2M THEORY: RESPONSIBLE PARENTHOOD AND HUMAN SEXUALITY

Responsible Parenthood

Is the will and ability of parents to respond to the needs and aspiration of the family and children

Responsible parenthood

the ability of a parent to detect the needs, happiness and desire of the children and helping them to become responsible and reasonable children

Marriage

The state of being united to a person as a spouse in a legal consensual and contractual relationship recognized and sanctioned by and dissolved only by the law

Family

a group of people related by blood, marriage, or adoption living together

Family

It is also known as a social institution with continuity that has a past, present, and future

Obligation

defined as a duty or commitment

Adoption

Taking another's child legally and bringing it up as one's own

Legitimate

Defined as confirming to the law or rules

Abortion

Is a deliberate termination of human pregnancy most often performed during the first 28 weeks of pregnancy

Contract

a formal and legally binding agreement, written or spoken agreement, especially one concerning employment, sales, or tenancy that intended to be enforceable by the law

Conjugal

Is relating to the married state or to married persons, and their relation

Family Planning

Allows individuals to achieve desired birth spacing, and family size, and contribute to improve health outcome for infants, children, women and families

Birth spacing

would help the mother recuperate and recover its health from the succession of pregnancies, and at the same time would lessen the stressors in the family, and be able to provide the adequate resources and attention that is needed for the children

Contraception

designed to prevent pregnancy; birth control

Legal Separation

Allows each partner to have time away from each other, while settling their marriage issue; The marriage partner might live separately from each other and can request similar orders to the divorce

Annulment

Is issued to a couple by the court in situations where the marriage was invalid because certain legal conditions were not met

Divorce

does not meet the grounds for marriage; breaks marriage contract and some of the legal ties marriage comes with; marriage has been acknowledged

1. authority of the solemnizing officer
2. valid marriage license
3. marriage ceremony

3 formal requisites for marriage

Informal Marriage requisites

it’s more on the legal capacity of the contracting parties who must be a male and a female and a freely given concept in the presence of the solemnizing officer

The mayor, or the incumbent member of the judiciary

within the course juris jurisdiction, this also includes a judge, when we say incumbent member of the judiciary these are the people who are currently holding office

Church

or religious sect like, the rabbi, the priest, and the imam for the Muslim culture.

Ship captain, airplane chief

they would solemnize marriages in cases of articulo mortis

Articulo mortis

the point of death wherein marriage is performed when either the bride or the groom is at the point of death and unable to sign a marriage license application or certificate.

The console general or vice console

when we say consulate, it is a system of the government that represents the country in another country location. Consul general Paul Raymond P. Cortezis a consul general in Dubai UAE, but he is from the government. He is a government official from the Philippines, his office he has the right to conduct marriage ceremony at his office as more or less like a representative from the government of the Philippines

1. Muslims or members of ethnic cultural communities,
2. Marriage is solemnized in another country which does not require a license
3. When the couples okay have been cohabitating exclusively for five years

Instances when the law exempt couple from securing valid marriage license

Marriage Ceremony

The law does not have rules on how the marriage shall be celebrated as long as the constructing parties personally appear before the solemnizing officer to make a declaration that they take each other as husband and wife and to have at least two persons of legal age standing as witnesses to the ceremony

Family of orientation

where in family one is born into, this would include the presence of probably the siblings, grandparents.

Family of procreation

the family one establishes, that will be through marriage

Socialization

the family engages themselves in the activities with the community. either they do some contribution to the community for improvement

1. Table satisfaction on sexual needs
2. Procreation and rearing of children
3. Provision of home
4. Socialization
5. Economic function
6. Educational functions
7. Religious functions
8. Health related functions

The different functions of the family (SHEER-PPT)

Anthropology

it is the social science that studies the origin and social relationship of human being

Paternity

It's a civil status between a father to the children begotten by him

Maternity

relationship of a mother to the children begotten to or by her

Filiation

Is a civil status of the child in relation to his father or mother. The relationship which exists between a child and child's parents whether the parents are of the same or the opposite sex

Natural Adoption

through biological. it is a biological relationship that exists between a father and a child, between a mother and a child, and under which it has legitimate and illegitimate. this is for the classification of children in the existence of absence of marriage between the mother and the father

Step Parenting

Are those parents who is married to the father, or mother of a child but who is not that child's father or mother. So, he is not a biological parent of that child

Stepmother

a woman who is the wife or partner of one's father after the divorce or separation of one's partner

Stepfather

a man who is the husband of the parent of one's mother after the divorce or separation of one’s parent.

