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ACTIVE LISTENING

Introduction

  • Listening: One of the two receptive core communication skills along with reading (and observing).
    • Objective: Understand others, a skill essential for academic, professional, and social life.
  • Active Listening: The process of focusing one's senses on incoming signals, interpreting them objectively, deferring judgment, and fostering a good communication environment.
    • Aim: Achieve a clear, unbiased understanding of received messages.
    • Definition: Active listening is focused listening and observation with effective feedback to improve mutual understanding.
  • Purpose of Active Listening: More than just hearing; it encompasses understanding through various stimuli (sound, visual, haptic, olfactory, gustoric).
    • Key components: Understanding, building rapport, and trust.
  • Effective Listening: The act of obtaining as much information as possible through attentive listening, which is part of active listening.
    • Attributes include: Awareness of expectations, experiences, and biases; non-verbal cues; quick thinking; and asking the right questions.
  • Involvement of the Brain & Senses: Active listening uses both ears, the brain, and other sensory organs to attune to incoming messages.
  • Importance of Attitude: Remain open-minded and empathetic.

Reasons for Using Active Listening

Active listening enhances communication by allowing the communicator to:

  • Understand received messages.
  • Clarify ambiguous messages.
  • Learn and store information in long-term memory (“learning lasts a lifetime”).
  • Identify and respond to tacit (implied/implicit) messages.
  • Elicit more information from respondents.
  • Minimize or avoid unnecessary conflicts.
  • Ascertain others' mental processes (personalities, emotions, experiences, biases, mindset, worldview).
  • Interpret multiple received messages through practice.

How to Actively Listen

  • Deliberate Focus: Concentrate on understanding what is communicated, setting aside distractions.
  • Encouragement: Engage in questioning, reflecting, and paraphrasing to confirm understanding, acknowledging that perceptions may differ.
  • Immediate Action: Start using active listening techniques to enhance communication skills, learning, productivity, and relationships.

Characteristics of Active Listening

  • Spend more time listening than talking.
  • Allow the speaker to finish sentences and thoughts.
  • Be aware of personal biases while listening.
  • Ask open-ended questions that encourage discussion.
  • Focus on the content rather than planning your response.