Methodology: Presented scenarios involving food sharing and toy sharing.
Examples Escaped with Scenarios:
Saliva Sharing: Sharing ice cream lick between a girl and either her sister or friend.
Inquiry: Who did she share with?
Food Sharing: Cookies distributed similarly.
Non-Divisible Toys: Involvement of scooters and the implications of sharing them.
Divisible Toys: Legos were also tested under similar sharing conditions.
Findings on Saliva Sharing and Resource Sharing
Probability of Choosing Family:
Various probabilities observed concerning sharing food types and toys between siblings and friends.
Significance:
Findings resonate with Marshall et al. results concerning unmeasured forms of help indicating close relationships.
Summary of Key Findings
Friendship and Relationship Distinctions:
Children identify differences between kin and friends around age 4, with an increased sophistication in understanding friendship around ages 6-7.
Recognition that mutual sharing (both secrets and resources) signifies friendship.
Early understanding of kinship relationships identified through very young children's responses about sharing behaviors.
Final Reminders
All students are encouraged to study diligently and come prepared.
**Next session starts at *11:00 am.* Bring writing tools (pen/pencil) for notes during the session.