1\. Authoritative

2\. Authoritarian

3\. Permissive

4\. Uninvolved

The 4 styles of parenting

Authoritative

• High in demand

• High in responsiveness, expectations

• It sets clear standards

Authoritarian

• There is less or low in responsiveness and warmth

• A high in demand and control and strictness

• This style of parenting has high expectation,

• Structured environment

• Emotional distant is prevalent

• Power over

• Sets clear rules with the implementation of punishment

Permissive

• Much more of accommodating, accepting, lenient

• The arrow is pointing on the left side, that indicates wherein there is a low level of strictness and control

• There is a high responsiveness and warmth

• It avoids confrontation

• It sets few rules and has low expectation

Uninvolved

• Would mean simply that there is an absence.

• It's a passive style

• Uninterested

• Neglectful

• Little time

• Competing priorities

• There is a low control or strictness

• Arrow is pointing down.

• There is low responsiveness and warmth

• This is where in the parent would leave the child on their own and focus more on themselves

1. Problem solver
2. Decision maker
3. Financial Manager
4. Gatekeeper
5. Wage earner
6. Environmentalist
7. The nurturer
8. Culture bearer
9. Health Manager

9 Family Functions and Roles (PDF-GWETCH)

Wage Earner

ones who supplies the bulk of the income of the family. So, whoever gives a bigger contribution on the expenses in the home

Financial Manager

the one who determine how many will be spent or how much will be spent

Problem Solver

Provides a solution to the problem

Decision Maker

Is the one who decides as to the area of lifestyle, and leisure time.

The Nurturer

Would be the caregiver of the family; hands-on care

Health Manager

Is the one who makes the health care decision; a decision maker pertaining to the health care area

Environmentalist

The one who does the recycle and not wasting electricity

Culture Bearer

Is someone who maintains a family, and community customs, sense of where they belong in the history

Gatekeeper

Allows information into and out of the family

Family Code of the Philippines (Series of 1987 E.O. 209)

RA 8533

Women and Child Labor Code

RA 679

Public Reproductive Health Law / Responsible Parenthood and Reproductive Health Act of 2012

RA 10354

The Special Protection of Children against Child Abuse Exploitation, and Discrimination Act

RA 7610

Amendment with regards to the child employment

RA 7658

1. To keep them in their company to support educate and instruct them by right precept and good example to provide for their upbringing in keeping with their means
2. To give them love and affection advice and counsel companionship and understanding
3. To provide them with moral and spiritual guidance, inculcate in them honesty, integrity, self-discipline, self-reliance, industry and thrift, stimulate their interest in civic affairs, and inspire in them compliance with the duties of citizenship
4. To furnish them with good and wholesome educational materials, supervise their activities, recreation and association with others, protect them from bad company, and prevent them from acquiring habits detrimental to their health, studies and morals

4 Rights and Responsibilities of the Parents

1. The right to be born well
2. The right to have a wholesome family that will provide him /her with love care understanding guidance and counseling, and moral and material security.
3. Right to a well-rounded development of his personality to the end that he may become happy, useful, and active member of the society
4. Right to have a balanced diet, adequate clothing, sufficient shelter, proper medical attention, and all the basic physical requirements of a healthy and vigorous life.
5. Right to be brought up in an atmosphere of morality and rectitude for the enrichment and the strengthening of his character
6. Right to an education commensurate with his abilities and to the development of his skills for the improvement of his capacity for service to him and his fellow men.
7. The right to full opportunities for safe and wholesome recreation and activities, individual as well as social for the wholesome use of his leisure hours.
8. Right to protection against exploitation, improper influences, hazards, and other conditions or circumstances pre-judicial to his physical, mental, emotional, social and moral development.
9. Right to live in a society that can offer him an environment free from pernicious influences and conclusive to the promotion of his health and the cultivation of his desirable traits and attributes
10. Right to care, assistance, and protection of the state particularly when his parents are guardian fail or are unable to provide him with his fundamental needs for growth, development, and improvement
11. Right to an efficient and honest government that will deepen his fate in democracy and inspire him with the morality of the constituted authorities both in their public and private lives.
12. Right to grow up as a free individual

12 Rights and Responsibilities of Children

1. Improve pregnancy planning and spacing and prevent unintended pregnancy
2. The availability of family planning services allows individuals to achieve desired birth spacing and family size.
3. Contributes to improve health outcomes for infants, children, women and families
4. Ensure quality education for all
5. Promote sustained economic growth
6. Ensure that every woman has access to quality, rights- based family planning services

The Goals of Family Planning

Contraceptive Services

There will be some in-health centers family planning services with contraceptives. they avail in teaching women and the husband in partaking how pills or contraceptive methods are being used

Pregnancy testing and counseling

This is especially much more emphasized especially if the family has too many children or its adolescent parenting, or teenage family, or parents

Basic infertility services

Family planning does not just include for those who wants to have kids but also for those who could not have kids but opted to understand and know how to conceive

1. Contraceptive Services
2. Pregnancy testing and counseling
3. Pregnancy achieving services including pre-conception health services, especially for the premier gravida
4. Basic infertility services
5. STD or STI sexually transmitted infections
6. Reproductive health services including patient education and counseling
7. Press and pelvic examination
8. Breast and cervical cancer screening
9. The STI and HIV preventive education, counseling testing, and referral

