10-Kinship

Kinship & Close Relationships

  • Instructor: Dr. Julia Marshall

  • Date: November 7th, 2025

Housekeeping

  • Reminder of a review session.

  • Mention of the Marshall et al. paper in Nature Human Behavior; students are not responsible for it.

Understanding Social Relationships in Children

Do Children Distinguish Between Different Social Relationships?

  • Inquiry into children’s ability to distinguish between types of social relationships.

Children’s Understanding of Kinship as a Social Category (Spokes & Spelke, 2016)

  • Key Investigations:

    • Study 1: Focus on children’s expectations regarding kinship.

    • Participants: Children aged 3 to 5 years.

    • Questions for Children:

      • For Cara’s Sister:

      • Which person has the same last name as Cara?

      • Which person has Cara never seen before?

      • For Cara’s Friend:

      • Which person has Cara played with many times?

      • Which person does Cara not know much about?

    • Scenarios Explored:

      • Children evaluated social relationships through questions about familiarity and kinship.

Findings from Spokes & Spelke (2016)

  • Goal: Examine how children aged 3 to 5 understand and reason about kinship relations compared to friendship relations.

  • Design:

    • Conceptual questions (e.g., “Who has the same grandmother?”).

    • Behavioral prediction questions (e.g., “Who would share a treat with whom?”).

    • Context included both conceptual and behavioral predictions through a storytelling method.

  • Results:

    • 3- and 4-year-olds did not reliably distinguish between kin and friends.

    • Conclusion:

      • Children's explicit understanding of kinship emerges gradually across preschool years.

      • 3- and 4-year-olds all understand friend vs. stranger, 3-year-olds struggle with last name question in kin vs. stranger, both 3- and 4-year-olds struggle with kin vs. friend

Friendship Dynamics in Children

Secret Sharing as an Inferrence of Friendship (Liberman & Shaw, 2018)

  • Study Context:

    • Investigated how children infer friendship through secret sharing.

    • Participants: Children from ages 3 to 12 (N = 452).

    • Design: Five studies asking if sharing a secret indicates friendship.

    • Secret vs. cookie, secret vs. fact etc.

  • Findings:

    • 3 to 5-year-olds are at chance of secret vs. cookie, 6-8 above chance 9-12 even higher

      • Similar pattern for secret vs. fact (protracted development)

    • By age 6, children began to expect friendships to form when secrets were shared.

    • Children younger than 6 do not infer friendship from secret sharing but recognize that friends share secrets.

    • Secret sharing was perceived as a stronger indicator of friendship than sharing physical objects or facts.

    • Conclusion:

      • Over middle childhood kids begin to understand the social world in unique and more nuanced way

      • Children understand the social significance of secrets in forming friendships.

Children’s Use of Partial Resources to Indicate Friendships (Liberman & Shaw, 2018)

  • Study Focus:

    • Whether children infer social relationships (friendship) based on resource distribution.

    • Design: Children aged 4 to 9 observed unequal distributions of resources:

      • Partial Procedure: Intentionally favoring one child.

      • Impartial Procedure: Randomized distribution (using a die).

  • Findings:

    • Children thought that those who partial-distributed resources were better friends with the favored child.

    • Younger children (4-6) also inferred friendship from impartial distributions.

    • Older children (7-9) differentiated between intentional and random distributions concerning friendship.

    • Conclusion:

      • Children’s understanding of resource distribution evolves with age, enabling them to discern between friendship cues and random acts.

Concepts of Family and Intimacy

Cues to Infer Kinship Relationships

  • Discussion Prompt:

    • During observations, what cues do children utilize to determine familial relationships?

Early Concepts of Intimacy: Saliva Sharing (Thomas et al., 2022)

  • Study Details:

    • Children aged 5 to 7 explored the concept of saliva sharing to infer close relationships.

    • Methodology: Presented scenarios involving food sharing and toy sharing.

  • Examples Escaped with Scenarios:

    • Saliva Sharing: Sharing ice cream lick between a girl and either her sister or friend.

      • Inquiry: Who did she share with?

    • Food Sharing: Cookies distributed similarly.

    • Non-Divisible Toys: Involvement of scooters and the implications of sharing them.

    • Divisible Toys: Legos were also tested under similar sharing conditions.

Findings on Saliva Sharing and Resource Sharing

  • Probability of Choosing Family:

    • Various probabilities observed concerning sharing food types and toys between siblings and friends.

  • Significance:

    • Findings resonate with Marshall et al. results concerning unmeasured forms of help indicating close relationships.

Summary of Key Findings

  • Friendship and Relationship Distinctions:

    • Children identify differences between kin and friends around age 4, with an increased sophistication in understanding friendship around ages 6-7.

    • Recognition that mutual sharing (both secrets and resources) signifies friendship.

    • Early understanding of kinship relationships identified through very young children's responses about sharing behaviors.

Final Reminders

  • All students are encouraged to study diligently and come prepared.

  • **Next session starts at *11:00 am.* Bring writing tools (pen/pencil) for notes during the session.