Sociology Monday 2/26

Understanding the Concept of the Self

  • The self, or social self, refers to the distinct ways individuals perceive themselves through their interactions within various cultures and social settings.

  • Everyone possesses multiple facets of the social self, influenced by contexts such as friendships, family, and work environments.

Examples of Social Selves

  • Many people have different friendship groups that may not overlap.

    • Example: A person might have friends from a dormitory and another group from a sorority.

  • Changes in behavior and self-perception can occur when in different social groups or settings.

    • A work persona can differ significantly from one's personal self.

    • Individuals may put on a 'fake work smile' or alter their behavior to fit workplace culture.

Interaction and Self-Perception

  • Self-perception is largely developed through social interactions.

  • People learn to see themselves through how they believe others see them, a process referred to by George Herbert Mead as "taking the role of the other."

  • This reflexive process allows individuals to become aware of their social identities depending on the context.

Importance of Context

  • The way one behaves can vary greatly depending on who they are with:

    • Formality and behavior expectations shift when interacting with family versus friends or colleagues.

    • An individual might use inappropriate language or jokes in one setting but not in another, particularly around authority figures or older relatives.

Development of Social Selves Through Life Stages

  • Socialization begins from infancy, with children mimicking adults shortly after birth.

  • As children grow, their understanding of social roles expands, highlighting the influence of significant others (specific people who shape one's understanding of social expectations).

Differences Across Age Groups

  • Young children (e.g., two-year-olds) display rudimentary understanding of rules with a strong attachment to one significant figure (like a parent or caregiver).

  • As they grow (around six years old), children begin to understand more structured social contexts, leading to complex interactions with a broader group of significant others.

Generalized Other: A Broader Understanding

  • The generalized other concept emerges when children can abstractly understand roles and expectations, not tied to any single individual.

  • This capacity allows for adapting to new situations based on previous experiences, like knowing how to behave at a new school or workplace.

Symbolic Interactionism Theory

  • Symbolic Interactionism focuses on how meaning is created through social interactions.

  • Symbols (like words, gestures, and colors) are used to communicate and shape perceptions.

Meanings Assigned to Symbols

  • Different colors hold different meanings based on cultural contexts:

    • Example: Black can symbolize mourning in Western cultures or formality in dress codes.

    • Red can evoke anger or masculinity, while Pink represents softness and femininity.

Role of Symbols in Communication

  • The use of symbols helps individuals navigate social encounters:

    • Weddings: The choice of bridal color signifies tradition and societal expectations.

    • Job Interviews: Dress codes can signal social status and expectations for behavior during professional encounters.

Reflection and Self-Identity

  • The looking glass self, a concept by Erving Goffman, emphasizes the social performance we engage in when interacting with others.

  • Each interaction allows individuals to reflect on and refine their identities according to social feedback.

Active Reflection and Adaptation

  • Engaging with different social contexts leads to ongoing self-expression and identity development.

  • Awareness of how others perceive us guides how we present ourselves in future interactions.