9 Family Planning Services

1. Abstinence
2. Lactation Amenorrhea
3. Calendar
4. Standard Day Method: Cycle Beads
5. Withdrawal
6. Basal Body Temperature (BBT)
7. Ovulation Method
8. Symptothermal

Planning Method (NATURAL)

1. Spermicide
2. Male Condom
3. Female Condom
4. Sponge (parous and nulliparous woman)
5. Diaphragm
6. Cervical Cap (parous and nulliparous)

Planning Method (BARRIER)

1. Transdermal Patch
2. Vaginal Ring
3. Combination Oral Contraceptive (COC)
4. Progestin-Only Pill (Mini Pill)
5. Injectable Progesterone (DMPA)
6. Transdermal Patch
7. Intradermal Implant (Nexplanon)
8. IUD (Copper T)

Planning Method (HORMONAL)

1. Female and Male Sterilization
2. Vasectomy
3. Tubal Ligation

Planning Method (SURGICAL)

Natural Method

No use of any hormones or any barriers or any chemicals. it would just be plain and simply natural way

Abstinence

abstaining from sexual contact

Lactation amenorrhea

This would be maximizing suppression of ovulation during breastfeeding; focuses mainly on breastfeeding from zero to six months

Calendar method

menstrual dating; listing the patient or the mother will have to record cycle of her menstrual her menstrual cycle good for six months, so she will record when it started, when it ended, for the entire six months.

The standard day method: cycle beads

you have to be much more focused. both the couple needs to motivate themselves, and record, and see, and observe which day that or which day of the cycle the fertility is

Withdrawal

coital act, out before the stage of ejaculation or orgasm for the male

Basal body temperature

identifies the Lucial phase of the menstrual cycle by postovulatory increase in basal body temperature

Ovulation method

Wherein it requires motivation and cooperation by male partner

Symptothermal method

Is based on cervical mucus monitoring, calendar calculation, or basal body temperature charting; Monitoring provides redundancy

Barrier method

there is a use of a material to prevent the entry of the sperm. certain materials would include either materials like latex or spermicides okay composed of hormonal

Spermicide

used in conjunction or together with another method. like those cervical cups, diaphragm, to aid in double protection.

Condom

a sheet of latex that a man can wear over his penis during intercourse

Female condom

Loose fitting sheet that fits inside the woman’s vagina

Diaphragm

Six percent and easy to insert - It needs a prescription and measures to avoid TSS

Cervical Cap

Can be left in the vagina up to 48 hours - For the diaphragm it has to be left in the vagina up to 24 hours and the _ can be left up to 48 hours

The transdermal patch

It releases hormones every day for three weeks so the woman's ovaries don't produce an egg

Vaginal Ring

It is like a ring shape that is has to be inserted in the vagina

Combination of oral contraceptive

These are just more or less like pills with a combination of estrogen, progesterone

Progestin only pill

No side effects

Injectable progesterone DMPA

It works by keeping the ovaries from releasing eggs or by changing the lining of the uterus, or the mucus of the cervix

Intradermal implant

It's a thin shape and it will be implanted subcutaneously under the dermis

IUD or the intrauterine device, or the copper

Shape is a t with a wiring - So, with this, it prevents a woman’s egg from being fertilized by the men’s sperm and changes the lining of her uterus

Tubal Ligation

Is a surgical procedure that blocks the fallopian tube of a woman and prevents an egg from being fertilized by the man's sperm

Vasectomy

Is a surgical procedure for men, it cuts the vas deferens that carry sperm from inside a man's body, through the penis and out

Fertility Awareness

Watching the changes of her body with regards to temperature, and so on and so forth

Cervical Mucus Method

It will determine as to the mucus consistency to check if um the elasticity would be on state of fertility or not

The Family Health Indices

what can be given services to the family from the community so the access to health services, clinical preventive services, with form of health teaching, environmental quality. so mostly during home visiting we can we can help

Human Sexuality

* This topic is all about the fundamentals behind everyone’s feelings, thoughts, and behavior
* It is also the way in which we experience ourselves as sexual beings
* Capacity to have erotic expression, experiences, response
* Encompasses sexual knowledge, physical make-up, beliefs, attitudes, values,

Sexual Health

The integration of the somatic emotional, intellectual, and social aspects of the sexual being, in ways that are positively enriching & that enhance personality, communication & love

1. Obtain accurate sexual knowledge
2. Clarify personal values
3. Responsible sexual decision making

Importance of Human Sexuality

1. Oral (0-1) - MOUTH
2. Anal (1-3) - ANUS
3. Phallic (3-6) - GENITALS
4. Latency (6-puberty) - NONE
5. Genital (puberty-beyond) - GENITALS

5 stages of FREUD’S PSYCHOSEXUAL STAGES OF DEVELOPMENT